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In 1983, Yang Shuo was born in Yichun City, Heilongjiang, to an ordinary family.
His father had a bad temper and was more traditional in his thinking, and always thought that "filial piety comes out of the stick", but his mother was gentle and virtuous, and every time his father scolded him, he would always protect Xiao Yangshuo.
Take Yang Shuo's words, from childhood to adulthood, every time his father beat him, he can remember, and left a deep "mark" in his heart.
His father's "love" for him was too harsh and methodless, and under a long period of scolding, Yang Shuo gradually became autistic and inferior.
In fact, Yang Shuo's father hopes that he will not follow the old path of his parents, and hopes that he can study hard, find a stable job in the future, marry and have children, and live a stable and stable life.
Every time she was beaten, her mother would stand up for the first time to protect Xiao Yang Shuo, but each time she would only let Yang Shuo be beaten more severely.
In the face of his father's "stick", Yang Shuo is not as lively as other little boys, and he never dares to be mischievous at home; in the face of his mother's heartache, every time he will pretend to be like no one else, less worry about his mother.
After becoming famous, Yang Shuo commented on his father like this: "Many things, he evaluates me according to the ideas of adults, but the final result often ends in injustice." ”
In Yang Shuo's view, his father had a big problem with his childhood education, and even he didn't know that in the future he would become the next father and educate his son in this way.
There is rebellion in the hearts of children, Yang Shuo is no exception, his father loudly reprimanded him for studying well in school, but Yang Shuo, who was often beaten, would only secretly contradict his father.
Yang Shuo had a rebellious psychology towards his studies, and he either slept or ran away in class, and after class, he also became a "cruel person" in the eyes of his classmates: "After my father beat me every time, if anyone dares to say anything about me, I must beat me to death, basically no one dares to fight with me, because he knows that I don't want to die." ”
At home, it is a "little sheep" who is obedient, but outside, the long-term suppressed emotions have all erupted, which is not a good thing for Yang Shuo's childhood, it can be said that it is unfortunate, and the unfortunate childhood has to be cured for a lifetime.
Under his father's "force suppression", yang Shuo's relationship with his father became very delicate. Especially when Yang Shuo was in adolescence, he would grow up one day, when his father was old, could he still fight with young boys?
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Although the relationship between father and son seems to be harmonious on the surface, Yang Shuo's heart has always been trapped in a small beast waiting to erupt.
In 1997, Yang Shuo was 14 years old, and he was in adolescence and was very rebellious. In an exam, Yang Shuo did not do well in the exam, the father began to use force again, the father wanted to understand the importance of learning, but the father forgot the most important point, adolescent children and children are not the same after all.
They need patience, self-esteem, and communication, rather than blindly using violence to solve everything.
After Yang Shuo was beaten, he directly aroused the little beast in his heart, and he cried and shouted loudly: "Am I your own child in the end, other people's children are spoiled by their parents, what about me?" ”
Yang Shuo, who was completely enraged, chose to run away from home, and he did not want to live a life of resignation anymore.
After running away from home, Yang Shuo did a lot of work in the city and suffered a lot of social hardships: "The model can't do it for half a year, only twice a year clothing week, walk the stage once, earn 500 yuan, and hand over 100." ”
When the model couldn't continue, he began to find other odd jobs, working as a printer, a restaurant waiter, washing dishes, and so on. After almost two years of work, Yang Shuo was thinking about a question every time, could his life only be like this?
He knew very well in his heart that in the face of his father's scolding of him for many years, the pain of working to make money was nothing at all, to put it bluntly, he was unwilling to bow to his father and admit his mistake, he only wanted to prove himself.
In 1999, 16-year-old Yang Shuo received a call from a buddy in Beijing, saying that there were many jobs in Beijing, and at this time, Yang Shuo, seeing the unbearable life in front of him, decided that he could only go out and break in.
In fact, in the past two years, the mother has been subsidizing Yang Shuo, he went to Beijing, the mother also knows, but the child has to go to the big city to work hard, she can not help much, can only borrow 2,000 yuan secretly stuffed to Yang Shuo, she is afraid that he is suffering outside.
She would rather wrong herself than her children, which may be the greatness of maternal love.
03
16-year-old Yang Shuo, with a passion, stepped on the train to Beijing, left the homegrown city, went to a strange big city, for Yang Shuo, full of passion, because he wanted to start a new life.
Yang Shuo, who did not graduate from junior high school, took the 2,000 yuan given to him by his mother, he did not have the concept of saving money and thrift, he bought a lot of food and drink on the road, and when he arrived in Beijing, he only had a few hundred yuan left.
He thought that he could rely on his brother when he went to Beijing, but when he arrived in Beijing, he was dumbfounded, and something happened to his friend, and he didn't have time to take care of him.
Therefore, it was time to stay, eat, and find a job, and there were too many places to spend money, just in time for the Spring Festival in 1999.
By the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the lights were bright, others were happy at home, Yang Shuo had little left on him, he could only eat the remaining steamed buns and pickles in the rental house in the basement.
At the most difficult time, Yang Shuo also picked up the biscuits in the garbage can to eat, and stuffed them into his mouth one by one, this period of hunger, Yang Shuo could not forget for a lifetime.
On the first day of the Chinese New Year, he received a call from his mother, who said in a serious tone on the other end of the phone: "Son, you are alone outside, you must take care of yourself, eat and wear nothing to grievance yourself, the money is not enough, your mother will send you some more." ”
Yang Shuo will only report good news and not worry, so that his mother can rest assured. As everyone knows, after hanging up the phone, he thought of his falling into the trash can to pick up the food in the garbage can, and tears fell like rain.
At that moment, he wanted to go back to his mother, he just wanted to be a 16-year-old child who could rely on his parents. But reality told him that nothing was possible.
Since he decided to come to Beijing to work hard, he must break out of a road, and no matter how difficult it is, he must persist and prove it to his father.
If north drift had been so easy, not so many people would have left. For Yang Shuo, the North Drift is even more difficult, he came to Beijing alone, no background, connections, education, the only thing he can do is to do hard work.
Yang Shuo interviewed a lot of work, touched a lot of ash, and finally did odd jobs in a restaurant, after a few months of work, the young man just entered the society, his heart and eyes were more realistic, and he did a lot of work, but later he found that the money earned was half of other employees.
He couldn't stand such a life, so he decided to quit his job, wanted to go it alone, become his own boss, and go to himself.
When he resigned, Yang Shuo also accumulated a part of his savings in his hands, although it was not much, but he could maintain a period of life. He traveled a lot of places and he decided to sell paintings.
Painting is simply 3 yuan a piece, he supported the tools to paint in places with a lot of traffic, and his income was not bad at the beginning, and he earned more than 300 a month.
But as the boss, although the time is free, but the income is unstable, and at that time, the urban management was also relatively strict, sometimes it was too late to clean up the guys, patronizing and running.
Life is like a trek, after walking for a long time, I found that life is not easy.
04
Yang Shuo's guys selling paintings have all been taken in by the city management, and he can only choose to change careers, that is, to go to nightclubs to DJ.
He was 17 years old that year, coupled with his handsome appearance, and was soon favored by a female singer who wanted to pull him into the entertainment circle.
The female singer is Dai Liao, many people have not heard her name, but she has matched the theme song for TV series such as "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview", "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" and so on.
When Dai Liao saw Yang Shuo in the nightclub, she was stunned, and his face was charming in the moonlight, more melancholy than the moon.
Dai Liao was willing to take him into the entertainment circle, and Yang Shuo was also very fortunate to meet Dai Liao, a nobleman.
She is 11 years older than him, she is like a big sister to him, Dai Liao is very caring for Yang Shuo, not only helping him in life, but also taking him to the crew to study.
In addition, she also introduced him to the role, Yang Shuo knew very well that he was not from the class, Dai Luojie praised him so much, he was also determined to become an actor.
Dai Liao found a lot of connections at that time, and arranged Yang Shuo to the crew of "Young Bao Qingtian", and just one day before the start, Yang Shuo received the news that he had been replaced.
That was the role he had been dreaming of for a long time, for this role, he constantly studied and figured out the role itself, in order to be able to play this role, but he did not expect that he had made so many days of preparation, or was brushed off.
For some reason, he cried like a child in front of Dai Liao's face. Dai Liao comforted him: "It doesn't matter, your external conditions are better, as long as you study well, you will not be afraid of not having a role in the future." ”
Dai Luo enrolled him in a training class in order to prepare for his admission to the Central Academy of Drama, and Yang Shuo, who had not studied in high school, began to be angry and strong.
When he was 19 years old, he was admitted to the Chinese opera with his hard work and became a classmate with Tong Yao, Tang Yan and Shen Jiani.
He was admitted, and Dai Liao's efforts were not in vain. But in this year, Dai Liao's company also went bankrupt, and in the following days, Dai Liao could not help Yang Shuo financially, she helped him so much, he could not repay him and could only silently accompany him.
Later, Dai Luo did not become decadent because of this, she decided to go to Hong Kong to find another way out, Dai Lou led Yang Shuo into the door, and the rest was only on his own.
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Before that, Yang Shuo also talked about a first love girlfriend, the relationship between the two has always been very good, but when Dai Liao's career was in crisis, Yang Shuo often accompanied Dai Liao out of gratitude, which made the first love girlfriend misunderstood, Yang Shuo did not want to explain anything, and could only go to the step of breaking up.
After breaking up with his girlfriend, the noble man also left, and his life seemed to return to the starting point.
Yang Shuo did not go to high school, and when he got to college, his foundation was worse than that of his classmates, he could not keep up with his studies, his voice was bass and hoarse, and he was disliked by his classmates.
But all the students who graduated from Chinese opera, their voices are clean and bright, but his voice has a lot of magazines, the class often does rehearsals, no female classmates are willing to group with him, Yang Shuo's childhood feeling of inferiority, was re-aroused.
At only 20 years old, Yang Shuo suffered from depression, and he doubted himself countless times, is he really suitable for being an actor? Disliked by his classmates, standing on the stage and not daring to speak, etc., under multiple blows, Yang Shuo did not know how many times he had the idea of taking his own life.
Fortunately, at his most difficult time, his parents showed up. At that time, his father was also old, Yang Shuo had been away from home for many years, he also realized his mistakes, began to talk to his son frequently, and the relationship between father and son gradually changed.
Under the care of his parents, Yang Shuo's mood is gradually no longer so low, in addition, teachers and classmates have also discovered Yang Shuo's problems, everyone will give him some help, Yang Shuo also began to regulate his emotions.
With the passage of time, Yang Shuo's personality began to improve, he was no longer depressed, and his main energy was focused on his studies.
In the four years of college, Yang Shuo insisted on practicing his lines every day, and each practice was an hour to start, including winter and summer vacations, he did not relax, Chinese New Year's Eve he would also withstand the cold of the northeast and practice his lines in order to be at ease.
If he is not physically good, he will walk with a sandbag tied, and in order to practice his body, he has suffered a lot.
No one can succeed casually, and hard work will pay off one day.
06
In 2004, Yang Shuo collaborated with Han Qing and Cao Xiwen on "Love on the Left, Love on the Right", although this drama did not set off any waves, but this is his first TV drama work, which is worth commemorating.
In 2005, Yang Shuo graduated from college, less than three years after graduation, his classmates became famous one after another, only Yang Shuo was still a newcomer actor, this time he did not have inferiority.
Because he knows too well that everyone's life is different, some people are smooth sailing, some people are late, what if he belongs to the latter?
In 2008, he waited for "Life and Death Line", this drama was directed by Kong Sheng, he and Liao Fan, Li Chen, Zhang Yi became the four male protagonists, he played the "four winds", the role of the tough guy played a wonderful Portrait, attracted the attention of many viewers.
Because of this drama, he also won the "2010 Spring TV Drama Internet Festival Best Newcomer Award" and "Variety Show Annual TV Image Award".
At the same time as his career is improving, Yang Shuo also got to know his current wife Wang Liwen because of this drama.
Before meeting Yang Shuo, Wang Liwen acted in "Happy Planet 2", "Guanzhong Woman", "Brilliant Years", etc., which can be regarded as a small achievement.
The two have been in contact with the crew for a long time, Wang Liwen also takes good care of Yang Shuo in life, he has no residence in Beijing, Wang Liwen after understanding these situations, she said to him: "I spend a lot of time outside filming, I give you the car keys and door keys, as long as I am not there, you can use them as you like." ”
Yang Shuo did not think that Wang Liwen would treat him like this, he was very touched, and when he came and went, the feelings of the two warmed up, and they naturally came together.
In 2010, Yang Shuo proposed to Wang Liwen, his marriage proposal was very simple, there was no romantic ceremony, and there was no big diamond ring, despite this, Wang Liwen did not abandon it, or married him without hesitation.
After marriage, Wang Liwen gradually faded out of the entertainment circle, married and taught her children at home, and gave birth to a son and a daughter for her, a family of four, which was very happy.
Wang Liwen has never hated Yang Shuo, and in her heart, she believes that one day he will become famous.
With the tempering of the work, Yang Shuo's acting skills have gradually become skilled, and his performance in many film and television dramas is commendable, and he has the potential to be a good actor.
In particular, in his "Woman of the Knife Family" cooperated with Tong Liya, the role of "Yu Hualong" was portrayed in three points.
What really made Yang Shuo famous overnight was "Ode to Joy", which he played the handsome and rich second generation "Bao Yifan".
Overnight fame is worthy of so many years of hard work and not giving up, but after having fame and fortune, who can maintain the original intention and move forward in a low profile?
07
"Xiao Bao Zong" brought him endless honors, but also brought him some illusions.
Is it not clear in the play that it is silly from reality? In reality, Yang Shuo is not a rich second generation, nor is he a domineering president.
In 2019, Yang Shuo and his wife Wang Liwen appeared on a variety show "My Favorite Women", which also exposed some of Yang Shuo's machismo.
In the variety show, the two caused controversy over cooking, saying that he should cultivate his personality, and Wang Liwen should share more for her mother-in-law, including doing housework and cooking.
Although Wang Liwen was helpless, she did not pay attention to Yang Shuo, seeing his posture of "small package general", perhaps hindered by the camera, Wang Liwen disdained Yang Shuo's fight.
Fame and fortune will make a person flutter, and Yang Shuo is no exception. In September 2017, the "salary limit order" was promulgated, and the total remuneration of stars could not exceed 50 million yuan.
Just in time for Yang Shuo to shoot the drama "Foreigner", because of the "salary restriction order", the salary dropped from 87.5 million to 37.5 million yuan, and Yang Shuo refused to act, resulting in this drama not starting until now.
Coupled with the news that some netizens exposed Yang Shuo's suspected cheating at that time, he denied both of these things.
But there must be a reason, whether these two things are true or false, it is undeniable that Yang Shuo's image of a "tough guy" has plummeted in the hearts of the audience, and even the reputation is not as good as before.
Yang Shuo thought about saving his own personality, so he took his son Yang Yuchen to participate in "Where Daddy Goes".
Everyone knows that he wants to create a good father's image, but in the variety show, Yang Shuo's yelling at his son not only did not establish a good person, but overturned.
Even Chen Xiaochun on the side said not to be so strict with children.
Even Yang Shuo did not know that he had become the most hated "father" in childhood, and for his son's education, he wanted to be strict and had family rules, which was also exercising his son's autonomy.
The lack of the original family and sequelae will affect a person's life, dark and lonely are beautiful, blame for self-inflicted and who can blame?