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Once Zhang Xinyi and Yuan Hong had just given birth to a child, and the parents of both sides sat together to eat, when Zhang Xinyi carefully and tentatively asked, saying that the child could start eating complementary foods at 6-8 months, so he wanted to start weaning from that time
At that time, Zhang Xinyi's mother said that if the child was willing to eat milk powder and the problem of breastfeeding at night could be solved, she felt that it was OK, but pay attention to the whole process, Zhang Xinyi's mother-in-law did not say a word, she just gulped as if she was eating vegetables very powerfully
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At that time, Zhang Xinyi felt that everyone was not opposed, and also comforted everyone that he would slowly try to wean, but unexpectedly, at this time, the mother-in-law suddenly said coldly: Do you want to go out to work? Or do you think that human milk and formula are the same nutritionally?
In an instant, the atmosphere became tense and low, and Zhang Xinyi also said a little aggrieved: You can also go out to work, right? A few more months?
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Needless to say, about the child who began to wean at 6 months, Zhang Xinyi and her mother-in-law's attitude was obviously very hostile, and after seeing Zhang Xinyi's determination to come back, her mother-in-law expressed her position again. The conversation of 2 people goes like this
Zhang Xinyi: If you want to go out and work, then this is your choice
Zhang Xinyi: I think I...
Zhang Xinyi's mother-in-law: If the baby has milk to eat, it will definitely be better
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See? The attitude of the mother-in-law and the mother in this matter is obviously different, of course, it is for her and the child's consideration, but the focus is a little different, especially the mother-in-law's interruption of Zhang Xinyi's words have actually said that she is very unhappy that the daughter-in-law has begun to wean her grandson at 6 months
Poor thing is that at this time, Zhang Xinyi's mother did not dare to say anything, guessing that Zhang Xinyi's mother-in-law was still quite strong, and then Zhang Xinyi's mother-in-law said, I think this with children, or should the mother be more dominant, right?
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See what you found here, right? Even if it is a big star, like many people, the mother-in-law is always older, thinking that taking children is the mother's business, and the enlightened mother-in-law will feel that this is the daughter-in-law's own business, as long as the daughter-in-law arranges it well, but there are many like Zhang Xinyi's mother-in-law
After all, it is also a fact that the elderly are separated from each other, so it is really a very cruel thing to have children, especially for women who are engaged in careers, of course, as a mother, they have no complaints or regrets, Yuan Hong's wife-protecting remarks really give Zhang Xinyi more love, and there are female artists who are very aggrieved about the cause of breastfeeding
For example, Gay's wife Wang Siran, they were the last fertility show before childbirth, when Wang Siran gave birth, the program team went into the delivery room to shoot, to be honest, for many women are still very mindful, right?
Feeling like an animal in the zoo being watched, out of the confinement to the home, the mother-in-law and mother will also watch, even the nanny will watch, Wang Siran also knows in his heart that they have no malice, but he still feels very mindful, really, this problem is really a big challenge for the new mother
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In addition, there is a sad one is Medina, the couple is very loving, and the golden child is simply a fairy couple in the world. However, the arrival of the child also made Medina have a lot of challenges, Medina once broke the news that the child was breastfeeding at the time, and often fed night milk in the middle of the night
Because the child cries and moves, Jiang Chao will often be suddenly woken up in deep sleep, and then one day, Jiang Chao told Medina that his heart could not stand it, and decided to sleep with her, that is to say, Medina had to feed her own coconut milk at night, I believe that for her, the biggest sadness is not how hard it is to feed night milk, but the husband's dislike, right?
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In addition, the female artist Reiza is more sad, nursing mothers know about blocking milk, right? Female artists are more painful, because the work is irregular, sometimes need to produce crazy, sometimes for several days do not need, but the milk will continue to appear, and if it is not sucked in time, it will produce milk blockage
Reiza recalled that once she breastfed a serious milk blockage, swollen like an egg-sized pimple, had experienced how much pain, more painful is that it must be pumped, Reiza recalled that in order not to affect the child's feeding, she could not play anesthesia, so the raw ninja doctor picked up the seven or eight centimeters of pillow and sucked it into the meat
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Does it hurt to think about it? And this kind of experience Reiza has also experienced many times, of course, the pain of breastfeeding is not only a female artist, almost every breastfeeding mother has it, so the mother is great
Of course, see here some small partners do not feel that breastfeeding is very bad, breastfeeding will also bring some benefits to the mother, such as the baby's sucking will make the mother's blood vessels more unobstructed, reduce the occurrence of some diseases, but when the nursing mother is vulnerable, the family can have more care and encouragement, which will greatly improve the mother's happiness index, what do you think?