Hefei Love Couple Marriage Lesson - Holding the Hand of the Son and the Son with the Elderly: Running for the purpose of marriage to go on a blind date, what do you want to know about ta's situation as soon as possible?
We have all heard the old saying: "It is best to talk to people who know the roots of love", so what is the root of the knowledge? Teacher HongNiang believes that you need to understand the other party's eight aspects of the situation as soon as possible. Briefly described as follows -
First, understand the identity information of the other party:
Usually you have to see his ID card, household registration book, driver's license and passport and other information first. If the real identity of the other party, you do not know or vague, what kind of love do you talk to him about?
Second, understand the other party's work unit, the nature of the work, education or skills, etc.:
Through these, you can roughly know and predict his current and future development.
Third, understand the income and economic situation of the other party, including important housing conditions, etc.:
By doing this, you can assess the stress and security of your future married life. You can also analyze his attitudes and values towards life. For example, some people do not have much income, but they like to dress well, use well, and shoot generously, then this kind of person is often more vanity and not practical. Some people are very rich, but too low-key, this kind of person is often stingy, easy to cut the door, there are not many friends, even if you are together in the future, it will not be good for you.
Fourth, understand each other's hobbies:
Through this you can see his spiritual pursuits and mental state. For example, a boy is 30 years old, still addicted to games all day, this kind of person's spiritual pursuit and realm is relatively low, not self-motivated, easy to wither, follow him it is difficult to have the improvement of quality of life.
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Fifth, know more than three good friends of Ta:
Through this, you can basically see his current true value, which is called things clustered in groups, and people are grouped.
Sixth, understand the age and occupation of the other parent:
Through this, you can see how the other person's family will affect your life after you get married, and objectively strengthen you or weaken you.
Seventh, understand the age, body and living conditions of each other's grandparents and grandparents:
Through this you can roughly know the genes and family style of the other family, this is actually very important, the elderly live a long life and happy families in their old age, often have many advantages in themselves.
Eighth, understand the other parent's behavior:
How do you understand this? When you are familiar with each other, you can exchange meals with his parents and observe the color. You can also choose to visit their house when they have a happy event. Families with relatively good parents, in the face of happy events, there will often be a lot of relatives and friends to go to the scene, and will arrange things in an orderly manner. On the contrary, some families encounter happy events, there are fewer people who come to the scene, and sometimes there will be some discordant scenes.