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Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

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Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Shi Shengjie, a famous Chinese cross-talk actor and a national first-class actor, is a national-level expert with outstanding contributions, enjoys special allowances from the State Council, has won many awards such as the "Quyi Art Contribution Award", and is also a closed disciple of The cross-talk master Mr. Hou Baolin.

The main works he created and performed are: "Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", "Marriage", "I want to make up lessons", "Drunken song", "Change when you know mistakes", "You at the same table", "Love Advantages", "Learning Drama", "Girls and Boys Don't Be Like This", "Love Adventure"...

Among them, "Mayor Hao", "Liver and Gallbladder Photo", "The Adventure of the Little Shoemaker" and other classics are circulated on demand.

Shi Shengjie and his wife Song Yan, who were in distress, worked together for many years. There are happy and laughter, happy and warm times, there are also painful and helpless, gray periods, and experience the variety of life.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

01.

In April 1953, Shi Sheng was born in Tianjin and had an older brother on top. In a cross-talk family, his father Shi Shiyuan was a famous cross-talk actor, and his mother Gao Xiuqin was peking opera from elementary school, when Hua Dan, and later changed to cross-talk; the whole family migrated to Harbin for the sake of cross-talk art.

In a family full of cross-talk art, Shi Shengjie hears about it every day and gets a lot of inspiration from it. At the age of seven, he can perform cross-talk on stage and get a large audience. At the age of eight, he learned his art from a teacher and was ready to go on stage like his parents in the future to speak cross-talk and become a successful and excellent cross-talk actor.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Because of the problems of the times, his family was affected, when he was only a teenager, and he was also shocked. He was sent to the Northern Wilderness as the target of the shock and underwent a labor reform through hard work.

After staying in the Northern Wilderness for seven years, I did all the hard and tiring farm work. Although Shi Shengjie has not done any housework since he was a child, in this northern wilderness, Shi Shengjie has always been conscientious, working hard, and doing everything well.

Physically exhausted, Shi Shengjie can bear hardships; and because of the problems of the times, he mentally hurts him, tortures him, and makes him feel heavy.

Perhaps it was these experiences and sufferings that laid a good foundation for Shi Shengjie in his later development.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

One day in 1975, while doing farm work in the fields and resting in the middle of the way, someone used the radio to play a cross-talk "Ode to Friendship" spoken by Ma Ji and Tang Jiezhong.

Shi Shengjie heard a cross-talk in the field that he had not heard for a long time, and his mood relaxed a lot at that moment. After the radio was finished, he said to everyone, "This kind of broadcast is called crosstalk, and I will say it." Everyone was very curious and excited when they heard it, and they said together: "Yes, let's hurry up and have a period now." ”

Shi Shengjie did not shirk, and directly said a classic cross-talk, which was applauded by everyone. After that, every time in the middle of the break, he would not hesitate to say a cross-talk for everyone, so that everyone was happy and happy, and everyone who did farm work was happy physically and mentally.

Not long after, Shi Shengjie's story of crosstalk was known to the regimental headquarters above, and the opportunity also followed.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In 1975, the Corps held a qu art study class, and Shi Shengjie was lucky enough to be selected as a member of the study class. In the class, he worked hard, was self-motivated, and thought well; he also knew Jiang Kun and Li Jingmin. At that time, there was a work "Lin Hai Hongying", which reflected the life of Zhiqing, and the leaders above decided to let Shi Shengjie and Jiang Kun work together.

Jiang Kun is three years older than Shi Shengjie, humble, studious, funny, good art cells, blowing, playing and singing are OK. The two collaborated on "Lin Hai Hongying" to perform in the Corps Club, which had a good effect and was appreciated by the leaders.

This cross-talk work was also used to represent the Corps to participate in the provincial qu art tuning performance, and also represented Heilongjiang to participate in the national quyi tuning performance. When performing at the Beijing Theater, their cross-talk caused a great sensation, and some literary troupes rushed to invite them, but sadly, because of the problems of the times, Shi Shengjie returned to the Northern Wilderness Agricultural Reform after the performance.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Compared with Shi Shengjie, Jiang Kun was much luckier, and he was brought to development by Ma Ji, the leader of the rap troupe at that time, who was the head of the Central Broadcasting Arts Troupe at that time. For missing Shi Shengjie, a potential stock, Ma Ji's regimental commander is also very helpless and regretful.

It is the day when gold will always shine.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

02.

In 1976, Shi Shengjie was transferred to the Provincial Longjiang Theater Music Team, and finally became a professional cross-talk actor. Even if he has been working for many years, he is only a temporary worker and has not turned regular.

But Shi Shengjie is still very self-sufficient, he knows in his heart that he has no backing, and he is treated differently because of the problems of the times, and he cannot take classes to enter the university; only by virtue of his own skills, he gets the opportunity, does the cause he loves to do, and reunites with his family, which is already the best result.

Moreover, here, he met the love of his life, Song Yan.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Song Yan initially studied Peking Opera in the provincial art, and after graduation, she was assigned to the provincial Longjiang Theater Quyi team to learn to sing Shandong Qinshu. As early as when Shi Shengjie went from the corps to Harbin to perform, she had a good feeling in her heart.

Therefore, when Shi Shengjie was transferred to the Provincial Longjiang Theater Quyi Team, as a professional cross-talk actor, in the later performances, deepened Song Yan's liking for Shi Shengjie.

However, Shi Shengjie was a small transparent young actor at that time, while Song Yan was from the working class and a member of the Communist Youth League, and his future was bright.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Song Yanren is beautiful and generous, kind and lovely, and very diligent. When she saw that many comrades in the regiment did not have time to wash clothes, they would help to wash them, and when they found torn clothes, they would also sew and mend them. Therefore, he is deeply loved and welcomed by everyone in the regiment, and the handsome Shi Shengjie is no exception.

The two worked together for three years, and in the daily relationship, they had a long-term relationship, but they did not confess it. The gap between the two and the era of Shi Shengjie's family made this relationship shelved for several years.

Lovers eventually become dependents!

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

When Shi Shengjie's family no longer has the problem of the times, at a New Year's Day party, Shi Shengjie drank some wine, spit out the truth after drinking, found Song Yan to confess her affection, and said that she would fall in love for a few years, and then get married and have an economic foundation to do a wedding.

Song Yan was originally full of heart for Shi Shengjie, and after listening to it, she was naturally willing and happy, and immediately replied: "Good." A simple and warm confession, so that the little couple can finally talk about each other in a fair way after many years.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Shi Shengjie and Song Yan talked about a warm love. When it came time to talk about marriage, Shi Shengjie felt that his wife needed to know the specific situation of his family, so he took his girlfriend Song Yan to his hometown residence.

When we arrived at the location, the simple home could not be more simple, the space was crowded, the population was large, the furniture was only a table, five chairs, a kang, and nothing else.

After eating, Shi Shengjie sent his girlfriend home and couldn't help but ask his girlfriend: "Seeing the situation in my family, are you going to break up with me?" Song Yan laughed at once, what do you say, I am married to you as a person, not your family situation, what is the point.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In June 1981, the young couple married each other. Although there is no house, no car, no money, and no place to live, the place where the two people live is the office. However, it did not affect the feelings and work of the two people in the slightest.

In the same year, Tianjin held the first national quyi northern film tuning performance. Shi Shengjie and the elder Yu Shide collaborated to say "Mayor Hao", the performance was very successful, won two first prizes for creation and performance, which caused a big movement in the Chinese cross-talk industry.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

03.

In 1982, Song Yan gave birth to the daughter of the two with difficulty, and Shi Shengjie was not with his wife and daughter because of his work.

Shi Shengjie spent two years working hard for the creation, from the text content to the vivid and wonderful performance, Shi Shengjie is doing the cause he loves with his heart. He was not afraid of the wind and rain, the cold and heat of winter, to the tram, car line to feel life, traveled to many places; also from the artists who transferred to the two people for many times to learn to sing.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

After the hard work of people with hearts (Shi Shengjie), he finally learned a little, which added brilliant colors to the cross-talk performance.

Immediately afterward, Shi Shengjie participated in the provincial quyi appraisal performance, and the name of the cross-talk performance was "Girls and Boys Don't Be Like This", and the performance was successful and won the first prize.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In 1984, Xiangsheng "Liver and Gallbladder Photo" participated in the national cross-talk new work performance competition and won the first prize. At this event, there was a cross-talk master Hou Baolin present, and Shi Shengjie just didn't know.

Listening to Shi Shengjie's cross-talk, the master was very happy, looking at Shi Shengjie was like looking at a piece of jade, and his love was expressed on the table. The master did things quickly and crisply, and he accepted Shi Shengjie as a closed disciple in public and let the cross-talk be passed on.

The ceremony was held in Qingdao, when cross-talk masters, celebrities and journalists from all over the country gathered. At the ceremony, Shi Shengjie sent flowers and bowed to Master and His Wife Hou Baolin.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Master Hou Baolin sent back some cross-talk tapes and his own treatises, and also took off the hand ring he had worn for many years and brought it to the hands of his disciples, took the hands of the disciples and held them up together, saying: "Shi Shengjie is my closed disciple, and I will never accept disciples again." My acceptance of Shengjie as an apprentice is not only a matter for our teachers and apprentices, but an important matter for the cross-talk community. I believe that a descendant like Shi Shengjie can continue the art of our cross-talk industry very well, and the development of cross-talk art will continue to be passed on. ”

When the master finished speaking, there was a big applause from the audience. Since then, Shi Shengjie has become a descendant of Hou Pai, and his cross-talk acting career has reached a higher level.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In the cross-talk acting career, Shi Shengjie's stage image is unique and full of personal color, humor, and excellent in singing; the style is such a simple and real, natural, sweet-pitched performance mode.

In 1985, Shi Shengjie was named one of the top ten "laughing stars" with years of hard work, creation and honorary awards.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

04.

In 1987, he took the cross-talk "The Adventure of the Little Shoemaker" created with Yuan Jianbang and his partner Yu Fusheng to participate in the first China Art Festival held in Beijing, which caused a powerful shock and will still be watched by people today.

"The Adventure of the Little Shoemaker" won the gold medal of the festival and was selected for the "New Chinese Film and Television Art Masterpieces" series of CDs.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Since Shi Shengjie engaged in the cross-talk business, it is estimated that he himself can't remember how many awards he has won; he has also participated in the "Spring Festival Gala" that many celebrities and stars yearn for many times.

Shi Shengjie is a very principled person, he will not follow the trend, nor is he snobbish, let alone heavy profit.

As one of the top ten comedians, he is the only person to be evaluated from other provinces; as a judge, Shi Shengjie pursues the height of cross-talk art, and can be a bowl of water for players from different places and different divisions, respecting each player.

The judges who came were all masters in the cross-talk industry, and they all cherished their reputation and status, and would carefully score each contestant. Shi Shengjie is the only judge from other provinces, and he should be fair, just and accurate.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In the treatment of cross-talk business, Shi Shengjie, like every master, hopes that cross-talk art will have a good continuation. He took in 12 apprentices, but only held 4 worship ceremonies.

Among these disciples, there were seven of them who were more outstanding, and seven who were also more satisfied with Shi Shengjie. Among them was the eldest disciple Liu Tong: who rose to prominence in the cross-talk competition, won the second prize, and was rated as the "Best Eye-catching Award" by the audience. A few years ago, the second disciple Zou Dejiang made a splash with "Smart Drama" in "Qu Yun Miscellaneous Altar"; the program "Happy Weekend" hosted by him became a gold medal column of CCTV.

The other disciple, Li Jing, was one of the founders of the Beijing Deyun Society, and Hou Yaohua's son, Hou Jun, also had great potential.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Shi Shengjie's disciples all hope that everyone should have their own personal characteristics and personal performance style. However, the second apprentice, Zou Dejiang, initially liked the performance style of the model master, and the imitation was very similar.

At that time, Zou Dejiang wrote down one of Master's classic works, recorded them on a tape recorder, and took them to Master's house to listen to Master's mother. When Song Yan listened, she wondered in her heart, where did her husband perform? Why didn't I? The second disciple was still complacent, and after selling a pass first, he whispered to the master and mother, "Don't say you don't, even the master has never heard of it."

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Suddenly, Shi Shengjie came out from the side and said loudly, "There is no breath at all." ”

Zou Dejiang was a little scared in his heart and did not dare to say a word. Shi Shengjie looked at his apprentice and admonished him: "Those who are like me die, and those who are different from me are born." I have always stressed that each of you should have your own style of performance, if the style of performance is the same as mine, there is no special feature, and there is not much achievement. If you want to become a successful cross-talk actor, you must create your own performance characteristics.

Master's words, Zou Dejiang listened to it, and his later cross-talk career was also successful.

Shi Shengjie's career is successful, and his marriage is also very happy. After the birth of her daughter, his wife Song Yan concentrated on raising her daughter at home and served as Shi Shengjie's xiannai helper. Shi Shengjie's work is busy, and he and his wife and daughter often get together less and leave more.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

05.

For many years, Song Yan took care of everything in the family's big and small affairs, and sometimes, considering her husband's health, she would accompany her to the party. Shi Shengjie is a cross-talk master, a real person, kind and enthusiastic, natural friends, colleagues, socializing, drink more.

Song Yan accompanied her husband, the purpose is to control his alcohol consumption, can not drink more, up to three times the amount. The number of times, Shi Shengjie did not want his wife to go out to the party together, and for this reason, the couple also had an awkward quarrel. But the two will soon be naturally reconciled, without deliberate, and get along very comfortably and easily.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Shi Shengjie felt that he and his wife were not romantic, nor did they pay attention to the so-called sense of ceremony. Since marriage, he and his wife have become one, both half of each other, and they are inseparable from each other.

Many times, he looks for items and things, and when he can't find them, he just asks her and he knows where they are. Living for a long time, Shi Shengjie developed the habit of relying on his wife, and he would not imagine what it would be like without the other party.

However, Song Yan is the typical kind of woman who is a good wife and mother, gentle and lovely, and very good at living a life. Anything delicious in the house is left for the children and husband. Once, in order to help her husband buy a cigarette she liked to smoke, she patiently went to the queue ten times.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Time flies, Shi Shengjie and Song Yan's daughter has grown into a big girl, returned from studying in Australia, and has also established a family and settled in the United States.

Shi Shengjie can also be regarded as a winner in life, with a double harvest of career and marriage, but he died of illness.

Life is fragile. Everyone is inevitable, the cycle of life.

The cause of Shi Shengjie's illness is because of long hours of drinking, staying up late, and smoking slowly.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

In the northern wilderness, Shi Shengjie was only a teenager, and he was forced to become a sommelier, drinking high-concentration liquor for nine hours a day, or more. Over time, I will drink and drink a lot, so that later, I have a strong dependence on wine.

By the time it was discovered, it was already advanced pancreatic cancer. Song Yan was asked by the doctor to talk: "Hello! The teacher's results came out and it could be confirmed that it was advanced pancreatic cancer. It can be called the "king of cancer," a cancer that has yet to be cured. Moreover, the teacher is still in the late stage, may only have half a year's life, please be mentally prepared. ”

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Song Yan's whole being was about to collapse, she hid in the bathroom, turned on the faucet, cried loudly, and when it was over, tried to adjust her expression. When her husband asked about the condition, she pretended to be calm, and the doctor said that as long as the treatment was matched, there should be no problem.

Because the operation was also meaningless, Shi Shengjie could only be hospitalized for medication. Song Yan went home to pack up and took care of her husband in the hospital all the time.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

But the condition deteriorated quickly, and Shi Shengjie ate the food that entered his stomach and was spit out. When he had a seizure, he would break out in cold sweat and shiver with pain; in order not to let his wife find out and worry, he would also bite his mouth and try not to make a sound.

Despite the effort, the pain was so obvious that the wife knew it all the time and cried silently outside the door. Physically and mentally, she endured too much at once, and she couldn't eat or sleep well, and she almost fainted on the ground several times.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

06.

During the time of hospitalization in the hospital, Shi Shengjie suddenly lost a lot of weight, and people became haggard. Song Yan is the same.

Shi Shengjie's hospitalization was inadvertently discovered by fans, and many fans, colleagues, journalists, and apprentices came to the hospital to visit Shi Shengjie, hoping that he would recover from the hospital as soon as possible and return to the stage to shine.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Together, his apprentices found a better hospital for Master, and they set up a WeChat group of medical groups, and after repeated confirmation, the hospital was selected.

One day for the teacher and lifelong father. Watching the disciples busily carrying out such a busy work for themselves, Shi Shengjie was very touched in his heart and could not help but cry. This was the first time he had shed tears since he was diagnosed in the hospital. The wife was also deeply touched, gently wiped away the tears with paper, and comforted her husband in a warm voice: "I am very fortunate to receive these good apprentices, which is our blessing."

After the daughter and son-in-law also got the news, they rushed to the hospital to see Shi Shengjie, and said: "Dad, you must get better quickly, your grandson misses you and wants to play with you." ”

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

Xiangsheng Jie is also a strong person with Shi Shengjie, and Guo Degang also came to the hospital to visit Shi Shengjie. His name was Master Shi Shengjie, and he did it next to the hospital bed, holding Uncle Shi's hand: "Although he looks a lot thinner, he has good mental strength." Uncle Shi shows your strength on the stage, and the disease will definitely be scared away by you. ”

Although he was transferred to a good hospital and received better treatment, he still could not save Shi Shengjie's life. When he left, he kept holding the hands of his wife and daughter, apologizing to her and thanking her for her dedication and years of care. Although I can't trust you and my daughter, I still hope that you can live well and take care of yourself and your daughter after I am gone. I'm sorry I can't go with you all the way. ”

Although there are regrets, Shi Shengjie's works will continue to be passed down.

Shi Shengjie's widow, Song Yan: The most regrettable decision in my life is to let the wine ruin the rest of my life

At Shi Shengjie's farewell ceremony, Song Yan, under the support of her daughter, silently bid farewell to her husband in her heart: "Wife, I promise you, I will live well, I have been a husband and wife for decades in this life, and in the next life we will still be a loving couple." ”

Song Yan obeyed Shi Shengjie's last wishes and lived strongly in the world, her daughter's family settled in the United States, and she herself guarded Shi Shengjie's house to enjoy her old age.

May Song Yan enjoy her old age in health and happiness without illness. I also hope that Shi Shengjie's apprentices can pass on his cross-talk art very well.

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