Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying
"I live in the Beihai Junnanhai, and I can't send a letter to the goose." It is most appropriate to use Huang Tingjian's poem to describe the love between Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying.
It is often said that in the past, the carriage was very slow, the letters were far away, and only one person could be loved in a lifetime, so it was so, and because of this, the love between the literati who were contaminated with the smell of books in that era would always have more ancient customs and more geese to fish.
"I have received four letters from you for three days in a row, and I am really happy." The 68-year-old Huang Zongying always expressed his feelings to Feng Yidai in his letters.
Huang Zongying's letter to Feng Yidai
At the end of the letter, in the face of such a rapid little sister who "attacked", the 80-year-old Feng Yidai looked half ashamed and half happy.
Therefore, the two people's very different personalities determine that their love is also started by Huang Zongying.
Speaking of Huang Zongying, if you pay attention to the stars who cheered for the Wuhan epidemic in 2019, you will find a white-haired old man in it, and she is Huang Zongying.
At that time, Huang Zongying was 94 years old and had long been inseparable from the hospital bed, but she still clenched her fists and said slowly and forcefully to the camera: Wuhan refueling!
In fact, as early as the 1950s, when the Korean War broke out, Huang Zongying rode a bicycle alone and ran to the university to give a speech.
Unexpectedly, after seventy years, Huang Zongying is still sincere and warm, and his style is still the same.
Huang Zongying
And such a woman, her life is not destined to be ordinary.
Huang Zongying was born in 1925, when her father earned 360 yuan a month.
In the era when six people went to Donglaishun to eat hot pot and only spent one ocean, this was undoubtedly a huge amount of money. Therefore, when he was a child, Huang Zongying lived more easily than most people.
Therefore, after his father died of an illness at the age of 9, Huang Zongying's life became more painful and difficult. The family was even desperate to go south to find relatives and seek an inch of shelter in a strange place.
Fortunately, through the introduction of his brother, Huang Zongying was able to work in a drama club, although they all did some rough work of washing and wiping the floor, but for the little princess whose father suddenly left, Cinderella's life was bitter, but at least she and her family could live well.
Huang Zongying
Fortunately, due to her good looks, the owner of the drama club will let Huang Zongying play a small supporting role on stage from time to time to make her earn some extra money.
Huang Zongying never wanted to act in dramas and be an actor, but several performances made her fall in love with the feeling of standing on the stage. Huang Zongying wanted to continue, but was unanimously ridiculed by the people around him.
After all, Huang Zongying was only more than ten years old at that time, although she was beautiful, but years of work made her skinny and dry. Other drama actors often laugh at her: Do you want to pad a mat?
But Huang Zongying did not care about these, she put her enthusiasm on the drama, even when mopping the floor, she did not forget to practice for a while.
The opportunity came quickly, and once, a leading actor could not get on the scene temporarily, and Huang Zongying, who practiced hard every day, was picked up.
The second from the right is Huang Zongying
The owner of the drama club had a cold expression, although he expected Huang Zongying to save the scene, but ben really did not have much confidence in her.
However, Huang Zongying on the stage was very excited in her heart, this was her first time to be the protagonist, Huang Zongying wanted to remember this feeling, and performed very calmly and hard.
The success of the performance exceeded everyone's imagination, and Huang Zongying also became a hit, and instantly became the focus of Shanghai Beach.
After the fame and fortune were reaped, more people came to pursue Huang Zongying.
Huang Zongying does not like others to be dedicated to her, and rather than material wealth, she prefers to find a partner who is compatible with her soul and obtain the satisfaction of the spiritual world.
After much consideration, Guo Yuantong, the music director in the drama club, became Huang Zongying's final choice.
Huang Zongying
Huang Zongying admired Guo Yuantong's fun and talent, and Guo Yuantong liked Huang Zongying's persistence and enthusiasm. Therefore, when Huang Zongying was 17 years old, the two fell in love and quickly flashed marriage. But what Huang Zongying does not know is that this seemingly perfect marriage has another hidden feeling behind it.
Guo Yuantong suffered from heart disease and died soon. At that time, Chong Xiyi said that it was still very popular, and the Guo family thought that Huang Zongying could suddenly be red all over the beach, and the fortunes must be very prosperous, so they chose her.
Under the mediation of the matchmaker, the owner of the drama club and his cousin, the unsuspecting Huang Zongying and Guo Yuantong fell in love.
On the day of the wedding, everyone had different thoughts, only Huang Zongying simply thought that he was moving towards happiness. However, just when the worship hall became a relative, Guo Yuantong fell straight down.
Huang Zongying
Huang Zongying hurriedly accompanied her husband to heal, and only then did he learn the truth. The pain of being deceived tormented her, but looking at this pale-faced man, Huang Zongying still softened his heart.
Perhaps their encounter was a hoax, but her deep love for Guo Yuantong was never adulterated. Therefore, after Guo Yuantong woke up, Huang Zongying chose to complete the unfinished wedding.
Huang Zongying was married within 20 days, and Guo Yuantong suddenly left due to heart disease.
Huang Zongying was in extreme pain and locked himself in the house for several months. But life still has to go on, in order to survive, Huang Zongying still has to return to the stage and continue to travel east and west to beg for the days of life.
A year passed quickly, and in order to erase the pain of bereavement, Huang Zongying had been wandering around the drama clubs in various places, running around.
Cheng Shuyao, the owner of the Nanbei Drama Club, paid attention to Huang Zongying at this time. He and Huang Zongying's brother were old acquaintances, and after listening to Huang Zongying's encounter from her brother, Cheng Shuyao was moved and added a little sour, and suddenly wanted to protect this girl who had suffered a lot.
Cheng Shuyao
Knowing that Huang Zongying likes drama and likes to perform, so even if the prospects of the North and South Drama Clubs are slim and they often lose money, Cheng Shuyao will give Huang Zongying the opportunity to take the stage, so that she can forget the past and forget her sadness in a short period of time.
Under the influence of Cheng Shuyao's warmth and drama career, Huang Zongying finally came out of the pain, but still hesitated in terms of feelings.
It was not until four years later that Huang Zongying relaxed and married Cheng Shuyao, who was silently waiting.
Do you love him? Huang Zongying did not know that she had played too many roles that were deeply involved in love, and the last trauma also broke the cognition that love equals happiness in Huang Zongying's heart.
Therefore, when facing Cheng Shuyao, her inner turmoil made her feel a little more secure.
Perhaps, the bland and not fierce emotions are her true belonging, Huang Zongying thought, at that time, she probably did not expect that she would meet Zhao Dan in the future.
Huang Zongying
In that era of black-and-white television, Zhao Dan was the real emperor of film and television. Just when Huang Zongying was married for almost 1 year, her reputation for being addicted to work gradually rose and she got the opportunity to cooperate with Zhao Dan.
Zhao Dan was surprised by her aura and talent, and Huang Zongying also felt his ability and talent in one cooperation after another, and admired him especially.
At the end of the play, neither of them can tell whether it is a love affair in the play or an affair outside the play. After the killing, Zhao Dan finally couldn't resist the majestic emotions in his heart, and he said to Huang Zongying: "You should be my wife." ”
This sentence made Huang Zongying feel moved and shocked for a long time, but it was too unfair to Cheng Shuyao.
After the struggle, Huang Zongying found Cheng Shuyao to explain everything, but she did not expect that the man calmly let go after understanding the situation.
Zhao Dan
After four years together, Cheng Shuyao is well aware of Huang Zongying's persistence and enthusiasm for his feelings, and he knows that he can't give her what she wants. That being the case, it was better to let her go.
In this way, mixed with true feelings and betrayal, Huang Zongying and Zhao Dan married. Huang Zongying finally got the love he wanted.
Since then, the two have been dependent on each other and have a strong feeling. Even if Zhao Dan has cancer and is lying in bed, Huang Zongying will always bother to take care of him and send him away well.
Zhao Dan walked in 1980, when Huang Zongying was 56 years old, and he had already passed the age of dying and living for love. Moreover, the two have been together for 32 years, and there are no regrets anymore.
Therefore, this time, Huang Zongying quickly walked out. She has long stopped acting, but she likes to delve into literature and has held art exhibitions, and her life is very fulfilling.
Huang Zongying
12 years later, Huang Zongying met Feng Yidai, who had just lost his lover not long ago, at a banquet, and because he was her husband's friend for many years, the two exchanged a few words of greeting.
Unexpectedly, a few simple words of dialogue collided with two interesting souls, and both of them were very happy.
Not long after the banquet, Feng Yidai received a letter from Shanghai, sent by Huang Zongying.
Two 150-year-old people who are about to turn around greet each other and report each other's safety. Chatting and chatting, the topic went in a strange direction, but the other party took it well, and the more they talked, the more enthusiastic it became.
"If one day, I really become a mental patient who can't get out of the hospital..."
"God knows what happened to my illness? After I slept twice..."
Huang Zongying's letter to Feng Yidai
Since having letters as a medium, Feng Yidai, who was originally depressed, seemed to be reawakened and slowly began to get rid of the pain of losing his wife.
Yes, love is such a strange thing.
In this way, a Beijing, a Shanghai, the years forward, the people's hearts are closer, and the letters have changed from a few days to several times a day.
Because Feng Yidai was the second oldest in his family, plus he ran publications in his early years and was the director, everyone used to call him his second brother.
In the letters, Huang Zongying never hid his love for the second brother, so the title of "dear second brother, second brother of grace and love" often appeared in the correspondence.
Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying
For this twilight love, Huang Zongying's feelings were fierce and straightforward, and under her leadership, Feng Yidai's long-sealed heart also began to waver.
Therefore, the letters that the two had been describing what they had seen, heard and felt slowly turned into love letters, conveying each other's love between Shanghai and Beijing.
In this way, in just over a year, the correspondence between the two men has reached more than 500,000 words.
If we are not crazy, we will be old, put on Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying, but they will be gone if they are not crazy anymore.
They are all people who are about to fall into the ground, and there is nothing that cannot be thrown away. Huang Zongying, who dared to love and dare to hate, immediately made a decision and wrote a marriage letter to Feng Yidai.
All the way bumpy, several tossing and turning, this is the mission of this letter, but also Huang Zongying's life, she looks forward to Feng Yidai's response.
Although Feng Yidai is not as enthusiastic as Huang Zongying's emotions, he also really likes this little sister who is 12 years old and willing to help him open his heart, so he agreed.
Their wedding was low-key, with the 80-year-old groom holding his 68-year-old bride and walking into a quiet period of time.
The two will always have endless words, Huang Zongying acted in dramas in his early years, and when he was old, he liked literature, and Feng Yidai also did literary work. Together, the like-minded duo began to belong to the literary world of the two of them.
Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying
The two named their hut the "Seventh Heaven", and in this small room, although their bodies were no longer young, their words were particularly brilliant and powerful.
Later, feng Yidai grew older and his memory was obviously damaged, and the literary discussion between the two became Huang Zongying's patient teaching of Feng Yidai.
From the simplest pinyin to the books they had talked about in the past, Huang Zongying didn't know if Feng Yidai could remember it, but what they had was time. She taught slowly, and he could always.
It seems that The heavens were also touched by the "innocence" that the two of them should not have, and two months later, Feng Yidai recovered.
In the Seventh Heaven, Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying spent nine spring and autumn together, and in 2005, the 92-year-old Feng Yidai left.
But no one expected that in Feng Yidai's last words before his death, there was a sentence that would make Huang Zongying extremely sad in the eyes of others: he would cooperate with the original burial.
It may seem absurd and ruthless, but this is only the opinion of some people.
For Huang Zongying, she did not care, at least in the 12 years of living with Feng Yidai, she was very happy.
"Pure Love"
Therefore, in the years after Feng Yidai left, Huang Zongying would often pick up a love letter with Feng Yidai and read it carefully. After careful compilation, it was finally compiled into the book "Pure Love".
She just wanted to prove that she and Feng Yidai had truly loved each other.
12 years together may be fast for young people, but it is very long for two and a half old people who have been buried.
Therefore, the twilight years have arrived, looking back on the past, seeing things and thinking about people, neither of the two old people has ever recalled the past.
Perhaps one afternoon, Feng Yidai told Huang Zongying, who poured tea for himself, about the past, talking about his ex-wife, and already mentioned the burial place after his death.
But whether or not this scene happened or not, there is a fact in the seventh heaven's hut: the photos placed in the house are only two photos of Feng Yidai and his ex-wife and Huang Zongying and her ex-husband.
Therefore, Huang Zongying's last words to Feng Yidai must be praised, their love is very true, very real, but they have only walked hand in hand through the happiest and most carefree time in their lives, and the only thing they have to overcome is the imminent death.
Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying
For the wife and husband who had accompanied her for decades, they overcame more hardships and hardships together at that time, in other words, if Huang Zongying left first, her last words may not be buried with her ex-husband.
Huang Zongying, who searched for most of his life for love, in Feng Yidai's heart, was ultimately inferior to the deceased wife who had accompanied Feng Yidai for 53 years, just like the Seventh Heaven that they had lived together for 12 years now, and it was never as good as the Tingfeng Building that Feng Yidai had lived with his ex-wife for decades.
The teenager was full of spirits, Feng Yidai was, and so was his first wife, Zheng Anna.
Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna are both students of Hujiang University, Feng Yidai is in the School of Economics, Zheng Anna is in the British College of Letters, because of the different faculties, the two who should be on different life lines are intertwined because of a school theater performance.
Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna
Zheng Anna starred for the academy, and Feng Yidai appreciated it as an audience. As the best love object in the department, the two people who already have their own aura saw each other for the first time that night, and they also liked each other.
But Feng Yidai's personality always wants to talk back, and Zheng Anna is not as enthusiastic as Huang Zongying, so the two just look at each other, maybe they will meet on the road, but no one dares to cross the thunder pool.
However, fate still linked the two of them.
One elective course, the two actually chose the same subject, so by chance, Feng Yidai wanted to seize this opportunity and finally began his own pursuit of the road.
Of course, his method of chasing Zheng Anna is still to write letters.
Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna
In this way, Feng Yidai's soft and hard bubbles plus the original mutual admiration, the two were together not long after.
The so-called near Zhu Zhichi, Feng Yidai, who studied business administration at the School of Economics, because he liked Zheng Anna, began to make up for English literature, he originally had a good foundation in English, and the efforts of this period of time also made his translation level become exceptionally good.
Therefore, after graduation, in addition to just starting to do a period of career related to economics, feng Yidai was exposed to translation and literature related work in the remaining days.
Zheng Anna, a major in English literature, naturally became Feng Yidai's translation director, and the two supported each other and moved forward after graduation.
Life is a collection of sweet and sour, in addition to the sweetness of getting along, there must also be separate misery, because of work, the two live in two places.
Feng Yidai, who came to work in Hong Kong, would still write to Zheng Anna, but the two who loved each other so much could not bear the pain of separation.
Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna
Even if there are letters, in the years of gunfire, a piece of paper will become more stormy than people, then Feng Yidai's thoughts will be difficult to send to the far away he wants to go.
So the two thought about it for a long time and finally decided to let Zheng Anna come to Hong Kong to get married.
Rain of bullets and bullets, step by step crisis, Zheng Anna finally came to Feng Yidai's side, and their marriage began so hard.
Zheng Anna, who had just arrived in Hong Kong, quickly found a job with her excellent English proficiency.
However, Feng Yidai encountered a wall in his profession one after another, and with the encouragement of his wife and friends, Feng Yidai began his translation career.
In this way, in that era of war, the two exchanged each other in their careers, took care of each other spiritually, and spent a quiet and peaceful time.
Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna
But the good times were not long, Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna had to be separated again because of changes in work, and this parting was 4 years.
In the pull of such a life, the feelings of the husband and wife are deeper.
So even though her friends around her persuaded her to divorce Feng Yidai, Zheng Anna still did not give up on this man she loved deeply.
After 4 years of parting, the two finally met, when Feng Yidai was already ill, and his feet had long been deformed, just like a brand, so that Feng Yidai would think of the painful past every step he took.
And Zheng Anna lost an eye.
Fortunately, life continues, and the two continue to move forward in literature, doing translations, writing articles, and encouraging each other.
Books by Feng Yidai and Zheng Anna
The wind and rain outside the window were fluttering, and the two people inside the window looked closely, and in this way, the small house that belonged to the world of the two of them had a name: listening to the wind building.
Decades later, Zheng Anna left, and since then, there has been only a white-haired old man in the Wind Tower.
The 80-year-old Feng Yidai recalls the sweetness and sourness of the past, and may choose to give up until the end of his life. But he met Huang Zongying.
After marrying Huang Zongying, TingfengLou's appearance changed greatly, adding furniture, putting new books on it, and even the name became the Seventh Heaven.
The house is still full of laughter and laughter, but the old man is no longer there, and there is no trace of Zheng Anna in this room.
One is a person who has been together as fate from the day of first sight, and has been with himself, supporting each other, and walking in the bush of thorns for 53 years;
One is to exchange letters, the more you talk the more you love, with 500,000 words is difficult to talk about the twilight confidant, in the last of his life has been silently accompanied.
Feng Yidai and Huang Zongying
In fact, the question has been answered here, and for the 92-year-old Feng Yidai, who to bury with is no longer a choice.
And Huang Zongying will not care about this, she and The Twilight Feng Yidai think the same thing, and after a period of time with each other, this life is already very satisfied.