People often say that "near Zhu is red, near ink is black", the environment has a very far-reaching impact on a person's growth, so there will be a story of "MengMu Three Migrations", all in order to be able to give children a good learning environment.

In addition to the influence of the environment, students will also be affected by the education of their parents, but this is not a decisive factor in students' self-development, and ultimately they must return to themselves, and singer Park Shu is such a existence.

Park Shu is known as a "lonely poet", his songs can always enter the hearts of students, no matter how long it has been in the past, he can reach the spiritual fit with young people, and it is such an otherworldly person who has been labeled "rebellious", which stems from his growth process.

The ordinary road is not ordinary, the "lonely poet" Park Shu's family lineage has been exposed, and his parents have a big future

Pu Shu, formerly known as Pu Shu, was born in a family hospital of Peking University, his parents are famous professors of Peking University, his father Pu Zuyin is not only a professor and doctoral supervisor of Peking University, but also an academician of the Academy of Astronautics, in the field of physics in the mainland can be said to have made a lot of contributions, but also one of the initiators of the mainland's "double star plan".

Not only has so many honors, Pu Zuyin has published 270 papers, been cited more than 2700 times, devoted his life to scientific research and education, and cultivated many outstanding talents for the development of science and technology.

And Park Shu's mother is also able to stand side by side with his father, is also a famous professor at Peking University, and is the first generation of female computer engineers in the mainland, it can be said that Park Shu lives in a Kochi family.

But after such a famous door, but out of the parents planned a good life, when he was young, his parents hoped that he could also be admitted to Peking University, but when he applied for Peking University Affiliated High School, he fell behind with a score difference of 0.5 points, and his father also ran for a long time for this, still unable to change the result.

This incident is a huge blow to Park Shu, I feel sorry for the parents' cultivation, and then encounter youth rebellion, he likes music, in order not to give him pressure, parents are not too much interference.

After entering high school, the grades were also maintained well, but it was also not related to Peking University, and finally admitted to the Capital Normal University, if you successfully complete your studies, you will become an excellent teacher, which is also on the right track that parents think.

However, he chose to drop out of school to learn his favorite music in his sophomore year, and has persisted until now, when his parents were told the news, although they had some pain, expressed their own denials and opinions, but did not force him and respect his choice.

In fact, the "rebellious" road that Park Shu has embarked on is successful now, but it can only be said to be an individual case, without its own talent and parental support, it is difficult to achieve, which is not within the reach of ordinary students.

Parents are a child's first teacher, and the height of parents' thinking determines how far students can fly

We often say that "the child is the reflection of the parents", the students reflect the epitome of parental education, and as the parents of the first teacher of the students, the parents' ideological height determines how far the students can fly.

Park Shu is undoubtedly a unique existence in the family, parents are Kochi elements, in their own field have a very important position and achievements, for the child's education is also very strict, may be precisely because of this provoked Park Shu's rebellious heart, always want to prove themselves.

Although the parents are also very distressed in the face of their son's "rebellious" behavior, they do not force him to take the arranged path, but only express their opinions and ideas, and the final decision is still left to himself, such a height of thought is not available to many parents.

In fact, parents are holding the psychology of "good for you" to educate their children, but in fact, students have their own ideas and pursuits, can be guided and advised, but too much pressure and urging will be counterproductive, so it is not so much that students rebel, but rather that parental education methods need to be improved.

"Dream as a horse" to pursue themselves, students have ideals and pursuits, parents should also give understanding and support

First of all, parents need to understand that life is the child's own, even if there is the experience of people who have come over, they cannot arrange the life of students at will, and they should analyze the problem from the perspective of the guide, and do not suppress their nature too much.

Secondly, for the ideals and pursuits of students, parents can have their own opinions, but they must learn to respect and understand, give more support and encouragement, do not always keep their own ideas, students are constantly growing and improving, and parents' educational concepts must also keep pace with the times.

Finally, students should also learn to accept the admonitions of parents, know how to appreciate the good intentions of parents, do "change what they have, and encourage them if they don't", rationally face their views and opinions, and do not always reject people thousands of miles away.

【Author's Message】 Park Shu's growth process is very special, perhaps this is also the key to his success, but it is not applicable to ordinary students, there are ideals and pursuits must also learn to recognize the social reality, choose to meet their own development path.

As a student, when choosing your own development path, you must first learn to survive and then live, and you must be worthy of the efforts of yourself and your parents. As a parent, you should also give students more space and provide students with courage and strength to face challenges.

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