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The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

author:Meng Meng chats about the past and the present

In 2019, the much-talked-about actor Yang Shuo and his wife Wang Liwen participated in a reality show with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as the main axis. During the recording of the show, Yang Shuo's strong machismo atmosphere was fully revealed, and he even put forward a rather harsh request to Wang Liwen - "Why don't you be in charge of cooking dinner, and I should sit there quietly and enjoy life."

In the face of such an oppressive proposal, Wang Liwen still expressed her bottom line despite some compromises: although she is willing to take on housework, she hopes that Yang Shuo can respect her cooking skills and avoid being overly critical, however, Yang Shuo's next remarks are shocking, he even bluntly said in front of the camera: "Don't try to reason with women, that's just stupid! Arguing with women is tantamount to playing with fire and self-immolation."

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

Yang Shuo's remarks undoubtedly brought the image of "Xiao Bao Zong" he created in the TV series "Ode to Joy" into real life, which made many viewers who originally had a good impression of him instantly disgusted him.

What's worse is that not long after, Yang Shuo was exposed by a well-known entertainment weekly magazine with photos of a mysterious woman on vacation and hugging intimately, which undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to their 11-year married life, and Wang Liwen's heart was full of endless pain.

In the recent hit parent-child variety show "Where Are You Going, Dad 6", Yang Shuo still maintains his strict educational attitude, while giving strict discipline to his son, he emphasized to the camera: "I firmly believe that the child must be treated strictly, and he needs to abide by the rules."

As soon as this remark came out, it immediately triggered a strong response from the audience, and many netizens left messages in the comment area, saying: "This reminds me of my childhood fears" and "Why do you want to educate children in such an extreme way?" Yang Shuo's behavior has not only been praised by the public, but has attracted more criticism.

With the sharp rise in popularity, all kinds of advertising endorsements and scripts have come one after another, and Yang Shuo has almost become a star who is "sought after by the whole people". Compared with his acting career, which took more than ten years of hard work, this is undoubtedly a rare opportunity, which could have helped him achieve higher achievements in the film and television industry.

However, the good times were short-lived, and his growing vanity quickly ate away at his motivation to keep going.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

He indulged in the aura brought by roles like "Xiao Bao Zong", and mistakenly thought that as long as he had popularity and fame, money and beauties would come as promised, and there was no need to work hard for acting skills and works.

As a result, Yang Shuo began to choose those roles that are becoming more and more commercial, and the salary is rising, but the reputation and evaluation are getting worse Although the fans under the stage are still shouting crazy for him, anyone with a discerning eye can see that Yang Shuo is gradually moving towards the trough of his career.

If we assume that after 2016, he can maintain that unwavering humility and an enterprising attitude towards the future, resolutely choose those scripts with rich connotations and treacherous and dark characters, and devote himself wholeheartedly to the study of acting, then he should have been able to bravely create a new field in this infinitely huge film and television empire.

However, it is regrettable that he once gave up countless opportunities to break through the predicament beyond his own ability, and instead tied himself tightly to the same placeNow, the aura of the once shining "Xiao Bao Zong" is gradually fading, and Yang Shuo urgently needs to carry out deep and comprehensive self-reflection in order to regain his unique charm.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

Looking back on the years before 2010, Yang Shuo has been crawling and rolling in this competitive entertainment industry for many years, but he has never been able to find his own place in it.

Most of the works he has worked on are low-cost, low-budget productions, and even if he plays the lead role in these works, his popularity and popularity have not been substantially improved, and worse, his financial situation has been stretched, and he has even missed some crucial audition opportunities on several occasions because he cannot afford expensive airfare.

Just when Yang Shuo fell into despair again and again, wanting to choose to leave this challenging entertainment industry and replan his life path, a seemingly insignificant opportunity quietly came, completely changing the trajectory of his fate.

That is, in 2008, Yang Shuo was fortunate to join the crew of the war masterpiece "Life and Death" directed by Kong Sheng, and played a complex personality and a slightly heroic character for the first time.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

In 2010, Yang Shuo and actress Wang Liwen tied the knot, and since then, the two have worked together to deal with all kinds of difficulties and obstacles on the road of acting. Wang Liwen didn't care about their poverty at that time, her only wish was to be able to stay with her lover for a long time.

In 2012, their son Yang Yuchen, the crystallization of their love, was born, and a family of three bought a simple one-bedroom apartment in Beijing and began to live a unique and happy life.

In 2014, Yang Shuo played the leading role in the film "The Woman of the Knife Family", which was also the first time he played a real starring role in a movie since he stepped into the showbiz.

In addition, he also made guest appearances in several other film and television dramas in the same year, and with the full support of his family and friends in the industry, Yang Shuo's acting career finally ushered in its first small peak, laying a solid foundation for him to move towards a broader stage in the future.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

It is worth mentioning that in 1997, Yang Shuo, who was only 14 years old, had a fierce quarrel with his father, and his father even made a move on him. The long-accumulated contradictions finally broke out at this moment, and Yang Shuo couldn't bear it anymore and chose to run away from home.

He did not inform his family, gave up the upcoming high school entrance examination, and embarked on a journey to the distant city of Beijing alone.

At the beginning, Yang Shuo had a hard time. When he first arrived, he didn't know how to deal with the unfamiliar environment, and at the same time, he lacked basic self-sufficiency, and struggled between the train station and the hotel.

In broad daylight, he wandered the streets and alleys of the city, occasionally looking for odd jobs such as restaurants or printing houses, barely surviving until Chinese New Year's Eve, when the savings in his pocket were exhausted, and Yang Shuo had to face the empty rental house and the torture of hunger alone.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

However, just when Yang Shuo was disheartened and ready to pack his bags and return to his hometown, an optimistic friend gave him the confidence to stay in Beijing and develop.

Yang Shuo began to try to make a living by selling calligraphy and paintings, and despite the unpredictable income and risks, he stepped into a nightclub, sleeping during the day and becoming a DJ at night, showing himself on stage.

It was in this place that Yang Shuo got acquainted with an important person in his life, the well-known singer Dai Rao. Yang Shuo, who was favored by Dai Rao, regained hope and confidence in the future.

With the selfless help of Dai Rao, Yang Shuo was successfully admitted to the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama, where he spent time with outstanding classmates such as Tong Yao and Tang Yan, and studied acting skills seriously.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

After graduation, Yang Shuo officially entered the entertainment industry and started his long journey of emerging in the entertainment industry.

Yang Shuo grew up under his father's strict discipline, and he was far less carefree than other children in his childhood. His father was impatient and often got angry for no reason, and used fists and kicks against him and his younger siblings.

Yang Shuo's heart was full of fear, and he didn't dare to say more in front of his father, for fear that the slightest mistake would lead to a beating.

In 1997, Yang Shuo's academic performance was not satisfactory, and his father was furious and gave him a heart-wrenching whipping in public. Fourteen-year-old Yang Shuo's long-standing resentment exploded, and after a heated argument with his father, he resolutely left the family and embarked on a journey to the distant capital of Beijing.

The career should be in full swing, but he wants to "die", what did Yang Shuo do wrong?

This run away from home became a major turning point in his life, and it made him reflect deeply on his past and present for the first time.

After comparison and analysis, Yang Shuo realized that the childhood trauma caused by living in the shadow of his father's violence for a long time had been deeply imprinted in the depths of his soul and had a profound impact on his character.

After going through the baptism of wind and rain in Beijing, Yang Shuo strengthened his determination to study hard, change himself, and heal his wounds.

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