Looking back at the history of the mainland for thousands of years, we can clearly see the oppression and exploitation of women by feudal ritualism. In traditional rituals, women depend on their husbands and sons for survival and often lose their qualifications as independent individuals. With the development of society, in the modern era of the mainland, the idea that "women without talent is moral" was overthrown, and many women went out of the house again and began to receive education like men and see a broader world. However, some of these women still choose the life of a husband and a godson. Their choice is not to succumb to fate, but to make a willing dedication under the torrent of the times. The next thing we want to talk about is such a good wife and mother, her name is Zhu Meifu.
On February 20, 1913, Zhu Meifu was born in shanghai at that time. Her father's name was Zhu Hong, a talent at the end of the Qing Dynasty, who made a living as a teacher, and the family's heirs flourished. In the first few years of Zhu Meifu's birth, life in her family was still good, but soon, her father was unjustly imprisoned and died.
In order to save her husband, Zhu Meifu's mother was bent on exonerating her husband and had no time to take care of Zhu Meifu and other siblings, which also led to Zhu Meifu's two younger brothers and one sister not growing up and leaving this world early. It can be said that Zhu Meifu's childhood was chaotic and gray, and she had to put her mind on learning and thinking without the love of her parents, and over time, she also developed her calm and gentle personality.
In Zhu Meifu's life, there is an important figure that runs through her life, and this person is her cousin Fu Lei, who is 5 years older than her. When the name Fu Lei is mentioned, many people will feel very familiar, and they will naturally think of the famous "Fu Lei Family Book", but few people know the sentimentality of Fu Lei's private life.
Because he grew up with Fu Lei, Zhu Meifu and Fu Lei have a friendship between them. In Zhu Meifu's heart, Fu Lei was calm and introverted, a talented teenager, and very loving and caring for himself. In the early age of love, she fell in love with her cousin, and throughout her life, she embraced this selfish and irritable man with endless tenderness. At the age of 14, Zhu Meifu and Fu Lei were engaged, and at this time, they were still a pair of sympathetic people.
After getting engaged, Fu Lei went to France to study, where he met a French girl named Madeleine. Compared with Zhu Meifu's restrained calmness, Madeleine's enthusiasm soon attracted Fu Lei's attention, and it was no surprise that he and Madeleine fell in love. This exotic feeling brought Fu Lei the feeling of breaking through the confinement and pursuing freedom, and for this reason, he even wrote a letter back to China to ask for his marriage with Zhu Meifu. But soon, Madeleine broke up with Fu Lei because she couldn't stand her bad temper. Fu Lei realized that he had lost his girlfriend and fiancée, and for a while he could not leave anything behind, so he decided to commit suicide. At this time, the friend who delivered the letter for Fu Lei found him, saying that the letter had not yet been delivered, which dragged Fu Lei back from the brink of suicide.
After returning to China, Fu Lei married Zhu Meifu according to the marriage contract. After getting married, the two had a brief sweet time, but after the freshness faded, Fu Lei cheated on his female student as before. He appealed to his true feelings in his love letter to the female students, but completely ignored his wife who bore children and ran the housework for him at home, and Zhu Meifu, after learning about this incident, still swallowed all the pain himself as before, turned around and continued to take care of his children, and helped Fu Lei tidy up his studio.
After seven years of marriage, Fu Lei once again cheated on the soprano Singer Chen Jiajun at the time. This time, the love between Fu Lei and Chen Jiajun was so fierce that he could not work without seeing Chen Jiajun. In desperation, Zhu Meifu had to call Chen Jiajun and said: You come to my house, otherwise he has no intention of working. When she received this call, Chen Jiajun was very shocked, because she had never thought that Zhu Meifu, the righteous Lady Fu, would be so kind to her, and when she really went to Fu Lei's house, Zhu Meifu also took good care of her, and even carefully inquired about her preferences.
After this, Chen Jiajun was surrounded by deep guilt. It is true that she is in love with Fu Lei, but Zhu Meifu's kindness makes her unable to enjoy this love with peace of mind. Under the entanglement of thinking, Chen Jiajun finally chose to go to Hong Kong to end his relationship with Fu Lei.
Since then, Zhu Meifu has been with Fu Lei, if there is only one person in this world who can tolerate Fu Lei, then this person must be Zhu Meifu. During the special period, Fu Lei suffered a huge impact, and finally could not bear the humiliation, chose to take poison to commit suicide, and Zhu Meifu also chose to hang himself after he took poison to end his life with Fu Lei.
Zhu Meifu's affection for Fu Lei is rare in the world, and the qualities displayed in her are like stars in the night sky, shining through time. This is her life worth lamenting, and it is also the path she personally chose.