See a passage:
"No matter what you live like, there are people who say things.
We all come to this world only once, eat the food we want to eat, meet the people we want to meet, see the scenery we like, and do what we want to do. ”
In just a few words, the truest happiness is expressed.
The years are like a white colt passing through the gap, and the prosperity is like a flash in the pan.
A hug may become a thing of the past; a turn may become a farewell.
A life that cannot be repeated, please treat every moment with your heart and seize the fleeting beauty.
I have seen a question on the Internet:
"What kind of psychology is it that if you can't eat the food you want to eat, you won't open your mind and lose your temper?"
There is an answer that has captured my heart:
"What I want to eat is replaced by something I don't like, and another good thing in a short life is ruined."
Although you can still eat it later, at least this time the opportunity is gone. ”
There is a definite number of meals that people will eat in this life, and it is not a big deal to feel aggrieved.
Eating what you don't want to eat is like being deprived of the right to choose and the freedom to enjoy your body and mind.
There is a proverb that says it well: "If a person does not eat well, he cannot think well, love well, and rest well." ”
Eating what you want to eat is like injecting a source of power into life, making people feel refreshed.
Food has a memory, and what you want to eat is not only a preference, but also a feeling.
Every meal you want to eat has its own unique meaning.
I think of the scene in "Crane And Hua Ting" where the prince's master Lu Shiyu resigned from office.
He did not bluntly say that he wanted to return to his hometown, but euphemistically expressed that he wanted to eat three hometown dishes: lettuce, lettuce soup, and perch.
It is just an ordinary home-cooked dish in the eyes of others, but at this moment, it is the deepest thought, carrying the warmth of home, and the soul of the deceased.
Some people say that the ideal of life is for the ideal life.
Along the way, through the wind and frost, accompany you through the thorns and thorns, are the great self.
Eat the food you want, be kind to the body, please yourself, talk to the years, and taste the happiness at your fingertips.
How long have you not seen the person you want to meet, are you afraid of being absent-minded in the face of him?
You're afraid of being lonely with anticipation, so you just say to yourself, "Forget it." ”
How happy two people are together, how lonely it is to be alone.
Netizen @ Yazhou originally planned to marry his girlfriend this year, and said that he would go back to his girlfriend's hometown for the New Year, but the company temporarily had something to go away.
The girlfriend was very unhappy, initially quarreled, then turned into a cold war, and finally went back on her own.
Coupled with the quarantine of the epidemic, the two people have not seen each other for nearly two months.
During this period, the girlfriend has been waiting for Yazhou to apologize and ask for peace, but Yazhou can't pull down, and even suspects that the girlfriend has a new love, deliberately estranged from himself.
The stalemate ended in the end, and the two broke up.
Now Yazhou regrets it to death, maybe at that time to see what kind of heart knots have been opened.
We always think that the vigorous will make people unforgettable;
But I don't know that true happiness is just the interdependence and pity in those ordinary days.
I think of you, and it just so happens that you are thinking of me, even if you have a mustard in your heart, you can look at each other and smile and take revenge.
Qian Zhongshu wrote in "The Siege":
When you meet up, you can make the days before and after the meeting stained with light and become a good day.
Life is lonely, because seeing each other makes the years shine.
Don't sigh that "if life is only like the first sight", "holding hands and looking at each other is not tired" to live up to the encounter.
Cherish when you meet it, don't wait until you lose it and say you could have it.
Wanting to see you is the most romantic love story at the moment.
Take advantage of the spring light, take advantage of the breeze is not noisy, and go to a love without hesitation.
Life stumbles forward, the common scenery, the immutable days, let people's hearts stop water.
Time is like a shuttle, yesterday the spring ripples between the strange ridges, today's fall of the Yingbin and the broken intestines.
We always say that we have come to Japan for a long time, but we may not be in the later stories.
It is better to take advantage of the moment to see the delicate flowers and see the raging sea.
Once moved by this story.
Gao Zhixia, 51, was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer, and doctors said they could live for up to three years.
In order to reduce the pressure on his wife in the final time, the husband Lao Gu accompanied his wife to retire early and began the journey.
During the journey, Gao Zhixia was in a good mood, and his physical condition slowly improved.
Later, the couple transformed their own caravan, south to Sanya, north to the Arctic Village, west to Khorgo, a walk for more than 20 years, stepping into the world of 250,000 kilometers, more than 1,100 scenic spots.
Along the way, accompanied by beautiful scenery, the couple has long thrown their troubles out of the clouds, during which Gao Zhixia also published 4 travelogues.
Finally, a miracle happened, and Death broke the contract.
Echoing the words: "If you love life, you will be treated tenderly by life." ”
Those unknown worlds are full of temptations and challenges that make people want to explore.
The moment you open your heart, the soul is released and all the blandness is given a poetic meaning.
Everything sprouts, the grass grows and the warblers fly, and the world is so colorful and colorful, interesting and amorous.
We must live in full swing, and we must embrace poetry and distant places.
Measure every inch of mountains and seas with your feet, and meet every surprise with enthusiasm.
Maybe you are not satisfied with your current life, but you always lack the courage to change a little.
In fact, mediocrity is just a self-limit, and dreams do not need to be too great, as long as they are down-to-earth.
All limits have a starting point; no matter how difficult the road is, there is also an end.
At that time, Li Shanglong, who was still teaching at New Oriental, was tired of the life of following the rules, so he reduced the amount of lessons.
Although this allowed him to reduce his influence and make a lot less money each year, he became relaxed and happy.
Every day I go to read a book, write an article, meet a friend I haven't seen for a long time, and watch a movie I've always wanted to see.
With more time to think, I slowly embarked on the path of best-selling authors and directors.
We come to this world single-handedly, always living our own wonderful, to give ourselves an account.
Don't wait, don't procrastinate, don't be embarrassed, don't compromise, go your own way, do what you want to do, and live the life you want.
I like a passage from Zhang Ailing:
At the age of 20, you can already afford to buy toys that you couldn't afford when you were 10 years old, but you don't have the sense of anticipation you had;
The 30-year-old plucked up the courage to chase the girl who did not dare to chase when he was 20 years old, but the girl had already married a woman;
At the age of 40, you want to cherish the friends you should cherish when you are 30 years old, but the friends have been estranged for many years.
Some things are not done now, and they will not make sense again.
There are thousands of possibilities in life, you may wish to be bold, go all out, seize more opportunities, become what you like, and make yourself shine.
Even if you can't get your wish, it's a big deal to start again.
Be young and be fearless, just do it!
After all, you're not going to be in full swing all the time.
There is a saying: "No one will come for you to step on the snow, those who like it have to chase it themselves, the scenery they like to see by themselves, and the dreams they like to complete by themselves." ”
Happiness is not innate, but the process of chasing makes people feel ashamed and satisfied.
But if you delay one more day, your life will cost you one day, and your happiness will be reduced by one day.
The rest of your life is not long, don't leave irreparable regrets.
May you live warmly and freely, walking through the mountains and rivers, all the way to the blossoming flowers, smiling freely.
There is always a delicious taste that warms your heart,
There are always beautiful people who understand your sorrow and joy,
There is always a beautiful view blooming for you,
There's always something good coming!
The author | Xu Xiaoxu swallowed the fireworks and pretended to be a literary fan.
This article is reproduced from Ten O'Clock Reading and forwarded with permission.