The most comfortable way for people to interact with each other is to trust each other, appreciate each other, have tacit understanding and tacit understanding.
Whether it is between lovers, friends, or colleagues, they need to understand each other, have something to say, and do not hide in their hearts.
You know, every time you don't understand and don't explain, you will bury the hidden dangers of contradictions, consume each other's trust and feelings, and gradually form emotional rifts.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and the reason why people go farther and farther between people is not achieved overnight and overnight.
The gradual widening of this distance must be that there are many unexplained and incomprehensible stems in each of their hearts, accumulating over time, and eventually leading to irreparability.
Just like the weeds in the crop field, if you grow one root after another, it will not endanger the seedlings, and if you wait until the grass grows crazy and then pull it, it will be too late.
The relationship between adults is not afraid of problems, nor is it afraid of misunderstandings, and the most feared thing is that one does not explain, and the other is not willing to listen.
Although silence is golden, it is obviously not applicable to this, and tacit understanding is of course very important, but it is not something that can be found between anyone and anyone.
Food has a shelf life, and the relationship between people also has a shelf life, and if there is no communication and explanation at the best time, it is difficult to expire.
How can we keep feelings fresh and make relationships long-lasting? Communication bears the brunt of communication, followed by understanding, and finally inclusion.
If there is a problem with each other, we must be honest with each other, not angry, not deadlocked, it is best not to stay overnight, take the initiative to explain, make it clear, basically can do more with less.
If it is not explained, or even covered up with lies, it will only deepen the contradictions between each other, make the estrangement more and more serious, and eventually lose each other.
In this world, there is no perfect thing, and there is no perfect person, who does the wrong thing and says the wrong thing, and we must have the courage to admit it and try our best to make up for it.
To maintain a good relationship, we must not only dare to admit mistakes and explain sincerely, but also relax our minds and listen to each other's explanations and suggestions.
A person who is stubborn, stubborn, and does not change his mind will eventually become a lonely person and bear the loneliness of a person alone.
In short, no matter what kind of relationship, we must communicate more, contact more, explain more, understand more, tolerate more, and do not lose the good feelings we have.
Don't hesitate when you need to lower your posture; don't be silent when you need to explain; and open your mind when you need to be inclusive.
Life is short, it is not easy to meet a person with similar ideals with yourself, please cherish it and treat each other sincerely.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.