In 1991, Daolang's first wife, Yang Na, abandoned Daolang and her daughter 40 days after her daughter was born and chose to leave alone.
She was not willing to live a hard life with Daolang, so she abandoned her husband and children and left.
After Daolang became famous, Yang Na wanted to reunite with Daolang, but at that time, Daolang already had a happy and stable life.
He also wrote a song called "Impulsive Punishment" in 2004, which is Dao lang's best interpretation of that marriage and a summary of his love life after so much experience.
Why did DaoLang's ex-wife abandon him and his newborn child? After she left, how did Dao Lang survive?
The story is far more exciting than you think.
01
Daolang was born in Neijiang, Sichuan Province in 1971, and his real name was Luo Lin.
Dao Lang was an introvert when he was a child, and his parents were both literary and artistic workers, so he loved music since he was a child.
He grew up with his brother, who was very strict with him when he was at home, but after he went out, his brother became the umbrella of Daolang.
Dao Lang because of his introverted and non-talkative personality, so he was often bullied when he was a child, and every time his brother would stand up for him, which made the relationship between the brothers good from an early age.
But people have been together for a long time, how can there be no contradictions, even brothers are no exception.
When Dao Lang was fifteen years old, he and his brother quarreled over a small matter, and the two quarreled more and more fiercely, and finally had a fight.
This behavior is inevitable to be scolded by his parents, Daolang as a younger brother, in contrast, he has been scolded a lot less, but Daolang's brother snatched the door out in a fit of anger.
I thought it was a child playing with his temper, but I didn't expect the accident to come suddenly.
After Dao Lang's brother ran away from home, he unfortunately suffered a car accident, and he left, but he could never come back.
This accident of his brother caused Dao Lang's heart to be greatly hit, he could not concentrate on his studies, and even once feared to return home.
So the 17-year-old Dao Lang left a message to his parents: "I love music, I want to go out and do a little, don't look for me!" ”
But when Dao Lang came out of the house, he only relied on a passion for blood, and only after he left home did he find that food and clothing had become the biggest problem.
Dream to have, but the bread of reality is more important!
In order to be able to live, Dao lang went to the bar as a resident singer and a drummer in the band, although he did not earn much money, but he could always make music, and he was also happy in his heart.
After several years of hard work, Dao Lang and a group of friends who love music formed their own band, and he toured around with the "Scalpel" band.
At that time, they had some small reputation in the local area, and they were still planning to go to the whole country and break out of the world.
However, due to the lack of proper management of the band, a group of young people had not yet made achievements, and the band disbanded.
The band's failure has caused trauma to Dao Lang's musical path, but the people who really love it will not give up lightly, and he is still running for his dreams.
On the way to Daolang, he met his first love in life.
At a gathering of friends, he met Yang Na, who had just been divorced, and although she was a few years older than Daolang, her beauty and temperament fascinated Daolang.
Dao Lang picked up the microphone and sang under the coaxing of his friend, and after only a few songs, Yang Na was attracted by Dao Lang's singing.
The two drank and chatted at the party, feeling like old friends they hadn't seen in a long time.
At that time, Yang Na had just experienced a failed relationship, and the appearance of DaoLang made her dim life shine into a ray of sunshine.
After Dao Lang finished his work in the song hall every day, he would accompany Yang Na, and the two often walked on the street to tell each other about each other's experiences.
Although he is introverted, he has his own set when it comes to chasing girls.
In order to please Yang Na's heart, Dao Lang wrote a lot of love songs to Yang Na, and under the attack of Dao Lang's sugar-coated shells, Yang Na agreed to Dao Lang's pursuit.
The life after the two fell in love was very sweet, although Daolang had nothing at that time, Yang Na was always by her side.
Not long after falling in love, Dao Lang proposed to Yang Na, but his parents did not want this marriage, because Yang Na had a marriage after all.
However, Yang Na already had Daolang's child, so his parents agreed to the marriage between the two.
After getting married, Daolang is still running for the dream of music, and people thought that Yang Na would be the woman behind Daolang, but her approach has surprised many people.
02
Because Yang Na was pregnant with a child, she gave up her work and stayed at home every day.
The life of the two can only be supported by daolang's meager income as a singer, and slowly, Yang Na is not satisfied with the life at that time.
She wanted to live a more comfortable life, rather than living a hard and tight life all the time, and she wanted Dao Lang to give up her musical dreams several times.
Dao Lang would say to her every time: "Wife, you can rest assured, I have been working hard, I will give you and your children a better life." ”
Every time Dao Lang made a promise to his wife, it was a kind of encouragement to himself, but what he didn't know was that Yang Na was already tired of this life.
Although the two people's lives are still together, Yang Na's heart has long since belonged to Dao Lang.
In 1991, Daolang's daughter Luo Tian was born, and they all said that her daughter was her father's little cotton jacket, and regarded her daughter as her father in her hand, and Daolang was not surprised.
The birth of his daughter made Dao Lang feel that life was more exciting, and he was determined to let his daughter and wife have good living conditions.
One day, Dao Lang came home after busy work, originally he bought some delicious food and wanted to eat with Yang Na, but everything he saw when he pushed open the door was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
There was only my daughter who was still asleep on the bed, and next to it was a note: "The life I want now is not what I want, take care of my daughter, I am gone." ”
This is the note that Yang Na left for Dao lang before leaving, she abandoned her newborn daughter and Dao Lang and left alone...
Yang Na's departure caused a heavy blow to Dao Lang's heart, and looking at his daughter, who was only born forty days ago, his tears couldn't help but fall.
But no matter what, life will go on, Dao Lang waited for his daughter to grow up a little, he handed the child into the hands of his parents, and he once again embarked on the journey of dreams.
The wind in Hainan soothed the scars in his heart and blew the temperature for his life!
Daolang traveled to many cities to pursue his musical dreams, and in 1994, he came to Hainan alone, where he met the lover who accompanied him all his life.
In Hainan's music circle, he met Zhu Mei, a Girl from Xinjiang, who was both a foreigner who was wandering outside, and music became their dependence on each other.
The two often sat on the beach and sang, and Daolang told Zhu Mei about the pain in his heart, and at that time, Zhu Mei became the harbor of his soul.
In this way, two people who love each other come together, and although Daolang has had a failed marriage, Zhu Mei is willing to accompany him.
In 1995, Daolang followed Zhu Mei back to Xinjiang, and the vast world of the desert became a new stage for Daolang.
He set up his own music studio and became the music director of an audio-visual company in Xinjiang, producing excellent records such as "Love Songs of the Western Regions" and "Love Songs of the Great Desert".
It seems that Dao Lang's music career has begun to improve, but the heartache and tears in it are only known to him, but fortunately, Zhu Mei's company has allowed him to overcome the difficulties.
When Dao Lang's studio was first established, because he was not very popular, few cooperation found him.
In order to help Daolang's career development, Zhu Mei did not hesitate to borrow money to help him, and many friends advised Zhu Mei: "Is it really worth it for you to do this?" ”
Zhu Mei never cared about other people's opinions, she always believed in Daolang in her heart, and she always believed that Daolang would break out of the Chinese music scene sooner or later.
In 1997, Zhu Mei married the potential stock in her heart, and after marriage, she gave birth to a daughter Luo Haoyue for Daolang.
Zhu Mei knew that Dao Lang had always been thinking about her daughter Luo Tian, who was still in her hometown, so she took Luo Tian to Dao Lang's side and reunited the father and daughter.
Zhu Mei understood Dao Lang's heart, she took the initiative to give up her career, and the focus of her life was on the family and children.
She is never partial to her two daughters, and sometimes she will love Luo Tian, who recognizes Zhu Mei as a stepmother, and the family is always happy and harmonious together.
Zhu Mei took good care of the family, which allowed Dao Lang to focus more on his career, and his musical path finally ushered in a new dawn.
03
In 2004, Dao Lang released the song "The First Snow of 2002", the lyrics of which sang Dao Lang's gratitude and admiration for Zhu Mei.
At that time, this song did not have any packaging and publicity, but once it was launched, it was fired from Xinjiang all over the country, and for a time, there was a song of Daolang everywhere.
You must know that in that era, there were countless "heroes and heroes" in the Chinese music scene, and the songs of Jay Chou and Lin Junjie were being sung by people.
The explosion of Dao lang's singing voice is something that many people did not expect, and the sales volume of his albums has reached several million, if you count pirated albums, the sales should be more than ten million.
Since then, he has launched classic songs such as "Lover" and "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing", and Daolang's hoarse voice has become the most popular song at that time.
With the fame, Dao Lang's life has improved, and he has let Zhu Mei and his two daughters live a good life, although it is not a family entanglement, but it is also much stronger than before.
Just when Dao Lang was still immersed in the sweet life, the ex-wife who abandoned him and his daughter came to the door.
Perhaps it was Daolang's success that made Yang Na see Daolang's talent again, and she wanted to return to Daolang's side.
Although Dao Lang had been deeply involved in the relationship between the two, he could not leave Zhu Mei, who accompanied him, and he would not choose to return to Yang Na, who had hurt him.
At that time, Dao Lang wrote a song called "Impulsive Punishment", which he used to tell his ex-wife: Impulse will make true love disappear.
In Dao Lang's heart, only Zhu Mei, who accompanied him through the wind and rain, was the best partner for his life.
After this farce ended, Yang Na disappeared from everyone's vision, she was not willing to accompany Dao Lang to suffer hardships, and now she wants to save it, I am afraid it is a bit ridiculous.
Dao Lang was not anxious because of the momentary popularity, but more focused on the creation of music, and he sang countless classic songs in those years.
Dao Lang basically releases his new album every year, and also holds his own concerts around the country.
Occasionally, he will stop his footsteps, spend some time with his family, and use his musical skills to cultivate a new generation of musical talents.
Many people say this when commenting on Daolang: He does not have the lack of confidence after flying in the impetuous music world!
It is precisely because of Daolang's down-to-earth and peaceful mentality that he will be safe after experiencing strong winds and waves, which also allows him to go farther and farther on the road of music.
04
Since 2012, Dao Lang has gradually faded from everyone's vision, and people can occasionally hear his hoarse voice.
Perhaps it is the years that have smoothed out his edges and corners, he is no longer on the stage like the "Prince of the Western Regions" of that year, and he begins to return to his family and behind the scenes.
The apprentice he cultivated, Yun Duo, has also achieved great achievements in music, and she has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times and has become the pride in Daolang's heart.
Now Daolang is 51 years old, and he and his wife Zhu Mei have also gone through 25 years of ups and downs hand in hand.
From the original nothingness to today's sweet and happy life, no matter how much heartache and tears there were, Zhu Mei never wanted to leave Daolang.
And his two daughters have already grown up, and both of them have their own lives, and basically don't need Daolang and Zhu Mei to worry about it.
Now Dao Lang and his wife's living state is that they occasionally attend events, pick up their bags to travel when they are fine, and the two of them work together to see the scenery they walked together!
Looking back at the life of Daolang's ex-wife Yang Na, in comparison, her life is relatively bleak, and she is still living alone.
Although she once wanted to find Dao Lang to reunite, she did not get her wish, and now she is still busy with her life.
Dao Lang has experienced too many setbacks and tribulations along the way, and when he was young, the musical road was not smooth, and he was hurt in his feelings.
Later, he met Zhu Mei, who had stayed with him all his life, and his music career also improved, but he was once again questioned by the outside world...
But in any case, Daolang did not forget his original intention, did not lose himself in the life of suffering, and finally gained a foothold in the Chinese music scene.
Many people say that Daolang's songs are liked because he sings authentically and the feelings of the songs are attractive enough.
You know, behind the real feelings of Daolang's songs, it is exactly what he has experienced!
I wish Mr. Daolang and his wife a happy life and good health!
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Editor| Ah Hu
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