After the constellation, MBTI has become the most fashionable human carnival of the moment.
Even if this type of test has long been proved to have many unscientific points, it does not prevent everyone from tirelessly understanding its behavioral characteristics and then putting themselves in the seat.
Don't say star Internet celebrities, now come out to mix, who has few people to set up a body?
What about your personality?
When facing relatives, I guess you are a fake smiling girl who does not do her own thing and does not open her mouth, and shakes her head three times without knowing.
When facing the leader, are you a female warrior who cuts through thorns, or a Gou scholar who touches a fish and lies flat?
On different social platforms, or even in different groups on the same platform, in the face of imaginary audiences, the personalities you show may be different, and there may even be great contrasts, right?
Human design is a neutral word, it is like a key to open a personal information database.
It is also like a mask, reducing identity to symbols and using it as a tool.
Of course, it also covers the desire for the envious eyes of others.
Today's era aesthetic series, Uncle Oxygen wants to continue to take everyone to witness, the human set of the era of all living beings.
let's go！
01: A feast for people
There are two main battlefields:
One is online, reflected in your social platforms.
One is offline, reflected in your clothing, aesthetics, intonation, body language, cognition, and mentality.
And the two faces on and off the stage of love beans is a truth
To show yourself through human design, you often have to follow the prevailing social customs and popular aesthetic paradigms.
And different people, online and offline performance may be different.
Let's say that Bai Fumei is a person, it is difficult to fake offline, because a few words may expose what class they were born into, the financial resources of their parents, how much education they have received, whether they will only spend money or know how to make money...
But online people can be completely detached from reality.
A YouTube blogger has an experiment, which is to create a white rich beauty on social networks
So what kinds of popular people are there? Let's take stock of contemporary people's illustrations:
1, rich people set up: white rich beauty, rich and handsome
Showing off wealth is a technical job, and a little carelessness can be shown into a micro-business.
The online Bai Fumei is difficult to distinguish between true and false, she may be in the first class every three or five, full of gucci, lv, daily life is skiing, golf, horseback riding, frisbee, eating and drinking.
Po's outfit also has no trace of work, such as rhinestone corsets, velvet coats, small fragrance suits with acetate skirts, puffy skirts with shoulder expansion effects, and snow white all over the body.
And the offline white rich beauty, dress may not be so princess online, daily is to wear their favorite style. The big name on her body can only be recognized by people in the same circle, not like the upstart, who wants to declare that the whole world is very rich.
Offline white rich beauty, clothing color moderation, usually neutral color + high texture collocation, to low-key, material, detail-based, not frivolous and can reflect the sense of identity.
Close contact will find that their makeup is very light, the skin texture is very good, the skin color is either very white and tender, or a healthy honey color, and they look innocent and do not eat human fireworks.
Before the age of anti-aging, the face has traces of daily maintenance with medical beauty, or the sense of tightness maintained by perennial exercise.
Daughter of vice president of Samsung Electronics, Lee Won-so
2. There are intellectual personalities: Kochi people, literary and artistic young people, and industry elites
Online industry elites, at 7:30 in the morning, po an international Western breakfast, next to the book linked to economics, such as "Capital" and "The Wealth of Nations". Can you imagine that he was going to have an international remote conference in a moment.
Offline industry elites, before the cross-ocean meeting, should not have much time to pose for photos, usually looking at professional reports, or reviewing projects.
The circle of friends will occasionally share some cutting-edge analysis related to the industry, with a few words of their own views or insights.
Because of the frequent access to various forum meetings, either on the way to travel, or to receive transnational video conferences, usually throughout the year formal dress, especially pay attention to the quality of watches, control time in order to manipulate money.
3, there is a will of the human set: punch card (iron, study, early rise, weight loss, etc.) crazy, health care master
Online punch card maniac, may go to Baidu to search for a few excerpts, and share reading punch card records in the circle of friends;
You may go online to buy a step counting artifact, and you can rank first in the exercise step ranking list at home;
Maybe the alarm clock at 5 o'clock will ring in the early rise group to check in, and the next second you will fall asleep.
It may be used to use the avatar /screen name of "not thin xx pounds, no change", but I have not seen him replace it for more than a year.
Offline punch card maniac, no one knows what she is going to do with a big bag at noon, until her bangs are slightly wet but refreshed back to the workstation, you know that she is taking advantage of the lunch break to go to the gym to exercise.
Maybe you suddenly found that she had lost two or three times of weight, and when you asked, you learned that she had controlled her diet for half a year.
Maybe she is on her commute to work, or at any time when she can use her brain and use her hands and brains separately, she puts on headphones to listen to books.
The offline punch card demon will do what to do, the plan to be realized, quietly embedded in their daily schedule, so that people can only see the results.
And the online punch card maniac is mostly to let people see a process.
4, interesting humanoid design: stupid beauty, funny woman
The funny woman online, offline is a person who may be quiet, talk less, and even melancholy;
Funny women offline, online may take the high-cold human design, literary and artistic route.
Stupid beauties online, may be delicate, pleasing, and funny;
The stupid beauty offline, dragging her legs on key occasions, will definitely make people speechless.
5. There are life personalities: Bao Ma, Tourism Expert
The online life home may be the kind of person who has the least life offline.
People who are fancy shairs may be immersed in the fulfillment of the "final completion of the mission of life".
Fancy sun travelers may also be in order to reduce stress, adjust their state, and let themselves face their future work or emotional life again.
"Ex 3" clip, travel heals lost love
After a big circle down, have you ever thought: Why are we keen on establishing people?
02: Life is like a drama, all rely on acting skills
On the one hand, it comes from the internal drive:
Our perception of ourselves includes imaginary narcissistic identity + symbolic identification with the other.
We will constantly try to see ourselves in the eyes of others, to shape ourselves according to the ideal image of the public, and to make ourselves a satisfying and worthy person to be loved.
"Princess Learning Method": Imagine yourself as a princess, and treat online classes as ministers reporting on their work
On the other hand, it comes from external drives:
One of the best things about human design is that it is very efficient.
Through the persona, you can quickly get the characteristics of the person; the person who conforms to the social aesthetic can make you realize your wishes more smoothly in social interaction.
Uncle saw a Girl from Central America do bishi, the whole process is a performance art practice, she pretended to be a celebrity, in many high-end places to eat and drink for 21 days, did not cost a penny.
Moreover, the Internet also provides an opportunity for the establishment of people.
The Internet not only allows us to see the gap between people and people, but also provides us with the transformation of social venues.
The virtuality and anonymity of social platforms makes it easy for people to become another person.
Some time ago, a documentary "Tinder Scam King" told the story of a man disguised as a billionaire and put multiple women into a pig killing plate.
He is using the APP disguise, taking the credit card of the previous girl, pretending to be a rich man, fishing for the next girl, and then squeezing money from her.
Some people use human design to do evil deeds, and the result is, of course, being to go to jail.
But we ordinary people set up a person, is there no harm in the benefits?
03: The Book of Revelation
The original "human design" is essentially for the virtual characters in artistic creation, which is more in line with the logic of reality, so it is necessary to look for human nature outside the instrumentality of the characters.
Ironically, people in reality have lost their real lives for the sake of human design.
1, the real personality is hidden, and the inflated people are set up to flaunt the market
The purpose of many people is not to become the best version of themselves, but how to better become you in the eyes of others.
When the person replaces the real self, your face will gradually fix into a mask.
Once everything we publish to the outside world is carefully crafted, even deliberately disguised, the mask will be more and more overdone.
When the difference between the beautified mask and the real face becomes wider and wider, the mask gradually invades the psychological level, resulting in a rupture of one's own cognition.
You will go from "unwilling to admit your true self" to "increasingly disgusted with your true self."
For example, those who live in beauty and filters cannot accept their true appearance.
For example, in order to create exquisite human design, people who consume ahead bring overloaded economic pressure to themselves.
For example, in "Imaginary Anna", Anna, disguised as the daughter of a rich man, tries to empty her gloves and white wolves.
In her psyche, she has always regarded herself as a great person, and once someone makes her realize that she is a charlatan, she will be angry.
2. Flattening of human cognition
Any person can't help but look closely, and using this single dimension of human design to measure people is itself a denial of rich human nature and three-dimensional personality.
For example, the black and white characters in many film and television dramas are like a shallow humanoid model.
"In every youth story, there is a fat man"
For example, the current popular scumbags, rich second generation, small three, fishing women and other stereotyped labels, the complexity of being born as a human being, has been easily dissolved.
I think that summing up any one person in three or two words is mostly a joke.
Who is Madame Bovary—the French lewd Woman Wenqing who has ruined her family.
It is indeed convenient to collapse and reduce people into one word, but will something be lost?
3, worry about their own people collapse
In addition, we need to be more careful than in the past to prevent the performance from collapsing; we need to minimize the presentation of our own sensitive information and choose content that can be accepted by most people to publish.
When the social platform is full of judge, suddenly envy those around the "people who are free to send a circle of friends".
And the modern universal consumption of human design has aroused our nostalgia for the real face.
Perhaps there is indeed a big gap between your "ideal self" and your "real self".
But I also hope that when you pursue your "ideal self", you will not forget the relaxation of "being yourself back".
Just like Ju Jie's circle of fans, it is not her natural beauty or confused beauty, but the determination, perseverance, persistence, and seriousness to realize the dream of beauty step by step.
These virtues and virtues of human nature are often not used for sunburn, but slowly bloom in time.
Don't let your people lose the support of life.
Finally, to share a piece of society my sister Li's words:
"Please don't give me anyone, I don't have any aura, my name is Li Xueqin, I'm not happy, I have social phobia, I have depression, I'm unhappy." 」
Human design is human design, life is life.
I wish you a person who is to be yourself.