Dogs are not fed enough because dogs are born with rectums.
People are not good because they are already doomed in this life.
Some people, no matter how good you are to him, he feels that it is not enough; some feelings, no matter how much suffering you suffer, can not be cared about.
Born noble, why bother posting others? Dignity is priceless, why let people trample on it?
Writer Bi Shumin said:
Our lives do not exist because we please others.
Be yourself, it doesn't matter whether others like it or not, the flowers don't bloom because of the praise of others, and so do people!
01
The more careful you are, the less you are cared for
Some people, the more careful you are, the more he becomes more intense;
Some people, the more you give in, the more he bullies you.
In this world, some people cherish your kindness, some people use your kindness, some people make you laugh, and some people hurt you!
We can be nice to others, but don't please.
What you can't get, you lower the bottom line to get, you won't be cherished, and you will eventually lose.
What you can't do, you endure the grievances to do it, you will not be cared about, and even be disliked.
Writer Su Qian said:
Whoever is comfortable with you is with and talks about being with, including friends, and when you are tired, you can stay away.
People who actively alienate you, people who are indifferent to you, even people who despise you, you can see it.
Such a person, how much power you sell to the other party does not cherish, the final doomed to hurt is their own.
Remember, more important than feelings is dignity, and the person who lets you lose your dignity is not worth your kindness to him!
02
Relationships that need to be flattered by you are all exploited
Do you think that the care you have bought in exchange for flattery is cherished? No, it's actually utilization!
You are good to a person, with sincerity written in your eyes, and put yourself in the shoes of your actions, in fact, he can feel it.
The most hateful thing about a person is not that there is no return, but that he knows that the other party is paying, and he must enjoy his payment, and even increase his demand!
In this world, there are too many people, you are good to him, he not only does not appreciate it, but when the servant summons you, such a person, you ask yourself, is it really worth your kindness to him?
The feelings exchanged for humility are all hypocrisy; the relationships maintained by flattery are not long-lasting!
If the person who is flattered accepts your offer, enjoys your giving, and squeezes you recklessly, he is actually a problem himself.
A person of integrity will never accept the kindness and money of others for no reason.
A person with good character will definitely not be helped by others, but will turn his face to each other and cross the river and tear down the bridge!
Ask yourself, the man you're flattering, your good, does he deserve it?
03
Between people and people, you are sincere
You can not love, but do not hurt.
You can not accept the efforts of others, but you cannot enjoy the efforts of others, but take it for granted.
The person who is willing to be good to you must be the one who cherishes you extraordinarily.
Between people and people, you are sincere, if the other party does not return to you sincere, hypocritical to you, don't say to please, this relationship must consider whether to do it or not!
Reluctantly come in fact is not cherished, in fact, the flattery is forced, with the word "strong" relationship, will make two people uncomfortable, will not last.
For the rest of your life, may you not have to please others and be yourself.
Life is too expensive, each of us is a baby of mom and dad, no one is worth your humbleness!
Instead of trying to please anyone and give people a chance to laugh at you, try to be yourself and make him one day unaffordable!