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How witty is Sha Yi who married Hu Ke?
When it comes to couples in the entertainment industry, Sha Yihu can definitely be regarded as a model.
The two have been married for 11 years, love without marriage, there are two elderly people on the top, and two lovely sons on the bottom.
The family lives under the same roof, and the beauty is enviable.
The way husband and wife get along with the elderly on both sides is textbook-level.
However, such a couple was not favored at the beginning.
Especially at that time, Sha Yi fell into a bottleneck period and could not receive the drama for a long time.
But Hu Ke has become the premier host of domestic satellite TELEVISION with "Hu Kexing Feeling".
But even so, the two still successfully consummated their marriage.
Now 11 years later, looking at this marriage, I know that Sha Yi was much more resourceful than the average person at that time.
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In 1978, Sha Overflow was born in a literary and artistic family in the northeast.
His parents are both critics and actors, and their residence is located opposite the Changchun Film Studio.
The surrounding environment has a subtle impact on the sand overflow.
At a very young age, Sha Yi began to study saxophone, began to study lyrics and composition at the Jilin Art Academy in high school, and was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts at the age of 19.
It can be said that Sha Yi's life path has been planned from the beginning and has been working in this direction.
At the same time, Sha Yi was also lucky, and Heaven did not live up to his efforts.
When Sha Yi had not yet graduated, he participated in the hit drama directed by Zhang Zien, "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang".
After graduating from Sha Yi, he was successfully admitted to the Repertory Theatre of the Political Department of the Air Force.
And this is the starting point of Shayi's career.
In 2002, Shang Jing, a famous director of the Air Force Political Department Drama Theater, prepared to shoot a military-themed sitcom "The Story of the Cooking Class".
Director Shang Jing's employment style is that he loves to give priority to the actors in the troupe.
Take "The Story of the Cooking Class", the main actors in the play, Hong Jiantao, Zhou Xiaobin, Yan Ni, Jiang Chao, and Mao Bao, are all actors in the Air Force Political Department Drama Troupe.
At this time, although Sha Yi had just graduated and did not have too many works, he was still selected by Shang Jing to play "Shuai Hu" in the play with the good image of "Military Art School Grass".
It is with this drama that Sha Yi won the "Golden Star Award" for Best Actor in one fell swoop.
This drama not only created a small highlight of Sha Yi, but also allowed director Shang Jing to discover the shining points on Sha Yi's body.
For a long time after that, the names of Shang Jing, Sha Yi, and Yan Ni were tied together and frequently appeared on the TV screen.
It is precisely for this reason that the three of them are also good friends who talk about everything in life.
Until 2004, Yan Ni's feelings broke down, and she once fell into the shadows and could not walk out.
Sha Yi and other friends took turns to go to the door to persuade her, but Yan Ni still did not get better.
Shang Jing couldn't look at it anymore, and went to the door and scolded: "Isn't it divorced, you still can't go?" ”
After the scolding, Shang Jing dropped the script of "The Tale of Wulin" and said, "I have a drama here, so you say you don't want to act!" ”
After hearing this, Yan Ni reluctantly lifted up, and her eyes hoped to xiang Shangjing: "Is it the heroine!" ”
Shang Jing was suddenly not angry: "Yes, you are definitely the big heroine, Sha Yi came to play the male lead, the three of us are doing well, this drama can definitely be fired!" ”
After Yan Ni listened, she squeezed two words from between her teeth, "I act."
At this time, Yan Ni held her breath and wanted to prove herself to her ex-husband.
Sha Yi and Shang Jing, who are friends, know this, and the two also try their best to fulfill their friends' wishes.
Sure enough, "The Tale of Wulin" was a great success as soon as it was broadcast, and Yan Ni also completely went out of the circle with this.
Sha Yi was sincerely happy for his friend's success, but gradually, he also had his own troubles in his heart.
The success of "The Legend of Wulin" did allow Sha Yi to accumulate a certain amount of fans, but it also allowed Sha Yi to be bound to "Bai Zhantang" for a long time and could not enter other roles.
Gradually, not many crews were willing to take the risk of coming to Sha Yi to act.
He never dreamed that this drama would actually cut off his own drama path.
For such a long time, the only award that Sha Yi can get his hands on is still the "Golden Star Award" best actor when he just graduated.
During this time, even Yao Chen and Yu Entai, who were not very famous before, were also soft on the play.
Watching his friends explode one by one, Sha Yi couldn't help but feel a little anxious in his heart.
After Yan Ni learned of this, she specially went to the door to advise: "People's luck in this life is counted, sometimes too smooth is not necessarily a good thing, rest assured, your good luck will come soon." ”
Under the persuasion of Yan Ni, Sha Yi gradually put away his impetuousness and began to study the script.
The two did not think that Sha Yi's good luck had indeed come, but not in his career.
Sha Yi met the fateful Hu Ke.
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Compared with the smooth sailing in the early days of Sha Yi, Hu Ke's infancy was obviously not so happy.
Hu Ke is 3 years older than Sha Yi and was born in an ordinary working family in Zhejiang, and her parents went to the city to work when she was 6 months old.
It can be said that Hu Ke's impression of her parents has been a little vague since she can remember, and even if she later moved to live with her parents, she did not behave so intimately.
It is precisely for this reason that parents have always harbored guilt for Hu Ke.
In many important choices in Hu Ke's life, Hu Ke himself advocated, and his parents were not good at interfering.
Later, by chance, Hu Ke was admitted to the Broadcasting Department of the Communication University of China, and directly joined Phoenix Satellite TV after graduation.
However, unlike Sha Yi, Hu Ke did not get great appreciation for this, but for various reasons, he only worked for half a year before being swept out of the house by Taili.
Hu Ke did not want to give up his hosting path, and turned around and joined the "Little Dragon Club" column.
With her excellent image and hosting ability, Hu Ke won the host of the other three programs of Hong Kong Satellite TV in one fell swoop, becoming the premier host in the station.
This year was only 1998, which was the second year that Sha Yi had just been admitted to the military arts.
By 2001, when Sha Yi graduated, Hu Ke had already begun to enter the film and television circle.
In 2002, when Sha Yi won the "Golden Star Award" for Best Actor, Hu Ke also won the Best Actress of the "Beijing University Student Film Festival" with "Chat".
In 2005, when Sha Yi starred in "The Legend of Wulin", Tianjin Satellite TV also tailored "Hu Kexing Feeling" for Hu Ke, which ranked 11th in the national ratings, refreshing the best result in the history of Tianjin Satellite TV.
I have to say that sometimes fate is so created to make people.
It is just different from Sha Yi's sluggish performance since then, Hu Ke has relied on the springboard of Tianjin Satellite TV to develop in many fields and become a hot new star in China.
The two struggle in their respective fields, like parallel lines, moving forward and unable to communicate.
Until 2009, Sha Yi had no drama to shoot, and instead wanted to increase his exposure by participating in TV shows.
As a TV program that has been running for five years, "Hu Kexing Feeling" has also produced aesthetic fatigue and urgently needs to inject fresh blood to increase the degree of topic.
The two sides hit it off, and Sha Yi was invited to participate in "Hu Kexing Feeling".
Two destined men were finally able to meet.
In the program, Hu Ke's liveliness left a deep impression on Sha Yi.
And Sha Yi's talkative humor also deeply attracted Hu Ke.
The short time together made both of them feel good.
After the show, the two exchanged contact information with each other and became friends in private.
The two eat together, go shopping together, although they have not broken the relationship, but the clear-eyed people seem to be a couple?
Once when the two went out and were bumped into by Yan Ni, Sha Yi hurriedly explained: "We are just ordinary friends." ”
Yan Ni rolled her eyes when she heard this, and said in a bad way: "Your liking for others is almost written on your face, what else is there to hide!" ”
However, when Yan Ni asked when to confess, Sha Yi was torn apart and only said wait.
Fortunately, this waiting time is not long, sha yi and Hu Ke will soon meet again in the "Breaking" crew.
After spending time together in the crew, Sha Yi and Hu Ke also understood their hearts, but this layer of window paper was never broken.
The onlookers looked anxious, but they couldn't help much.
Hu Ke was also waiting for Sha Yi to confess, but seeing that the shooting was about to end, Sha Yi still showed no sign of confession.
Hu Ke finally couldn't help it, and took the initiative to call Sha Yi and asked, "What are you doing?" ”
Who knew that Sha Yi was like no one else, and replied lightly: "What didn't I do, I haven't come back for a long time, and I'm packing up my things at home?" ”
Upon hearing this, Hu Ke suddenly had a plan and tentatively said, "I'll come and help you clean up!" ”
Hu Ke actually wanted to use this sentence to imply that Sha Yi was willing to serve as the hostess of Sha Yi's family, and he was waiting to confess.
Even she had fantasized about the sweetness of the two of them cleaning up the house together after going to Sha Yi's house.
But Hu Ke did not expect that Sha Yi's response to her was actually two cold words "no".
This made Hu Ke angry, and after hanging up the phone on the spot, he deleted all of Sha Yi's contact information.
At the same time, Hu Ke secretly swore in his heart that he would never speak to Sha Yi again.
However, when Sha Yi's phone rang the next day, Hu Ke's heart could not be hardened.
She said to herself in her heart, "I don't have a word with him, just listen to what he says!" ”
After the phone was connected, Sha Yi's first words were: "What are you doing, come out, I invite you to dinner!" ”
As soon as Hu Ke heard this, he subconsciously agreed, and before she could regret it, Sha Yi had already hung up the phone.
This made Hu Ke have a stomach grievance in his heart and nowhere to vent.
In a fit of rage, Hu Ke decided not to go and let go of the sand overflowing pigeons.
Hu Ke fell on the couch and said that he was just going to make up for it.
But I couldn't sleep when I turned over and over.
"Am I going too far in doing this..."
"Is he really angry..."
"Will he be in any hurry when he looks for me..."
Hu Ke had actually forgiven Sha Yi in his heart, but when he thought about it, why did Sha Yi call himself, he would have to run over.
Thinking about it, Hu Ke finally came up with a "best of both worlds" method, first drying the sand overflow, which is also a test of the sand overflow.
In fact, Hu Ke finally did not have the heart to let Sha Yi wait too long, and after about half an hour, the elaborately dressed Hu Ke appeared in front of Sha Yi.
It was this meal that the two exchanged thoughts and finally established a relationship.
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After becoming lovers, Sha Yi and Hu Ke can finally be sweet and sweet together.
But soon, the two were at odds.
Sha Yi's grinning, macho personality, coupled with the lack of romance in his bones, led him to ignore many details of the couple's life.
And Hu Ke is very insecure because of the lack of parental love since childhood, and longs to show "love" with the ritual sense of life.
It is precisely because of these differences that the two have conflicts on many key issues.
Once, Sha Yi and Hu Ke ate dinner and then walked around the house.
Sha Yi didn't know what kind of stimulation he was receiving, and said directly: "Let's get married..."
Sha Yi said that during this time, his career was very unhappy, and he wanted to get married and start a family before considering the problem of starting a business.
"Starting a family" seems to be no problem to say, but in Hu Ke, it seems to have changed its taste.
"What is this, is this a marriage proposal?"
Even girls who no longer pursue a sense of ceremony are cautious in the face of marriage proposals, not to mention Hu Ke's lack of security since childhood.
Hu Ke did not ask Sha Yi to prepare a flower ring, nor how many people could witness the blessing.
But at least there should be a complete confession.
Hu Ke was a little unhappy in his heart, but he didn't say anything excessive, just said: "This marriage proposal is also too informal, let me think about it again." ”
Hu Ke actually hoped in his heart that Sha Yi could re-prepare and make at least a decent confession.
But Hu Ke did not expect that Sha Yi would actually take this sentence as a refusal.
Later, Hu Ke went to film in other places, and the two did not have contact for a while.
When Hu Ke finished filming and was preparing to share his joy with Sha Yi, he received Sha Yi's "breakup text message".
Hu Ke suddenly felt that his brain was blank, and subconsciously took out his mobile phone to call Sha Yi, and called several times in a row before connecting.
Sha Yi said on the phone: "Let's break up, I am 33 years old this year, I can't wait..."
Hu Ke just felt a huge anger and panic: "Meet first, even if you want to break up, you have to meet and talk to me!" ”
After Hu Ke hung up the phone, he hurried to the room where the two lived together.
As soon as I entered the door, I saw Sha Yi packing up her things.
Sha Yi also noticed Hu Ke, stopped the movement of his hand and turned back and said, "I have already thought about it, if I don't get married, we will break up..."
This almost threatened marriage proposal made Hu Ke stay where he was, not knowing how to answer for a long time.
Disagree, she doesn't want to break up.
Agree, she is unwilling.
Sha Yi saw that Hu Ke did not answer, so he continued to pack his things.
It wasn't until Sha Yi packed up his bags and was ready to leave that Hu Ke came back to his senses.
"You give me back!" I agree! ”
In the end, the love for Sha Yi still overcame the desire in his heart for marriage proposal.
Hu Ke agreed to Sha Yi's "forced marriage".
In February 2011, Sha Yi and Hu Ke held a wedding.
Only a few months after the marriage, Hu Ke left Sha Yi's first son at the hospital.
An unromantic marriage proposal, plus a Fengzi marriage, became the regret of Hu Ke's life, and this regret could not be repaired.
So much so that when Hu Ke mentioned this matter in a show, he lost his voice and cried bitterly.
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After getting married, Sha Yi's acting career still did not improve, and the family lived in Beijing very poorly.
Especially after the birth of Sha Yi and Hu Ke's second child, it is even more difficult to afford the family's expenses with Sha Yi's unstable income.
When Hu Ke's mother learned of this, she asked the young couple to move to her own home to reduce her expenses.
A large family huddled together, whether it is life or work is very inconvenient.
But my mother-in-law never said a word of complaint.
Especially when the outside world mocks Sha Yi's "little white face", his father-in-law will always stand up for his dignity.
These things, Sha Yi has always remembered.
Sha Yi was eaten and wrapped up by his mother-in-law for four years, until under the order of his wife, Sha Yi's career began to transform.
From the beginning of the focus on the film and television industry, it began to change to film and television-based, sketches, variety shows and other aspects of development.
Especially in the variety show, Sha Yi, with its humorous and talkative characteristics, quickly captured the hearts of the audience and became popular again.
For a time, the sand overflow tablets continued.
Sha Yi also spent 40 million yuan to buy a mansion at the first time he earned money.
Sha Yi handed over the house to his father-in-law and mother-in-law and proudly said, "Mommy and Daddy, I will say nothing in the future that I can't let your old two suffer!" ”
With that, the family happily moved into the mansion.
Even now, Sha Yi has saved enough money to buy a second house, but he is still reluctant to move out.
Being able to put the relationship with his father-in-law and mother-in-law to this point, Sha Yi can also be regarded as the only one.
At the beginning of Sha Yi's and Hu Ke's acquaintance, the three views of the two were not too compatible.
There are still many contradictions between the two.
Even the two said they couldn't go to the door.
But even so, the two still work together to the present, and even get along with the elderly on both sides very harmoniously.
It can be seen that marriage sometimes does not have so many reasons, but whether the two can decide to go on together.
As long as the two can persist in going hand in hand, then even if there are many difficulties, they will take the initiative to make way for you.
As Luo Xiang said: "Love is not a feeling, because the feeling will disappear, and love should be more of an insistence..."
A good marriage is inseparable from the joint efforts of the two.
A good marriage can often achieve each other.
I hope that everyone can find their true love and grow old with their true love.
Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son.