Jon Chan is married!
On March 31, Chen Qiao'en sent a Weibo official announcement that she and her boyfriend Ellen had officially registered for marriage.
It is said that on the day of registration, Chen Qiaoen was very happy, and she shouted "I am married!" at the scene! And excitedly asked the witness what he thought.
Jon Chan and Allen met through the show "Daughters in Love".
Because Alan is 9 years younger than Jon Chen, the age difference is large, and he is frequently pulled out of the black material scandal, at first no one looked favorably on them.
Even after they successfully held hands, they were also boycotted by Chen Qiaoen's fans collectively replaced by black avatars, and until now, there are still people who criticize their feelings.
So how did these two people, who were full of gossip from the official announcement to the marriage, persist?
Jon Chen's Transformation: From Unmarried to "Hate Marriage"
Earlier Chen Qiaoen can be said to be the representative of the "unmarried actress" in the circle.
She is very satisfied with her single life, feels that "it is very cool to live alone", and at the age of 40, she once said, "I never hate to marry, I want to be a rich widow and widow." ”
In the face of her parents and netizens' overwhelming kindness to urge marriage, she did not waver, turning her head and responding generously at the "Spit Conference":
"Why should I be held in the palm of my hand by others, I have a hand to hold myself red."
Materially, she does not rely on men, the house is bought by herself, and the birthday gift is sent by herself; spiritually she is not kidnapped by public opinion, and she does not care whether others say that she is a leftover woman.
At that time, Chen Qiaoen seemed to completely exclude love and marriage from her life, but in fact, she always had expectations for love in her heart.
In 2019, Chen Qiaoen participated in "Daughters in Love".
She says that love takes courage and hopes to find someone who gives her enough security, but dramatically, she meets Ellen, who is 9 years younger than her, at the beginning.
This age gap is inevitably worrying and brings some resistance to the advancement of the relationship, but with time, Chen Qiaoen is still impressed by Ellen's carefulness.
He will always pay attention to whether the water in Johann Chen's cup is still hot or not;
In order to buy the sunflowers she loves, she will run many flower shops;
In order to have a perfect date, he will also go to step on a little bit of food a day in advance.
Chen Qiaoen said: "I am looking for a sweetheart, someone who can make me relax, not be a housewife", and Ellen asked her to rest and go to the kitchen to work.
Chen Qiaoen said: "I don't like surprises, next time you can not do this", Alan is not discouraged, trying to study her preferences, the right medicine.
This meticulous care, true romance and warmth allowed Ellen to step into Jon Chen's heart.
After the show, the two generously announced on Weibo, but they did not expect that the comment area was directly overturned...
Fans put on black avatars and teamed up to ask her to break up, and the "scumbag about X evidence" thrown out alone was as many as 300 pages.
Another iron fan said: "It's not that you don't want to fall in love, it's just that you can't be with him." The spearhead was directed at Alan.
Is it a "scumbag" or a 24-hour boyfriend?
On the show, Allen is almost a "perfect image."
Malaysia's super rich second generation, the family's manor houses three or four, luxury cars and yachts lined up, and a bunch of antique collections.
What is even more rare is that he is loyal and honest and treats people sincerely.
When asked by Chen Qiaoen whether he would use social software to expand his circle of friends of the opposite sex, he also denied that he had almost no friends of the opposite sex at the same stage.
But after the show, these became his crimes.
First, some netizens found that he paid attention to a large number of opposite sexes on Instagram, and the likes were more explicit photos, questioning that he was "Aquaman".
Then someone revealed that he was a "fake tycoon" and that the so-called family business was actually a fake company.
Looking at this pile of crimes, Chen Qiaoen's fans are not calm, which has a situation of "taking off the powder without breaking up".
Allen then clarified that the men were his friends.
Chen Qiaoen also supported her boyfriend for the first time, which was a misunderstanding.
It can be seen that no matter how much other people say, they can't beat Chen Qiao'en to identify this person, she doesn't care about gossip, only believes in the person she actually gets along with.
Facts have also proved that Alan, no matter how he was before this, after being with Jon Chan, was indeed a remarkable lover.
Cook for her, send her flowers, take her to the night market, wear a couple's shirt to sell cuteness, pick her up at her girlfriend's house late at night...
Chen Qiaoen, who was spoiled as a child, talked about this, and his face was full of smiles, and this happiness could not be pretended.
But even so, some people say, "They're just playing."
In May 2020, the news of the breakup came out, and Allen quickly stood up to defend the relationship between the two:
"Let's focus on the positive things together, not on the fake news and rumors, we're fine."
After the two were together, as big as making a meal, as small as eating potato chips, Chen Qiaoen had to keep a video call with him, and would ask him: Am I strong?
Chen Qiaoen said that whenever she wanted to call Alan, she answered, and once even spoke for hundreds of minutes.
On the first anniversary, they returned to the place where they first met to punch in and take pictures.
On the second anniversary, in the video posted by Chen Qiaoen, Alan is sending flowers and cooking, and the sweetness between the two is full of life.
Together for more than two years, Ellen transformed Jon Chan from a person who did not like surprises to someone who pursued a sense of ceremony, and made her change from a person who was independent of everything to someone who liked to share more and more.
His presence made Chen Qiaoen sigh: busy work finally has a corner of life.
I remember someone asking Jon Chen before: What is the thing I want to do but the least dare to do?
She replied without hesitation: "Get married."
Now, the man who dared her to take that step finally appeared.
The courage to enter into marriage comes from the fact that you can take responsibility for yourself
In addition to the good news of Chen Qiaoen, March's tail also has a good news: Sun Yizhen and Xuan Bin are married!
If Chen Qiaoen and Allen have gone through thousands of sails, then Sun Yizhen and Xuan Bin are the hope of everyone.
Before the announcement of the love affair, the love scandal between the two of them had been spread for a long time.
At the press conference of the crime movie "Consultation", the two interacted in various ways, and Xuan Bin, the "iceberg man" who was recognized in the circle as having few words and introverted words, looked uncontrollably at Sun Yizhen many times.
Sun Yizhen, who has always been low-key, has also rarely posted funny photos of the two on social platforms.
In 2019, the two were met by netizens and visited the supermarket together in Los Angeles.
Everyone lamented that "even the back of their heads is so matched", saying that they are not visiting the supermarket, "it is simply a yearning for future married life." ”
The prophecy came true, on the first day of 2021 they were publicly in love, and on March 31, 2022, they held a wedding and officially entered married life.
Perhaps because of starring in many love dramas, many people think that Sun Yizhen's marriage is not an accident, but in fact, she has been called "Golden Leftover Woman" before this.
Sun Yizhen believes that the completion of love is not necessarily marriage, and it is good to be alone and free.
She loves to fish and will often soak in the fish pond with her friends;
She also likes flower arrangement and arranges her home very interestingly;
She also often goes to sports, travels, climbs, parties, reads...
In short, she lived her own little life alone.
I think that's why she can still be full of vitality at the age of 40, and it's also the courage to love her after meeting the right person.
You will find that after getting married at the age of 40, Chen Qiaoen and Sun Yizhen have in common: they have yan and money and thoughts.
They did not hate marriage because of their age, and insisted on their yearning for love, so they waited for the right person.
They have never relied on others in life and money, so they can live a person's life with taste and confidence when they enter the marriage of two people.
Some people asked, why can Chen Qiaoen persist to this day in the face of overwhelming opposition?
I think in addition to her insistence on love, it is more her determination of herself, "I am 42 years old, not 24 years old, and I will not be so easily deceived!" ”
In other words, even if she chooses the wrong one, she can afford to lose.
Written at the end ·
Whether it is Chen Qiaoen or Sun Yizhen, their life course is like the sentence that Yishu said:
"Self-love, calmness, and then love others."
What a wonderful thing when you can take responsibility for your own choices, love someone without hesitation, and invest in a marriage.
After all, loving if you want is the norm in life.
Finally, we would like to bless Chen Qiaoen, who longs for "love at first sight", and Sun Yizhen, who is "in love for the first time", and harvest their own happiness.
I wish them a happy new marriage and have always been happy.
Have you ever bumped into these two pairs of CPs? In your mind, what is the biggest confidence to invest in marriage? Let's talk in the comments section!