To cultivate high-IQ children, parents only need to insist on doing 1 thing for half an hour a day
Start as early as possible before your child is 6 years old
A child named Tong Tong upstairs in my house has been brought by his grandmother since he was a child, and many times we played in the courtyard of the community, it was grandma who brought Tong Tong, and Tong Tong's parents almost never appeared. The most notable thing is that although Tong Tong is a boy, he is very polite, every time he sees people, he will take the initiative to say hello, play games with children, and never make trouble because of grabbing toys, and when other children have conflicts, Tong Tong will also help to host "justice", and the young age looks like a "gentleman's style". Many neighbors therefore speculate that Tongtong's parents must be cultural people, or that kind of high-level cultural people, after all, tongtong's child not only has a high IQ, but also has a high emotional intelligence, and it is very genetically good at a glance.
However, in fact, by chance, we learned from TongTong's grandmother that the original ah, Tongtong's parents' culture is not high, so in order to support the family, the two are also out early every day and return late, running a small restaurant, for Tongtong, they let go very early to grandma, completely grandma single-handed up. So what magic trick does Grandma have?
According to her grandmother, she had been a teacher in the primary school in the township before she retired, and her culture was not very high, but after all, she had teaching experience, so since she accepted the care of Tong Tong, she attached great importance to the early education enlightenment of her grandson, but her early education method was very simple, that is, from the age of half a year, she began to read picture book stories to Tong Tong every day.
As a result, not only is it much easier for the elderly to take the baby, but also the intellectual development of Tongtong is also superior, and the learning ability, comprehension and memory are higher than those of ordinary children. Fast forward three years, three years, Grandma read countless picture book stories for Tong Tong, and in addition, she did not do other early education enlightenment at all, but unexpectedly, Tong Tong, who went to kindergarten, was obviously much better than children of the same age.
The reason why grandma will choose to read storybooks is that within the age of 6, the child's brain development is in a critical period, at this time, if parents can adapt to the child's nature and find the right way to guide, then the child's IQ and emotional intelligence will have great changes.
As written in "The Language of Parents", the child's brain development is 80% completed before the age of 3, and it is basically fixed before the age of 6, which also means that for parents, if they cannot grasp the golden period of their children's development, it will be difficult to change their children in the future. In the "Reading Manual", it is mentioned that for improving children's learning ability, IQ, etc., the best way is to repeat stories and read stories to children every day, which not only exercises the child's listening ability, but also helps children to draw rich knowledge from the story and the truth of handling for people, so that children naturally become "double business online".
First of all, in the book "Parents' Language: 30 Million Words To Shape a More Powerful Learning Brain", as the author of the children's otologist and her team, they found that the listening vocabulary of children within 3 years old directly affects the child's learning ability in the future. The richer and more advanced the vocabulary children hear, the stronger the learning ability in the future, for example, children in knowledge-based families listen to 30 million words more than children in families receiving social assistance, so these children's understanding and learning ability are much stronger than the latter when they grow up.
Secondly, reading stories can also enrich the children's background knowledge, I remember last summer I took my son to participate in a museum study activity about the "Ming City Wall", and the result of the activity teacher praised his son and said that this child has strong thinking ability and quick reaction, and will definitely be a university bully in the future. In fact, the reason why my son can think deeply and react quickly is because he has a strong background knowledge as a backing, and this knowledge is accumulated over time when I usually read stories to him.
In addition, reading stories can also promote the opening of children's brains, there have been brain science research experts, specifically for children to read stories when the brain changes have done research, the results found that when children listen to stories, their brains have been very active, brain circuits are wide open, brain development is rapid.
Finally, reading storybooks can also help children learn to manage their emotions and be a person with high emotional intelligence and a sound personality. For example, although Tong Tong is a three- or four-year-old child, he is very good at managing himself, and every time he has a conflict with other children, he can resolve it with wit, and even because of this ability to deal with things, he has become a "child king". And grandma also told me that her family Tong Tong's self-care ability is also very high.
I have to admit that reading story books for the growth and development of children can be described as beneficial and harmless, first of all, when reading story books, the interaction between children and parents will increase, which can make the parent-child relationship more intimate, increase children's self-confidence and security, and secondly, the knowledge and life philosophy in the story will also make children more intelligent, higher emotional intelligence, and more sound personality. As Teacher Wang Peiju said in "Feeding the Children Who Grew Up in Storybooks", children who read storybooks from an early age have harmonious families, understand things and etiquette, and their future lives will not be wrong.
And in the "Reading Manual" also mentioned such a fact, when parents read stories to their children, children's thoughts will naturally occur associations and imaginations, while curious about how the storyline will develop next, while thinking about this story if it happens elsewhere, how other characters will change. Then naturally, in this process, the child's imagination and creativity will also be exercised.
As a parent, I sincerely recommend that you always insist on reading stories to your children every day, especially for babies aged 0-5. Here, I also recommend the storybook that Grandma Tongtong read to her grandson, that is, this set of "Bedtime Stories 100 Volumes", this set of books from the child's growth process may appear and encounter a variety of problems, a good solution is given, through the form of storytelling, set a good example for children, so that children in the process of listening to stories, learn how to manage emotions, how to increase their self-care ability, develop good learning habits and living habits, such as some children do not love to brush their teeth and wash their faces, Eating is always partial to food, etc., can find the corresponding solution in this set of "Bedtime Stories 100 Volumes". Make parenting worry-free and effortless.
In addition, this set of "100 Bedtime Stories" contains a very rich story content, not only historical stories, idioms stories and many classical cultural customs, which can well attract children's reading interest and expand and enrich children's background knowledge. The most important thing is that the language of each story is very simple and interesting, and it is also easy for children to understand and master. Moreover, children's vocabulary and language expression ability will be accumulated in the process of listening to stories and reading stories. A total of 100 books, very cost-effective, parents should not miss it.
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