I believe that many people have encountered this situation, when girls propose to break up, most of the boys will directly agree, rarely will drag mud and water, do you know why this is?
Before understanding the reasons, we must understand one thing, when boys or girls seriously propose to break up, they are after a long period of struggle and thinking, not overnight. If there is no long-term thinking and struggle, generally no one will easily propose to break up, unless the other party does not take the relationship too seriously, otherwise, it will not be easy to propose the two words of breakup. So, why do most boys directly agree when girls propose to break up?
First, I was carried away by emotions
Many people think that boys are very rational in terms of feelings, but in fact, it is not all like this. When a person and a boy face their feelings, they are also very emotional, especially when they are particularly fond of people. Therefore, when a emotional fact that makes him unacceptable is placed in front of him, often his emotions have already washed over his mind, and his brain processing mechanism tells him that the best way to get rid of it is to agree. So, even if he didn't feel much sad at the time, the moment he agreed, he had already begun to plant the seeds of regret.
Second, I have long been out of love, and I don't want to mention breaking up first
When facing feelings, many people like to drag mud and water. Don't like making your own decisions, afraid that such a decision will hurt the other person. Therefore, under the premise of not loving, step by step force the other party to propose a breakup to achieve the purpose of breaking up. After all, if you propose to break up yourself, the other party may not agree, and it may cause a lot of unnecessary trouble. Therefore, using this way to carry out coercive breakups to achieve their ends is a very typical scumbag's means.
Third, I have long thought of such a result
In the real world of feelings, no one is dull. Two people have been together for a long time, they will definitely be familiar with each other, some slight emotional differences, and the feeling of getting along, will be truly reflected in each other's senses. Therefore, when one of the two parties who are together gradually stops loving, then the other party's psychological plan has begun to write a draft. Therefore, the moment the breakup is proposed, the plan that has been hidden in the heart will be taken out and used, and that's it.
Fourth, respect each other's decisions
Some boys are really honest, and in their world, the decision to respect girls has long been engraved in their blood. Therefore, when the girl proposed to break up, even if she was sad, sometimes for the sake of face, and in order to make the other party not sad, he chose to agree to her. Sometimes they think that such respect and non-entanglement are also a kind of protection for them and themselves. After all, if she really loved herself, she wouldn't have made such a request and decision. So the last thing she could do was to let go of her hand.
In fact, there is a progress bar in the world of feelings, how the relationship between two people develops, the progress bar will have real feedback, which is a reason with the game upgrade. If two people can bear the big boss of life, then naturally it will escalate, and if they can't hold it, it is doomed to be scattered in one shot or two. Therefore, feelings must be seriously managed, and only serious management can go to the end.