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For a long time, everyone's subconscious is "male outside the female protagonist". After all, men have more employment opportunities than women. Women are more suitable for standing behind men, and the role of "Kenuchisuke" is none other than her.
Moreover, one of the gender advantages of women is delicate patience. Stabilizing the rear and holding the base camp are also indispensable excellent qualities.
In equal likelihood, the men in the family take the initiative to support the family; the women in the family are not only responsible for the beauty of the flowers. Full-time wife, the effort and price she has paid is also obvious to all.
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However, times have been progressing. Today, "full-time dad" is not an unfamiliar term. Fatherhood, apart from not being able to breastfeed yourself – what else, you say, can't do? In infancy, the mother absolutely stands in the dominant position. As children grow, so does the level of involvement of fathers.
If you are faced with: going out to make money VS at home with a baby, how to carry out family distribution? This is a problem.
As the saying goes: the two evils take the lighter, and the two benefits take the heavier. Whoever is more suitable arranges who does what. If, women have more room to play in the workplace. So, men can't take care of children at home too much, right?
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The family of "female protagonist outside male protagonist" will not be less now, and will only be more in the future. This is the improvement of women's social status, and it is also the best proof of women's self-reliance. It must be known that men and women are not in opposition at work. Nor is there an inverse proportionality of "the higher the status of women, the lower the status of men". But men's face may not be able to be lowered; men's dignity is higher than the sky.
Women focus on careers, men focus on children? Even if women are not afraid of suffering or tiredness, men may not be able to deal with it calmly. Over time, marital conflicts will escalate into family conflicts. Happiness is nowhere to be seen from now on.
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Here, it is necessary to mention one person - he is Lee Seung-hyun who participated in "The Brother Who Cut through thorns". Yes, he is also the husband of actress Qi Wei.
The well-informed Yi Lijing said he did not understand: "He (Lee Seung-hyun) is now a full-time grandfather, I think he is so brave." Although he grew up in a beautiful country, he was an oriental man. He actually bravely chose the female protagonist and the male protagonist..."
Moreover, being a grandfather was not Lee Seung-hyun's active choice at that time. But as I said before: it also depends on the career development of both sides, Qi Wei is always more competitive in the market than Lee Seung-hyun.
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This is a fundamental principle that is extremely applicable to both men and women.
Anything else? Who else gave Lee Seung-hyun so much courage must be his wife Qi Wei. Qi Wei praised Lee Seung-hyun for being careful: "First of all, he loves children very much, and then he is also very responsible; then he does not feel that it is a burden for getting along with children." ”
However, being a full-time dad is not an easy task. Lee Seung-hyun said: "It consumes a lot of energy and time, and it looks like you haven't done anything in a day." The outside world is also very rude, accusing full-time dads of "eating soft rice" and "what kind of man"...
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How did a grandfather like Lee Seung-hyun reconcile with himself?
With the greatest understanding and support from his wife and family, his father is not "useless" and not "waste". There is a consensus that both the Lord and the Lord and the Lord play an important role in the family. A man who really has the ability will not be too difficult to restart his career at any time.
The family does need everyone's efforts. It is not only a stumbling block, but also a driving force for moving forward.
I have the courage to have the courage of my family, but what about the full-time dad? Female outside the male protagonist, division of labor and cooperation, happy cooperation!
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