At the end of the 55th Golden Bell Awards, Ke Jiahui won the Drama Program Actress Award for her Taiwanese drama "Want to See You", in which the 34-year-old not only had to interpret the role of a 17-year-old high school student, but also had to play two roles. In fact, this is not the first time that Ke Jiayi has won the Golden Bell Award, as early as 4 years ago, Ke Jiayi also won the Drama Program Actress Award for the idol drama "Must Marry a Woman", and it can be seen from the recognition of Ke Jiayi's acting strength after the Golden Bell Award was sealed twice. When Ke Jiahui received the award, she did not forget to thank her husband Kunda on the stage, "When I was really involved in the script, I didn't care much about the big and small things around me, or it was easy to ignore the people around me, so... I really thank him for always being tolerant of me, feeling like I'm always busy being myself, but thanking him for always supporting me." Ke Jiayi and Kunda registered their marriage at the end of 2017, and after more than 5 years of dating, Ke Jiayi understood that Kunda is a partner who can walk for a lifetime.
From daring to love and dare to hate to keeping herself Ke Jiayi's concept of love has changed
Marriage to Kunda is not Ke Jiayi's first marriage, many people do not know, in fact, Ke Jiayi had her first marriage when she was 18 years old, Ke Jiayi looked back at the decision made by this youth, indicating that at that time, because she was relatively young, she actually had no concept of marriage, and got married on a whim. Ke Jiayi was later separated from her first husband because of her personality incompatibility, and was asked if she would regret it? Ke Jiayi once responded: "Youth is originally for no reason, and to be able to look back is comedy."
From this response, we can see the character of Ke Jiayi who dares to love and dare to hate, after entering the show business circle at the age of 20, Ke Jiayi has no concealment of love, has fallen in love with insiders, broken up and even rumored that the man cut his wrist in order to keep Ke Jiayi. Years later, when talking about love in her 20s, Ke Jiahui herself described her 20 years old as a silly but longing, never regretting, until now she will still envy herself at that time.
At the age of 30, what changes has Ke Jiayi's view of love changed? She said in an interview with the media: "To love this thing is to ask yourself if you are happy, whether you are single or have a partner, happiness is always the most important, no matter what decision you make, you must come from the heart, and you must like yourself." After all, it is better to keep a person's life for yourself." From daring to love and dare to hate to learning to take care of herself again, Ke Jiayi no longer looks for vigorous love, but hopes to be together at the same time, but also to maintain a complete self.
Once bullied Ke Jiahui: Accept all of yourself to be happy
The success of the acting road, finding the ideal other half... Under the seemingly glamorous appearance, Ke Jiayi is actually pregnant with childhood trauma, which still deeply affects her, "They pushed me to a very high place to prevent me from coming down, or deliberately put my classmate's crayon in my drawer, saying that I stole it." Ke Jiayi recounted the experience of being bullied when she was a child, and said with a bitter smile that she did not know how to face it at that time, thinking that she would be fine when she grew up, and after experiencing bullying, she did not consciously have been affected, until she grew up to contact the performance, she found that she did not like the crowd very much, and she was afraid of being seen, which may have been related to being bullied when she was a child.
Fortunately, because of filming, Ke Jiayi also found a way to get along with such an imperfect self. She had wondered if she should try harder to fit in the crowd and whether she should change herself, but after trying to change, she found herself unhappy. "I learned later that you will only be happy if you accept everything about yourself, including your flaws and dark side."
The sudden death of her father made Ke Jiahui grow up overnight
The experience of bullying has shaped the character of Ke Jiayi, the unexpected death of her father has matured Ke Jiahui, her father died suddenly when Ke Jiahui was 20 years old, Ke Jiahui and her mother and brother in order to make up for the funeral expenses of 50,000 yuan, each of them took out the folds is not enough, had to borrow from relatives and friends separately. Later, in order to support her family's livelihood, Ke Jiami went to kindergarten for 2 years, "At that time, I didn't have a choice, I had to grow up immediately." Ke Jiahui said painfully. Because of this experience, Ke Jiayan attaches great importance to money management, even after entering the industry to make money, she still does not have a credit card, nor does she buy cars and buy boutiques like ordinary artists, for her, those things are not necessary.
After being bullied, divorced, and her father died suddenly, Ke Jiahui finally found herself in the filming, "Because this is your life, happy, or obedient to your own heart, should be put first." 」 Ke Jiahui said so.