Elderly boy Wang Meng
The return of wanli is getting younger and younger, and this sentence is not exaggerated to describe the writer Wang Meng.
He was born in 1934, when the Red Army began its Long March, and joined the Communist Party of China at the age of 14, in which he participated in every step of the new China.
He began to create at the age of 19, and a "Long Live Youth" shocked four people and became famous.
In the past 70 years, Wang Meng has written nearly 18 million words of literary works, published nearly 100 novels and essays, and won national literary awards such as the Mao Dun Literature Award.
Wang Meng, who is known as a literary "synthesis" who has experienced "the entire modern history of China", has a bumpy life, but he is still optimistic.
Writer Wang Meng
Wang Meng, now 88 years old, was called an "elderly boy" by Tie Ning, chairman of the Chinese Writers Association.
Because he is enthusiastic about all kinds of new things in life, he is eager to try, and he does not look like an old man at all.
Now Wang Meng swimming fitness has six-pack abs, and it is indeed energetic like a young boy.
In the face of Wang Meng's writings and continuous creations, Ningxia writer Zhang Xianliang once made a joke about Wang Meng, saying: "Can people without gossip write novels?" I want to criticize Wang Meng. ”
Yes, Wang Meng is indeed a person without gossip. Asked why he didn't have a scandal, Wang Meng said: "The best people in the world have been married by me. ”
The man whom Wang Meng called "the best man in the world" was his wife, Cui Ruifang.
Wang Meng and Cui Ruifang
Wang Meng and his wife Cui Ruifang have been together for 55 years and have a deep affection, and they are a model husband and wife in the literary and art circles, and everyone is envious.
In March 2012, Cui Ruifang unfortunately fell ill and died, and Wang Meng was once in pain and his heart was like ashes.
However, I did not expect that his wife Cui Ruifang had just passed away a year ago, and Wang Meng had flashmarried his 20-year-old wife, who had known each other for less than half a month.
Some people say that he is affectionate, he only says: "I believe in love." ”
In the spring of 1950, when the sun was shining and the peach blossoms were in full bloom, Wang Meng and his sister Wang Sprinkle went to Beihai Park for a walk. I happened to meet Cui Ruifang, who also came to Beihai Park to play.
Wang Meng and Cui Ruifang
At a glance, 16-year-old Wang Meng was impressed by the beautiful girl in front of him with a bright smile and two black braids.
This day Beihai Park is particularly beautiful, because Wang Meng met his own "peach blossoms." ”
Cui Ruifang is a primary school classmate of Wang Meng's sister Wang Shan, who is one year older than Wang Meng. Usually, I also heard Wang Shang talk about his younger brother Wang Meng, so he just regarded Wang Meng as a cute younger brother.
But fate is so wonderful. Three months later, fate once again sent Cui Ruifang to Wang Meng.
Cui Ruifang, who was in high school at the time, was transferred to the courtyard at No. 39 East Forty-One To do paperwork. And this is where Wang Meng works.
Wang Meng and his wife
Seeing the heartthrob girl again, Wang Meng was very happy. He wrote in his diary: "Ruifang's smile illuminated the entire district committee compound. ”
In and out of the same compound, Cui Ruifang would often meet Wang Meng, but every time Cui Ruifang just nodded and smiled at Wang Meng, she passed and did not communicate much.
But Wang Meng would always pay attention to the time when Cui Ruifang went to the canteen to eat, as long as he saw her go to the canteen, he would immediately pick up his lunch box and follow Cui Ruifang to eat.
Looking at this fart worm, Cui Ruifang did not pay attention to it, only as a childish behavior of a little brother.
However, I did not expect that the enthusiastic Wang Meng began to write love letters to Cui Ruifang, and opened a letter of emotional bombardment in the morning and a letter in the evening.
In the letter, Wang Meng wrote enthusiastically and bluntly: "When you leave, don't say a word to me, I miss you." ”
However, the beautiful and elegant sister Cui Ruifang did not express anything, nor did she reply to the letter, or politely rejected Wang Meng.
Wang Meng in the second grade of primary school
The young and vigorous Wang Meng is emotionally persistent and brave.
One night, Cui Ruifang was still working hard, and the bold Wang Meng directly lay on the windowsill where Cui Ruifang worked, inviting Cui Ruifang to go out for a walk with him.
He said to Cui Ruifang in pain: "Take a break and take a walk!" ”
Seeing that Cui Ruifang was going to refuse, Wang Meng took the opportunity to pray: "Go, go for a while!" ”
Since there were other people in the office, in order to avoid the impact, Cui Ruifang agreed.
This was the first time Cui Ruifang agreed to walk with himself, and Wang Meng was very happy.
In this way, in the cold night of Beijing, under the dim street lamp, the two deliberately kept a distance, walking slowly one after the other, talking about dreams and talking about the revolution and talking about the future.
This night, they did not have any restraints, but opened their hearts in a chat with a pair of pairs.
Minister of Culture Wang Meng
Many years later, Wang Meng recalled this beautiful night, still fresh in his memory, and sighed happily: "Thousands of lamps are shining for us, and I am as happy as a prince." ”
Finally, Wang Meng's talent and sincerity touched Cui Ruifang, and the two established a romantic relationship.
Unexpectedly, in 1956, Wang Meng entered the trough of his life because he published the novel "The New Young Man of the Organization Department".
After seven years of falling in love and knowing each other, Cui Ruifang firmly believes that Wang Meng is a good person.
When everyone around him avoided Wang Meng, on January 28, 1957, Cui Ruifang married Wang Meng without hesitation.
In a small courtyard in a dilapidated hutong in Beijing, Cui Ruifang specially made a bowl of fried sauce noodles with meat foam to celebrate their new marriage.
Despite the rudimentary wedding, Wang Meng happily boasted with his friends: "Engaging in my favorite writing and having a happy family are the two most successful things for me, and I have no regrets in this life."
In the face of her beloved, Cui Ruifang also made a vow that "in this life, whether it is joy, whether it is stable or running, she will follow him".
This year, Wang Meng was 23 years old and Cui Ruifang was 24 years old.
After getting married, the two could not see each other every day because of their work. But Wang Meng would often write letters to Cui Ruifang, writing all his fiery feelings and strong thoughts in the letter.
At that time, Wang Meng only had 4 days off every month to get along with his wife Cui Ruifang. As soon as the rest time was over, Wang Meng would return to Yanjiao to work.
At this time, Cui Ruifang would buy Wang Meng a train ticket to the station to deliver him.
Although they are tired and tired, the newly married two still feel very happy. The optimistic two people comfort each other and try to enjoy this short and wonderful vacation.
However, there seems to be no end to life's setbacks.
Wang Meng and Cui Ruifang went to Ili, Xinjiang
One day in 1962, Wang Meng called home and said that he was about to leave Beijing to work and live in distant Xinjiang because of the organizational work transfer.
He asked Cui Ruifang nervously: "I'm going to Xinjiang, are you going?" Almost without any hesitation, Cui Ruifang's voice came from the other end of the phone: "I'll go with you." ”
So Cui Ruifang sold the few pieces of furniture in the family, packed up her luggage, and took two young children with Wang Meng on the westbound train.
In Xinjiang, Wang Meng and Cui Ruifang's family lived in an 8-square-meter hut, living in very difficult conditions and living a difficult life.
The temperature difference between day and night in Xinjiang is large, and at first they did not adapt to life, but after getting used to it, they began to make fun of it.
The optimistic Wang Began to learn Uighur and sometimes went swimming in reservoirs.
Wife Cui Ruifang with children
In the sixteen years in Xinjiang, Cui Ruifang has no complaints and has been accompanying Wang Meng.
In 1979, Wang Meng was transferred back to Beijing, and the family of five finally returned to the haunting Beijing.
After returning to Beijing, Wang Meng entered a period of high incidence of creation, and all the trivial matters of life were handed over to Cui Ruifang.
Wang Meng, a giant in academic creation, is indeed a "dwarf of action" in life. I often throw them around, and sometimes I don't even know if my pants are long or short.
Cui Ruifang often blamed him for being a "stupid nerd", but still took good care of him.
Mr. and Mrs. Wang Meng returned to Beijing with their children
Even in order to support Wang Meng's work, Cui Ruifang gave up a good job promotion and only chose ordinary jobs, so that she would have more time to help take care of the family and take care of him.
Wang Meng traveled on business, she not only meticulously packed her luggage, but also accompanied her throughout the whole process and took good care of her.
The years have not passed, and in a flash, Wang Meng and Cui Ruifang have spent more than fifty years hand in hand. Cui Ruifang also took care of Wang Meng for most of his life.
Sometimes Cui Ruifang would be afraid that she would die in front of Wang Meng, worried that Wang Meng would not be able to take care of herself.
However, no matter how deep the love is, it can not withstand the years, and on March 23, 2012, Cui Ruifang died of cancer at the age of 80.
Cui Ruifang funeral
The departure of his wife made Wang Meng feel that the sky had collapsed.
At the farewell ceremony of Cui Ruifang's body, Wang Meng was devastated and could not cry, and he tearfully wrote a mourning poem to Cui Ruifang, "Giving a Loving Wife": "In this life and this heart, Seocho Fang Is a Warm Wind."
The blow of the elderly widow made Wang Meng feel pain and his mental state was getting worse and worse. In order to forgive Wang Meng, friends often came to visit Wang Meng, and they would also invite him out to relax at some parties.
At a party, Wang Meng met the beautiful and elegant Shan Sanya, and Wang Meng's silent heart suddenly came to life.
Shan Sanya, 20 years younger than Wang Meng, is a famous news expert, a senior reporter of Guangming Daily, and a rare outstanding talent.
At the same time, Shan Sanya loves literature and is also a loyal fan of Wang Meng.
In an interview with the famous host Dou Wentao, Wang Meng said: "When I met him this time, I was killed by Shan Sanya, and I fell in love with her at first sight. ”
When they first met, the two talked happily, and they felt like they were at first sight.
Wang Meng and Shan Sanya
At that time, Shan Sanya was also very considerate, worried that Wang Meng was cold, so he took a coat and carefully put it on for Wang Meng, and intimately tied the buttons one by one.
Wang Meng watched Shan Sanya's movements quietly, without a trace of resistance, and was already completely immersed in her tenderness.
Wang Meng's love is crazy. Wang Meng, who was on a business trip, did not care about rest as soon as his work was over, preferring to drive for three hours to rush back to the hotel where Shan Sanya worked, just to have lunch with her.
On October 1, 2013, under the fiery love, the two people spent half a month together, and they quickly got married.
In the company of Shan Sanya, Wang Meng glowed with new vitality.
Veteran journalist Shan Sanya
He keeps up with the times and actively learns new things. Now Wang Meng is no stranger to Internet buzzwords, and chatting with young people is also a common topic.
In the "Round Table Pie" program, Wang Meng also discussed with the guests about the insomnia of young people. For the current education problem, Wang Meng humorously said that he would fail to participate in the primary school language test.
In order to enhance his physical strength, Wang Meng insisted on walking 10,000 steps every day, and he would also punch in the circle of friends.
In the face of the reporter's interview, Wang Meng said happily:
"I insist on walking every day, but also post the circle of friends, if you feel that the time to go is almost the same, a look at the walking data is an auspicious number, I quickly screenshot the circle of friends, and then go back to the number even if it is increased."
I have to say that Wang Meng is indeed a cute and interesting person.
Wang Meng swims in the Beidai River
When he was young, he liked the hobby of swimming, but Wang Meng insisted on it, and he had to swim twice a week. Every year, going to Beidaihe for two weeks to swim is the happiest thing for Wang Meng.
Perhaps it is the perennial fitness, and now Wang Mengdu has practiced six-pack abs. He proudly told reporters interviewed: "My muscles are no worse than those of young people now. ”
Indeed, as Tie Ning said, Wang Meng was a high-collared young man. You look at this spirited look like an old man, there is no sense of old age at all.
Wang Meng, who has been working tirelessly, continues to gallop on the road of creation, he did not dry up his creation because of his old age, on the contrary, he was inspired frequently, and successively published many new works such as "Wang Meng's Eighty Self-Description", "Stuffiness and Madness", "The Wind of Laughter" and so on.
Wang Meng accepted the medal from General Secretary Xi Jinping (next to Shan Sanya)
In 2019, Wang Meng won the national honorary title of "People's Artist", and General Secretary Xi Jinping personally presented the award. This is a supreme honor for an artist.
Today's Wang Meng, fame and fortune in career, harvest love and marriage in life, can be said to be a spring breeze proud of horseshoe disease, how to envy.
Famous host Dou Wentao said that Wang Meng is his life mentor because the "hopeless optimism" guide in him has lived a troubled and twisted life.
Wang Meng, who has not had a scandal in his life, is now being spat upon as a 20-year-old wife who is half a month's lightning marriage.
However, Wang Meng, who has a wealth of life experience, could not have been unaware that his flash marriage behavior would definitely be "talked about", but he still bravely did it.
Wang Mengdan Sanya and his wife with Thai Princess Sirindhorn
Perhaps this behavior is driven by the "hopeless optimism" that even Dou Wentao envies.
The sunset is infinitely better, just near dusk. The inevitable dusk has arrived, are you sad and sad, or optimistic and open-minded to appreciate this beautiful scenery on earth?
Wang Meng's choice was the latter. Life is short, and following your own inner choices is the most important.
As he said: "You can never understand the human grief of the elderly widow, Sanya's arrival is my rescue, she is the light that dispels the haze, I am very lucky to be able to get her care, comfort, and companionship." ”
Therefore, Wang Meng, who shouted and believed in love, bravely walked with Shan Sanya.
Writer Wang Meng
For the sake of fame, for the sake of face, for the sake of the eyes of the people around them, who else can be as brave as Wang Meng? Almost nothing.
In 2014, Wang Meng went to Hainan to participate in the event, and Shan Sanya accompanied him. Wang Meng did not shy away from introducing the gentle and dignified woman next to him to everyone, that is, his new wife Shan Sanya.
Such a courageous official announcement really made everyone exclaim that Wang Meng was unusual.
In Hainan, where the scenery is infinitely good, in the romantic place at the end of the world, Wang Meng sang love songs to Shan Sanya affectionately, like a young man in his first love.
Shan Sanya also accompanied Wang Meng back to Xinjiang many times, back to Ili, back to Bayandai, where Wang Meng could not forget.
Shan Sanya said to Wang Meng: "Sixteen years in Xinjiang are not your sixteen years of difficulty, but your precious sixteen years. ”
How could a beautiful person who understood Wang Meng's heart so well not let him love? Don't let him hurry up and have it in his arms?
Wang Meng and writer Bing Xin
After marrying Shan Sanya, Wang Meng is indeed getting younger and more fashionable, and his energetic state makes many people feel incredible.
A beautiful love will make you rejuvenate with new life, and I believe that this is the change that the power of love has brought to Wang Meng.
But Wang Meng has not forgotten Cui Ruifang, and the feelings of 55 years of friendship will not be erased by marrying another wife.
As Cui Ruifang said in the book "My Husband Wang Meng": "The two of us have become one." ”
Cui Ruifang is already a special existence beyond love for Wang Meng, a confidant and a soul mate. In Wang Meng's home, there is still a photo of his wife Cui Ruifang.
Emotionally, Wang Meng is undoubtedly lucky, before there is a wife Cui Ruifang who has been in love with Yimu for a lifetime, and then there is a new life for his current wife Shan Sanya.
Wang Meng and Shan Sanya
Not entangled with him shortly after the time of his wife's death, his courage to pursue love and embrace a new life is still commendable.
Wang Meng said that "the old age was cut into thin slices and youth was restored." ”
I hope that no matter when, we can shout out that sentence like Wang Meng: "Long live life, long live youth, long live love." ”