Have you watched iQiyi's latest popular family dispute drama "Dear Child"?
I didn't look.
But I watched a lot of essence fragments.
Ren Suxi plays Xiao Yinuo, the wife who was cheated on during pregnancy, and Qin Hao, the son-in-law who climbed the mountain to warn the son-in-law, played Xiao Lu, the husband who cheated during pregnancy. At present, the plot has been carried out to the divorce of the male and female protagonists.
At present, there are several essential clips circulating on the Internet, and the officials can choose the ones that are suitable for their own scolding points.
Clip 1: The man's father holds the child after smoking at home, and the man's mother gives the woman's placenta after childbirth to the little uncle to eat and supplement the body.
Clip 2: The man's mother believes that the child's jaundice does not need medical treatment, and the man's mother is looking for a sister-in-law to dump the female host's breast milk to feed the milk powder.
Clip three: After the woman gave birth to a baby, her husband often drank all night and did not return, and the female protagonist and the female hostess fell to the ground in the late night heavy rain.
Clip four: At the same time that clip three happened, the male protagonist was turning clouds and raining with Xiao San, and did not receive a call from the female protagonist
Clip five: The child's first birthday banquet, Xiao San came to the door to beg the female protagonist to let her go, begged the male protagonist to return to his side, and then the female protagonist finally divorced the male protagonist...
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First of all, clearly state my personal position, I have no intention of provoking gender antagonism between men and women, and the remarks in this article are only aimed at the male protagonist of the TV series.
First thought
It's pregnancy again.
I've heard too many real-life examples of this. I really don't get it.
How can people be so shameless? When your wife is suffering physically and mentally for you.
Morning sickness, chronic lack of sleep, limited mobility, varicose veins, calf cramps, puffiness in the hands and feet ...
But the husband betrayed and deceived for the pleasure of ten minutes, and hurt the wife who sacrificed himself to be pregnant for october.
Can't you take out a little bit of humanity to control yourself?
People can't help but wonder, what is the man whose wife cheated on during pregnancy thinking?
It is not the first time I have felt this way, but in the drama "Dear Child", Xiao Lu slapped himself more than a dozen times in a row on the road after his wife filed for divorce, which really made me feel it.
The risk of childbearing is simply too high.
And this risk is not limited to production, but also includes the family crisis and marriage crisis caused by childbirth.
Take the situation of Xiao Yinuo in the "Dear Child" play, she has a very appropriate line.
"At that time, when I was not born, I desperately urged, and now that I am tired and do not want to bring it, I already know that I will not be born!"
Now many public opinions speak of women's infertility as selfishness, and try to kidnap women with moral oppression.
Excuse me？
But if there is a man who polishes his eyes, looks at more domestic dramas, and listens to the examples around him, he can understand that the real selfishness is those men who cheat during pregnancy.
Everyone should arrest these people after the chemistry xx, and then sit at the negotiating table with women to discuss the problem.
Second thought
Can domestic dramas speak of marriage from another perspective?
Next door, Bai Baihe's "Our Marriage", Haiqing's "Heart Residence", and another "Dear Child", as if the marriage of modern people is endless quarrels, compromises, and calculations.
I haven't seen a normal couple who live a good life.
We work together to run the business together.
The husband respects his wife and supports his wife's work. The wife is considerate of her husband and integrates into her husband's family with her heart.
Why, do even domestic screenwriters think we don't deserve such a marriage?
So why encourage women to enter marriage?
Not to mention that "Dear Little Child" will have another child for the daughter of leukemia.
Really, if it is not for the self-media, who will watch domestic dramas?