The pictures in this article are selected from the photos of Chen Lihua and Chi Chongrui.
Recently, the will of the rich woman Chen Lihua was exposed. According to the media, this woman, who has been in the top five of The Rich Women's List in Hurun for 12 consecutive years, left most of her property to her husband Chi Chongrui, and only a small part to a son and two daughters born to her ex-husband. Although the two people, who have always kept a low profile, did not respond to the news, they still attracted widespread attention.
Testament to see true love.
A person, in his twilight years, looks back at the vicissitudes of his life, such as autumn leaves will fall, and his heart must be intertwined with emotion, relief and sourness. At this moment, the first thing she thought of, who she could not trust the most, who she wanted to leave her wealth to, became the final yardstick for measuring her favorite.
One is the rich woman who is fierce and vigorous, and even Wang Jianlin takes the initiative to toast and give three points; the other is the "brother of Tang Monk" who is gentle and elegant and lets all the female demons carefully think about it. Chen Lihua, 76, and Chi Chongrui, 65, have been working together for 27 years.
Married to a rich woman, people said he "made a lot of money"
Chi Chongrui was born in Beijing into a Peking opera family and was deeply influenced by art.
This beautiful boy has undergone a lot of experience. He worked as a zhiqing, worked as a literary and artistic soldier, was admitted to the China Broadcasting Arts Troupe, and later studied at the Shanghai Theater Academy, and became an actor in the China Television Drama Production Center after graduation.
The 86th edition of Journey to the West is a household name, and he became an idol of that era, often shouting "Master" when walking on the road.
Chen Lihua came from a Zhenghuangqi family, but she was not a lucky "Gege", but her family was poor and she dropped out of high school.
However, she is particularly business-minded, with a masculine keen sense of smell and a bold personality.
There is countless gossip about how Chen Lihua dug the first pot of gold, some people said that they sold expensive furniture, some people said that they speculated in Hong Kong, black and white, and there were many opinions.
Once a person becomes famous, the most important thing is rumors. Since the authenticity cannot be verified, we do not judge it here.
Chen Lihua's biggest hobby is Peking Opera. In the winter of 1988, Chen Lihua went to the Peking Opera House in China to sing and met Chi Chongrui.
Master tricks, of course, to sing a few paragraphs. After coming and going, Chen Lihua felt that Chi Chongrui was sincere and secretly felt good.
A friend moved his mind and wanted to connect the two of them. Chen Lihua repeatedly refused, "No, no, no, people are 11 years younger than me." ”
▲Photos of Chen Lihua's early years
How could she not be moved?
However, it is difficult to cross the barrier of psychological pressure. She is divorced and has three children. In the secular value system, the story of a rich middle-aged woman and a small fresh meat is itself a gossip that people talk about.
This friend was very stubborn, and went to "grind" Chi Chongrui, and he was actually moved.
Human feelings, like chemical reactions, are lacking only a little catalyst before the water comes to fruition.
In 1990, the two married. At that time, Chen Lihua was already the richest woman with assets of over 100 million.
Chen Lihua is not ugly, as can be seen from the photos of her youth. But years of shopping mall hard work and marital twists and turns are wearing down a woman's face.
If you are pampered and pampered, ten fingers do not stain the spring water, it is difficult for a woman to become ugly.
Aging and vicissitudes are not so much the crushing of women by life as the crowning of women by fate - if under the wrinkles, it is full of wisdom and mature heart.
Unfortunately, many people only look at two things: face and money.
Many people say that Chi Chongrui eats soft rice and is a rich woman. Someone said with a poisonous tongue, "Master Brother, Master has been captured by the youkai!" ”
Now, Chen Lihua's will was announced, and some people said that Chi Chongrui "made a lot of money" under this time.
We don't need to confess, time will tell
In this marriage of unequal age, unmatched appearance, and looking strong and weak, did Chi Chongrui "earn"?
No matter how strong a woman is, she also needs a man to see through her vulnerability.
After marriage, Chi Chongrui quit the show business circle and moved to Hong Kong to work hard with his wife.
Chen Lihua bought a 10-carat diamond ring for her husband and built a swimming pool, and Chi Chongrui always resigned.
To say that there is no pressure is probably not realistic. He still had a dream: to return to the screen.
In 1998, Yang Jie planned to shoot "New Journey to the West", Chi Chongrui was particularly excited, but Chen Lihua was entangled.
A man in his forties, in the deep mountains and old forests for more than a year, can he eat?
But, if you really love someone, isn't it just about letting go and letting him do what he wants to do the most?
The crew is in the mountains of Yunnan. In the barrier of thousands of mountains and rivers, Chi Chongrui talks to his wife on the phone every day. The young man tickled him: "Talking so hotly, is it a sister-in-law or a lover?" He replied, "It's your sister-in-law and your lover." ”
In addition to happiness, of course, there is also the discomfort of running-in.
Chen Lihua often invited her husband to participate in business negotiations, and Chi Chongrui was very resistant: "I am not the material for business."
All marriages will fall flat. Find a fulcrum in the bland, in order to maintain happiness for a long time.
The fulcrum of Chen Lihua and Chi Chongrui is hobbies.
In addition to Peking Opera, the couple both like mahogany.
Once, Chi Chongrui came across an ancient sandalwood carving and fell in love with it.
He told her: Inch sandalwood is thousands of gold, sandalwood is extremely hard, only one inch long in a hundred years, and rosewood is especially precious.
A few words gave Chen Lihua great inspiration. She invested 200 million yuan to build a rosewood museum on the edge of the fourth ring road.
This is her business territory, but also the investment of love. She values the potential for appreciation and respects her husband's inner feelings.
Because of the rosewood, the two had endless topics and found the unity of career and hobbies.
The two have no children but are in good relationship. Chen Lihua's son, Zhao Yong, president of Fuhua Group, also has great respect for the young stepfather.
Chen Lihua grew older and retired from the front of the stage behind the scenes. Chi Chongrui often travels with his wife because she likes it.
He slept in the wind and food on the way to exorcise demons, and he was also not afraid of rumors on the road of marriage.
In the face of doubts, he is very tough: "We don't need to confess, time will tell everything." ”
Only mature men can appreciate strong wives
Strong women and weak men, men must eat soft rice? Is there an attempt? No dignity?
I have a particularly good girlfriend, a postdoc, beautiful, hard-working, and the youngest full professor in my university. Her husband is a warm man, and although the academic position is not as high as hers, it does not affect her happiness at all.
After the child is one year old, he completely brings it himself. The couple adjusted the course schedule, cooperated to make up for the position, cooked, washed and cleaned the tutoring homework, kept it in order, and cultivated the girl into a powerful primary school bully.
Every time I went to visit, there was always a warm man who gave her stewed snack sugar water to share and drink until her stomach was propped up. Whenever he introduces his wife to a foreigner, the warm man always has a proud face.
A sentence from Guo Xiaokang, a netizen who knows it, said my heart' voice:
"Men and women in a marriage should only have different divisions of labor, not different status."
In marriage, both roles are important and neither is easy. The reason why strong women and weak men have been repeatedly criticized is that the machismo that has touched some people is the machismo.
For the sensitive and narrow straight male cancer, if the wife is strong, he will be inferior, and the wife will be weak and despised.
And a mature man must be generous and gentle. He will not be angry because his wife is better than himself, but he will be proud of his wife.
A family, who is strong and not strong? Every miller draws water to his own mill. If you have to ask what men have paid in the marriage of strong women and weak men, I think the biggest sacrifice should be to cultivate the heart and not let the demons become a stumbling block to happiness.
Ip Man, played by Zhen Zidan, said: There are no men in the world who are afraid of their wives, only men who respect their wives.
See, a generation of masters can be so humble and tolerant of their lovers, is it still necessary for men in marriage to compete for high and low?