What does true love look like?
Remember a few years ago, the marriage between Mr. Yang Zhenning and Ms. Weng Fan caused heated discussion, the reason is naturally the two people's disparity in age, perhaps in the hearts of traditional Chinese, such an old husband and young wife will still seem incompatible with the whole society, but no matter what the rumors of outsiders, since the two love each other, they should also be worthy of respect.
Recently, there is also a couple with a huge age difference that has received people's attention, the female protagonist Ma Yuqin is now 85 years old, the male protagonist Li Yucheng is only 53 years old, is a typical pair of "old wives and young husbands", people who do not know the truth are likely to think that the two have just married, and the men covet women's money will be together. But the truth is that the two have been married for 27 years. How did this marriage come about, and what did the two go through in it?
Judging from the age of the two, the woman is 32 years older than the man, which is definitely a huge difference in age. The man, Li Yucheng, is an authentic Northeastern Man, and the woman Ma Yuqin is an ordinary woman living in Li Yucheng's neighboring village. The two married in 1996, when Li Yucheng was only 26 years old, but Ma Yuqin was already 58 years old, which was more than enough for Li Yucheng to be a mother. However, although the whole social atmosphere is not very open, the two still walk together in the face of various criticisms.
Why does Li Yucheng have a deep affection for Ma Yuqin?
In 1982, the 44-year-old Ma Yuqin was already a well-known local duo actor. Indeed, in the black land of the northeast, we have to admit that the duo turn had a great attraction for them, which was the only way for people with limited entertainment at that time to live and entertain. At this time, Li Yucheng was just a Mao child who had just finished his 12th birthday, perhaps he didn't even know what it was for, but when he followed the adults to watch the two turn the stage, he was deeply attracted by Ma Yuqin's performance on the stage, and Ma Yuqin, who was petite and exquisite and light as a swallow, suddenly became the deepest impression that Li Yucheng could not shake off when he was a teenager.
But after all, he was still young, and there was no place to attract Ma Yuqin, and even he didn't have any achievements, how could he dare to take action?
At this time, Li Yucheng longed to grow up quickly, so that he could learn the two-person rotation, and then have the opportunity to perform the two-person rotation with the goddess of his dreams. Maybe such an idea seems crazy to outsiders, but Li Yufei is constantly working hard for this goal, and he longs for the day when his dream will come true.
Finally, at the age of 24, he finally had the opportunity to perform a duo with the goddess in his mind, and he also realized his youthful ideals. At this time, Li Yucheng found that he and Ma Yuqin's performance on the stage was very tacit, and there were many similar life hobbies offstage, which gave him the idea of further action.
As the two spend more time together, Li Yucheng finds himself deeply in love with Ma Yuqin, despite the age gap between the two. And 12 years have passed since he met her, at this time Ma Yuqin is already an elderly woman with a face full of folds, and Ma Yuqin has become a widow at this time. If Li Yucheng had acted hastily at this time, he would have been resisted by Ma Yuqin, and there would have been all kinds of gossip.
At this time, Li Yucheng wanted to suppress his own enthusiasm, after all, he was also afraid that this would scare Ma Yuqin, but as the time spent together became more and more frequent, Li Yucheng's love for Ma Yuqin became more and more intense, he didn't care about other people's rumors, he just wanted to fight for himself. In the end, he decided to pluck up the courage to tell Ma Yuqin his thoughts, and at this time Li Yucheng thought that although he was unsuccessful, at least he should let Ma Yuqin understand his intentions.
Indeed, in the face of Li Yucheng's sudden confession, Ma Yuqin did not react, and naturally did not agree to Li Yucheng at the beginning, because from the perspective of age alone, Ma Yuqin's eldest son was 2 years older than Li Yucheng, such a large age gap, how could she easily accept it?
In the face of Ma Yuqin's hesitation, Li Yucheng did not intend to give up, he worked harder to prove his sincerity to Ma Yuqin, and in the end, Ma Yuqin also chose to accept him. However, marriage is not just a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, and Ma Yuqin has her own son, and first of all, she must discuss this matter with her sons.
The 58-year-old Ma Yuqin told her sons what she thought, and said to her two sons: "My mother's life has been too hard, and now that you are grown up, I should live my own life." ”
Suddenly hearing such "good news" from their mother, as sons, they can't accept it, maybe if Ma Yuqin finds two people of similar age, she won't have any opinions, after all, her mother also has to have her own life, but this stepfather is younger than them, which makes the two sons how to agree. Therefore, they began to find ways to prevent Ma Yuqin from marrying Li Yucheng. They first hid the family's hukou book so that the two could not obtain legal approval, and then said that if the mother insisted on marrying Li Yucheng, then the two would break off the mother-son relationship between the two. It can be seen that the relationship is already very tense.
On the side of Li Yucheng's family, it is also a sword.
Ma Yuqin's age is even older than Li Yucheng's parents, which is first of all something that Li Yucheng's parents are difficult to accept, and at this time, Ma Yuqin is destined to have difficulty giving birth to a child for Li Yucheng, which is really unbearable for Li Yucheng's parents with traditional concepts, after all, their second elder also longs to have their own grandchildren. Therefore, for this crazy idea of his son, the second elder naturally expressed his refusal.
Similarly, the matter of the two people gradually spread in the village, and even became the talk of many neighbors after tea and dinner. As for why there is such a big effect, the reason is that the two still have a bit of a family relationship, according to the traditional family generation, Ma Yuqin's deceased husband is Li Yucheng's cousin, then Ma Yuqin is Li Yucheng's aunt, although there is no corresponding blood relationship, but just from the point of view of generational division, the two will not be recognized by the villagers, after all, this is a ridiculous thing in itself.
In the face of the obstruction of their families and the various criticisms of the villagers, the two did not flinch, in their view, this is all a test for them, the two decided to desperately, and finally walked together. In 1996, the two received their marriage licenses, and at the wedding ceremony, only the two of them were present, and although everything seemed bleak, the two eventually succeeded together. Then you have to start your own life.
The first thing the two of them want to solve is to solve the problem of accommodation, after all, neither of them has the approval of both families, so they need to build their own house. On top of their fields, they simply built a small house and lived like this.
This marriage, which was not favored by the world, quickly attracted attention in the local area, and Ma Yuqin herself was also a little famous in the local area, and for a while, more and more media came to report on the affairs of the two of them. In the end, the two also got the request of "Lu Yu has a date" to tell the love story of the two of them on the show. After the show was broadcast, the two became well-known celebrities in the country, of course, the premise is that the two are very different in age.
After all, in the era at that time, such a disparity in age was itself a controversial topic, coupled with the fact that the husband and wife continued to leave the country, allowing them to gain more exposure and giving them a wide range of social influence. Of course, there are all kinds of criticisms, and many people have expressed their blessings to them, after all, their marriage is also a good expression of love.
At that time, some program groups paid for Ma Yuqin's wrinkle surgery, hoping that they could persist for a long time. But at that time, Ma Yuqin did not take any action.
The turning point of events happened later. It turned out that when she was 68 years old, Ma Yuqin was full of old fashion, when walking on the street, the two people were facing all kinds of pointing, and because the two had become local celebrities, so this made Ma Yuqin very touched, she decided to do plastic surgery, at least not to let others point from the appearance.
In the end, Ma Yuqin underwent plastic surgery, making her 68-year-old face look the same as her 30s. But this effect did not last long, after all, human aging is irreversible, even if there are some other means, but in the end it is necessary to face reality.
If it is said that in the long marriage of the two people, they have not faced the crisis of divorce, it is naturally impossible.
In the year when Ma Yuqin was 75 years old, she accidentally fell into a fracture, plus she was too old to get out of bed for more than half a year, at this time, Li Yucheng stayed in front of the bed and took care of her bitterly, giving her a and urine until Ma Yuqin recovered.
But because Ma Yuqin was fractured, Li Yucheng almost spent all the family's savings. At this time, they also face the threat of poverty. And from the process of taking care of Ma Yuqin, Li Yucheng thought about the situation in his old age, because Ma Yuqin was too old, it was inevitable to go ahead of him, and because the two did not have a son and a half daughter, Li Yucheng was very worried about the problem of who would take care of him after he was old.
To this end, the two also specially appeared on the show to solve this problem. When the experts present heard that Li Yucheng chose to divorce because of poverty and consideration of things behind him, he expressed great regret and thought that he was a scumbag.
But at this time, Ma Yuqin said that during his illness, Li Yucheng took good care of her and he was very good to himself. It's not what the experts say.
With the help of the show, the two eventually reconciled.
Nowadays, with the continuous development of the network, Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin have also joined the live broadcast army, under the network lens, the elderly Ma Yuqin from the old business, singing the two people turn, perhaps many people think that they are winning eyeballs and getting attention.
Although the two have been facing various criticisms over the years, fortunately, the two have always stuck together. Maybe the love between the two of them is a miracle in itself.