"Ten years of life and death are vague, not thinking, unforgettable." —— Su Shi
Some love, destined to be like the moon in the mirror, can not be expected, but also like the sky of a brilliant rainbow, as well as a fleeting ephemeral flower, no matter how beautiful is a hurry, and then disappeared endlessly.
Actress Zhao Mingming is such a bitter woman, who has only loved one husband in her life, and the two fell in love at the age of 18 and walked from campus to marriage.
Unexpectedly, this husband directly proposed divorce in the delivery room when Zhao Mingming gave birth, which was extremely chilling.
Zhao Mingming single-handedly pulled up his daughter, became a single mother for 23 years, and has not remarried at the age of 52. Fortunately, the daughter is extremely angry, and the days that are no longer good are now out of the head.
Husband is ruthless, love is wrongly paid
When Zhao Mingming first was with Yingning, the Yingning family was so poor that they were almost innocent, but Zhao Mingming did not complain and has been accompanying and helping her husband.
Zhao Mingming believes that her husband Yingning is a very ambitious person, and he also belongs to the kind of person who has a late bloom, has a body of talent, but needs a platform to show.
So even though the days in front of him are very difficult, and there is no next meal, Zhao Mingming is still willing to firmly guard her husband's side and form a small family with him.
Unlike her husband, Zhao Mingming's acting career is gradually rising, and even played the role of Zhao Feiyan at the best time.
In order to create Zhao Feiyan's light posture, she did not hesitate to diet to lose weight, and the final effect was very good and praised.
At the same time, her husband Yingning also has his own career, that is, he wants to realize his dream of directing wholeheartedly.
But if you want to become a famous director, it is so easy, so her husband Yingning runs around every day, basically not staying home for several days.
At this time, Zhao Mingming was actually pregnant and gave birth to a daughter in the hospital.
Originally thought that the birth of her daughter would bring greater joy and laughter to the family, but I did not expect that when her husband Yingning came to the delivery room for the first step, he directly opened his mouth to say two cold and ruthless words: divorce.
It turned out that during the period of Yingning's so-called entrepreneurship, he had long loved her, and this woman had fascinated him so much that he didn't even know who he was.
He said he had to give the woman an account, so he divorced his wife.
Such a husband is obviously unreliable, even if the two people walk from the campus to the wedding dress, they still have not carried the pain of three years, the pressure of the seven-year itch, even if they are so desperate and hard, the husband is still cheating.
Meet your first love and help your career
I think that Zhao Mingming was also one of the best goddess-level figures on campus, and the number of people pursued was innumerable.
But Zhao Mingming wanted to study hard, so he did not put his extra thoughts on love, but even so, Zhao Mingming would still receive a lot of love letters.
In the long run, Zhao Mingming will feel very annoyed, which has seriously affected Zhao Mingming's life.
Even some boys would chase after the door of her dormitory, causing some trouble to Zhao Mingming's roommates.
Therefore, Zhao Mingming decided to break it when he decided, otherwise he would suffer chaos in the future, and Zhao Mingming pretended to find a boyfriend so that the boys who pursued her would die.
But who the boyfriend chose was better, and After thinking about it, Zhao Mingming put the target on his classmate Yingning.
Because Yingning looks very honest, when the other boys are pursuing themselves, Yingning does not pay any attention to it, but is doing things silently.
Therefore, Zhao Mingming felt that Yingning should have no other ideas about himself, and it was most suitable to find him as a childcare.
Unexpectedly, although Yingning did not say a word on the surface, he would not fight in the open like other boys, but he was actually a high-level hunter.
He would only slowly observe the prey in the dark, and then break it in one fell swoop, so that the two people must have contact, and at first Zhao Mingming did not have the slightest feeling for Yingning, thinking that this person was very ordinary and had no characteristics.
But later, after the two people got deeper and deeper into each other, Zhao Mingming found that the Yingning in front of him was particularly talented, although his appearance was not very prominent, but he was talented.
Coupled with the fact that Yingning has never given up the pursuit of Zhao Mingming, under such a soft and hard bubble, Zhao Mingming finally agreed.
Of course, the love between the two of them will experience the barrier of many people, first of all, from the school, everyone thinks that the two of them are still students, it is not appropriate to fall in love, or to focus on academics.
The parents of both sides also strongly oppose this love, but Zhao Mingming, who is in love, does not consider these consequences at all, but instead plunges into it and spends these sweet moments with his boyfriend.
After graduating from college, Zhao Mingming made a big decision, that is, the two people received a marriage license six days after graduation.
No husband, independent and strong
I think that Zhao Mingming also had countless expectations for Yingning and this love, imagining what a warm and happy little family there would be in the future.
But the scene in front of him made Zhao Mingming extremely disappointed, and her husband had long since disappeared, leaving only her daughter alone.
So Zhao Mingming secretly decided in his heart that he must raise his daughter to adulthood and not accept anyone's financial support.
Even if there is no husband, Zhao Mingming will live better than anyone, fortunately, Zhao Mingming's daughter is very angry.
And Zhao Mingming is also very careful and responsible in education, and I have to say that this is also a very tolerant and discerning mother.
Although the daughter's father is not responsible at all, like a deserter, in front of her daughter, Zhao Mingming has never said a word of her husband Yingning, she feels that these are the enmity between adults, and there is no need to bring children again.
Some people are also advising Zhao Mingming to remarry, after all, the life after this will be better, but Zhao Mingming has no such thoughts, and the only thing he thinks about is to raise his daughter to adulthood.
Although Zhao Mingming has had a failed marriage, he is incredibly strong and independent, perfectly explaining what a single mother can live a good life, no longer need to rely on men, and become a vassal of men.
Now Zhao Mingming's mother and daughter have lived nearly 20 years of single life, although these days are very bitter, but in retrospect it is also extremely sweet, because she chose to be herself.
epilogue
"Women should not be confined to the kitchen and trivia, they also have their own poetry and distance", after leaving men, they are also very determined, bold, confident, calm, and live a wonderful life.
Zhao Mingming has her own talent and strength, and I believe that her life will only get better and better in the future, and her daughter will be as good as her.