In 1990, in a hospital in Shenzhen, several doctors were holding instruments and struggling to rescue patients on the bed, while outside the rescue room, a beautifully dressed and handsome woman looked at the emergency room in a daze.
A few minutes later, the doctor came out shaking his head and said to the woman:
Your husband has a sudden myocardial infarction, sorry, we've tried our best.
When the woman listened, she suddenly sat down on the ground, yesterday they were still talking and laughing on the way to Shenzhen, 13 days ago, they still promised each other at the wedding to take care of each other for a lifetime.
But after only half a day of separation, her husband left her forever, such a result, the woman is obviously difficult to accept, but the husband's cold corpse reminds her all the time that this is a fact that cannot be changed.
She walked over and gently stroked her husband's face, and at that moment, she felt that she could not even breathe, and the tears fell unconsciously, filling it with grievances and helplessness.
She was only 21 years old, still like a flower, but in the eyes of outsiders, she became a widow who killed her husband for money, only because she married this rich man who was 30 years older than her and had just passed away.
During that time, she hardly dared to go out during the day, and when she went out at night, she was wrapped like a rice dumpling, afraid of being recognized, but even so, everyone still recognized her at a glance.
This woman is Wu Yongwei, who won the most photogenic miss in the 1989 Miss Asia Audition.
01
Born in 1969 in Hong Kong's West District, Ng Wing Wai is snuggled up in her mother's arms waiting to be fed.
At that time, her future first husband, Weng Jiangpei, had already married her second daughter-in-law in the year of his establishment.
As for her nearly 20 later boyfriends, as well as her future second husband Lian Haitang, they are still in the tunnel of time, waiting for the day when they can spend a good night with Wu Yongwei.
At this time, they did not think that they would get the heart of the most photogenic lady in the future, and Wu Yongwei did not think that she, who had a poor family, would have the opportunity to inherit millions of inheritances in the future.
Wu Yongwei's father played a good calculation, but he was very honest, so he worked as an accountant for many years, and he was only a small accountant with very little income.
And Wu Yongwei's mother, who can't read a single word, can only find a dishwashing job to subsidize the family, but even so, their meager salary is not enough to support the family.
In desperation, the mother had to find another cleaning job, just so that the three children in the family could live a full and warm life.
But at that time, Wu Yongwei did not understand the hardships of her parents, whether it was her father who was an accountant, or her mother who washed dishes and cleaned the dishes, this poor family made her unable to raise her head in front of her classmates.
For this reason, she felt very inferior, and her relationship with her classmates gradually became estranged, and over time, her classmates began to isolate and even bully her.
In the face of the bullying of her classmates, Wu Yongwei chose to resist in her own way, she did not tell her parents and teachers, but shaved half of her hair, making herself a big sister image that was not easy to mess with.
But she did not expect that this extreme solution would push her to the brink of depravity.
02
At that time, Wu Yongwei was in the rebellious period, and originally thought that changing a bad hairstyle would scare her classmates who bullied her, but she did not think about it, and was chased and intercepted by more than a dozen people.
After that, unwilling to be bullied by her classmates for a long time, she successfully joined an unpopular gang with her own bad image, and had the care of the gang brother.
Since then, the bullied Wu Yongwei has finally turned into a leader, she skipped class and fought, using the most hated way she once hated to bully those who had been as poor as her, inferior and cowardly classmates.
From the bottom of her heart, Wu Yongwei is not willing to do this, but if she does not do this, the person who is bullied is her, so in order to adapt to the environment and learn to survive, she can only turn herself into her disliked look.
Until one time, a group of police officers took her away from the classroom, Wu Yongwei's dream of being a big sister was completely shattered.
On that day, after Wu Yongwei recognized the police at the police station, she saw her gray-haired mother and whispered in front of the police to intercede for her.
Looking at her mother's only promise, Wu Yongwei's tears swirled in her eyes, and from that moment, she realized that her so-called big sister dream was actually a road of no return towards depravity.
Since then, Wu Yongwei has been like a changed person, studying hard in school every day, and even running to night school to repeat for a year, but unfortunately, her late efforts have not been exchanged for the desired results.
In desperation, she could only wave her hand and say goodbye to her school life, and her parents also knew that their daughter was not the material for school at all, so she simply found a job as a clerk for her daughter.
03
In 1986, 17-year-old Wu Yongwei, just entered the workplace and soon met her first love, this sudden love, really scared Wu Yongwei's old father.
Where did he think that his daughter's rebellious fighting life had just been safely spent, and she had encountered early love, and this so-called boyfriend was still a violent man with a beastly heart, who often punched and kicked her, but then sweetly coaxed.
For this reason, the father once again sang the opposite tune with Wu Yongwei, but Wu Yongwei, who was deeply trapped in the whirlpool of love, had long been unable to listen to the old father's bitter mouth, and she stubbornly told her father that she and her boyfriend were true love, and the boyfriend was just a little grumpy, which was actually very good to her.
When the father saw the situation, he was so angry that he could not speak, and watched his daughter fall into the trap of love, but he had no choice but to do anything, and the honest father fell ill in one breath.
But Wu Yongwei did not take it seriously, she still snuggled in her boyfriend's arms, imagining a better future for the two of them.
A year later, his father, who had been sick in bed for a long time, finally couldn't stay up, and he reluctantly passed away with the worry about his daughter, and Wu Yongwei didn't have a little guilt and regret in her heart until this moment.
She felt that it was because of her own ignorance that her father's illness had worsened, and for this, she blamed herself, but her boyfriend was not accustomed to her being so pretentious, and three punches and two kicks completely beat her up.
Wu Yongwei, who was beaten all over the body, cried even more sadly, she finally knew why her father tried everything to hinder her and her boyfriend from being together, and at this moment she finally made up her mind to break up.
Unfortunately, her soberness is still too late, her father has passed away with regrets, and he can no longer explain the big truth to Wu Yongwei, nor can he check for Wu Yongwei's next boyfriend.
Therefore, when Wu Yongwei, who is simple and lacks love, meets Weng Jiangpei, who is mature, stable and golden, she once again falls desperately.
04
In 1988, Wu Yongwei, who had been in the workplace for nearly two years, finally came into contact with successful people such as Weng Jiangpei who were mixed in high society.
It is said that at that time, Weng Jiangpei had just ended his third failed marriage, and he was worth hundreds of millions of dollars, and even thought of marrying Teresa Teng back home, but Teresa Teng's family did not look up to him at all, which gave Wu Yongwei a chance.
When the two first met, Weng Jiangpei was amazed by Wu Yongwei's unique beauty, so he specially found someone to investigate Wu Yongwei's family background.
After learning of Wu Yongwei's poor family lineage, Weng Jiangpei started his own little calculation in his heart.
For Weng Jiangpei, who hunts countless and has rich experience in the love field, what he lacks around him is never a beautiful woman, and what he wants most is the kind of woman who looks beautiful, understands things and is well-behaved, and most importantly, cannot wear a green hat for him.
Therefore, when he saw the young and beautiful Wu Yongwei, he did not hesitate to send her into the big dyeing vat of the entertainment circle, in the words of Weng Jiangpei, if Wu Yongwei can still clean herself in the entertainment industry, then Wu Yongwei can become his veritable Weng Tai.
In 1989, Wu Yongwei took the "Hong Kong Sister" registration form handed to him by Weng Jiangpei, with a look of doubt, but when Weng Jiangpei said her thoughts, Wu Yongwei chose to obey.
She knows that this is her boyfriend's test for herself, but for love, in order to prove her determination to her boyfriend, she can only bravely stand on the stage of the beauty pageant.
However, Wu Yongwei, who was full of confidence, finally defeated Weng Hong, Wan Qiwen and others, and only took the title of "Most Photogenic Miss", but Wu Yongwei was still very pleased, because it was her idol Zhang Guorong who presented her the award at that time.
After this, Wu Yongwei successfully signed a contract with ATV with the help of her boyfriend Weng Jiangpei, and starred in the TV series "Driver Gangster" with Wu Yaohan, Wan Qiwen and others.
At this time, Weng Jiangpei did not have the intention of "closing his hand", he still sat patiently next to him, observing Wu Yongwei's every move.
The following year, after Wu Yongwei and Many predecessors such as Ren Dahua and Wu Qihua collaborated on a "Still Looking at the Present Dynasty", her fame became even greater, and everyone thought that she would be the next miracle in the Hong Kong circle.
But Wu Yongwei does not think so, she is full of eyes that is nearly 30 years older than her boyfriend Weng Jiangpei, even if her acting career is in the golden age of development, she is still based on her boyfriend, and all the men around her keep a distance.
And Weng Jiangpei saw that Wu Yongwei was so obsessed with himself, and he had read countless women, and he finally convinced himself.
05
At the end of 1990, Wu Yongwei and Weng Jiangpei, who were 30 years apart in age, held a grand wedding in Hong Kong, at which the two looked at each other happily and promised to take care of each other for a lifetime.
But the day did not go according to people's wishes, and not long after the marriage, the scene at the beginning of the article appeared.
Originally, every time Wu Yongwei went out to work, her husband Weng Jiangpei would always sit on the side and look at her with a spoiled face, but this time, Wu Yongwei, who performed on the stage, did not see her husband until the end of the performance.
It wasn't until her friend pulled her to the hospital that she learned that something had happened to her husband, and soon, when the bad news came, her husband didn't say a word, so she left forever.
Wu Yongwei, who became a widow at a young age, immersed in the pain of widowhood, could not come out for a long time, but where she simply wanted to get, what awaited her behind her was far more painful than the pain of widowhood.
Although Weng Jiangpei had three marriages before, none of his three wives had been able to give birth to a man and a half woman, so as a senior partner of the accounting firm, the distribution of Weng Jiangpei's 170 million inheritance became a problem.
For Weng Jiangpei's family, Wu Yongwei had just entered the Weng family for 13 days, and she was not qualified to inherit the inheritance at all, and even complained that Wu Yongweike had died Weng Jiangpei and directly drove her out of the house.
For a time, all the gossip pointed to Wu Yongwei alone, some people said that she was willing to marry for money, some people said that she was an ominous woman, and killed her husband.
In this regard, Wu Yongwei also feels very innocent, she knows that there is affection between herself and her husband, so she does her best to explain for herself, but in the face of the world and reality, her explanation is pale and weak, and no one cares at all.
06
The pain of widowhood, the ruthlessness of the in-laws, the fingering of the outside world, Wu Yongwei suddenly fell into despair, helpless she even thought, jumping down from the windowsill, all the gossip suddenly stopped.
But looking back, my life has just begun, I still have my family to take care of, I just chose a marriage, and what is wrong.
Therefore, with this reluctance and helplessness, Wu Yongwei and her in-laws launched a 10-year-long battle for the rich family property, at the same time, in order to numb her wounded heart, Wu Yongwei also began to look around for comfort.
During that time, she spent almost every day in the bright and green bars, relying on bottles of alcohol and changing boyfriends to accompany her through every long night.
According to Wu Yongwei's later recollection, during that chaotic day, she had more than 20 boyfriends, of which the most impressive thing was the 4-year relationship between her and her husband with a wife.
Among these more than 20 men, this husband with a wife should be the best one for her, but unfortunately, he will not abandon his wife and son for Wu Yongwei, and Wu Yongwei has been deceiving herself and living with him for 4 years before she suddenly woke up.
She felt that she should not destroy other people's families in this way, so she took the initiative to run to the man's house and sincerely apologized to the wife.
And the man's wife probably did not think that there was a small third to apologize, but looking at Wu Yongwei's sincere attitude, it was not good to have anything, and she could only shake hands with Wu Yongwei generously and make peace.
In the end, Xiao San and the original match became a good girlfriend who talked about everything, but the man sandwiched between the two was confused, and he did not expect that the former love enemy had become a friend.
But the world is big, there is nothing strange, just like Wu Yongwei never thought about herself, and she became a widow after only 13 days of marriage.
07
In 1994, after the marriage with a wife, Wu Yongwei finally remembered her acting career.
In the past few years, she has starred in many film and television works such as "Silver Fox", "Heaven and Earth Boys", "97 Happy Events" and successfully gained a small foothold in the entertainment industry.
During that time, Wu Yongwei was like a new person, she was no longer the little woman who was addicted to the emotional game, but everything was career-oriented, and she became a bold and uninhibited style, independent and courageous woman.
Unconsciously, she no longer needed alcohol and men to numb herself, until she met her current husband, Lian Haitang.
For Wu Yongwei, Lian Haitang is a man she looks up to at a glance, and she feels that everyone has the right to strive for happiness, so Wu Yongwei, who is extremely eager for love, will not let go of any opportunity to get happiness.
Lian Haitang's family was an advertising tycoon at that time, which may also be one of the reasons for attracting Wu Yongwei, the two were introduced by their friend Li Zi, after falling in love at first sight, Wu Yongwei could not wait to propose marriage.
In July 1999, the two had known each other for less than a year, and they had registered their marriage in Canada, and the two were envious of their love and happiness after marriage.
After a year of remarriage, Wu Yongwei and Weng Yongwei fought for ten years for family property, and finally had results, 170 million yuan of property, Wu Yongwei only got more than 9 million.
This is undoubtedly unfair to Wu Yongwei, but Wu Yongwei does not think so, she feels that her persistence for so many years is not just for property, in the end, she just wants to ask for an explanation for her marriage.
In Wu Yongwei's heart, Weng Jiangpei has always been the man she has loved deeply in her life, even if this relationship is short and painful, she has never regretted it.
With the end of the family property storm, Wu Yongwei can finally manage her marriage and career well.
From "The Legend of Datang Shuanglong" to "CIB Criminal Intelligence Section", from "Silver Building Gold Powder" to "Beautiful High Interpretation", etc., Wu Yongwei, who has been hurt by gossip for so many years, has gradually embarked on the peak of her life.
However, just when everyone threw praiseful glances at Wu Yongwei, her husband Lian Haitang actually provoked peach color.
08
In 2010, Lian Haitang, who pretended to be a loving couple, was photographed by the media and had an intimate date with a beautiful woman, and at the dinner table, Lian Haitang talked with a beautiful woman with a spoiled face, and the relationship was very ambiguous.
In the face of the reporter's encirclement and blockade, Wu Yongwei was very calm, and she said calmly:
That's no problem, I also have male friends who accompany me to horror movies.
The implication is that the husband and himself play each other and do not affect each other, so 6 years later, when Lian Haitang kissed goodbye to the sexy hot girl again, Wu Yongwei was still as calm as ever, and even blew herself up:
I also have a lot of small fresh meat likes, and they don't mind that I have a husband, so I'm not afraid of my husband cheating, I'm more afraid of cheating on myself, because I also like them.
In 2016, Lian Haitang was photographed dating his girlfriend again, and Wu Yongwei calmly said when facing the camera:
It is that I am too busy at work to ignore my husband, he himself finished playing with the mud and sand, he wants his wife to take care of the aftermath, here I practice begonias to say sorry to everyone.
I have to say that the way Wu Yongwei and his wife get along is really strange, people love happiness before, and people play with each other after, but even so, Wu Yongwei still said that she hopes that her husband will live longer so that he can take care of himself for a few more years.
Perhaps Wu Yongwei, who has experienced great right and wrong, has already seen through the variety of life, after all, women who have talked about more than 20 boyfriends, how can they not understand the truth of "the true color of men".
Therefore, Wu Yongwei, who has wandered between many men for most of her life, now longs for nothing more than a dependence and companionship.
09
In 2022, Wu Yongwei, who is already 53 years old, once again broke through herself, she changed her previous mentally capable image and transformed into a housewife, appearing in the recent hit drama "Tonight Mansion 2".
In the play, she plays a mother who brought up her daughter alone, Sister Fen, she has a strong personality, and it is very good to rely on her daughter in front of people, but she has a strong desire to control her daughter after people.
Such a neurotic maternal love, even Wu Yongwei herself was frightened when she watched the sample film, but this also just proved Wu Yongwei's superb acting skills.
There are many actresses who debut in Hong Kong relying on beauty pageants, but most of them rely on appearance and figure, and Wu Yongwei is not only both good at all, but also not inferior in acting skills, all of which stem from her life experience, so that she can become an evergreen tree in the entertainment industry, even if she marries into a rich family, she is still active on the screen.
epilogue
Looking at Wu Yongwei's flashy life, the first half of her life lives for men, the second half of her life for herself, Wu Yongwei, who was born poor, seems to have never lacked the courage to start again.
From a poor society woman to a high society, from the most photogenic lady to a rich lady, she has experienced unladylike encounters, suffered the pain of widowhood, endured gossip, experienced paper drunkenness and gold fans, and is still alive and easy.
The only regret is that she and Lian Haitang have been married for 23 years, and they have not been able to give birth to a son and a half daughter, and when they first got married, they also had the idea of having children, but they have not succeeded, and as they get older, they simply give up this idea.
Lian Haitang also expressed understanding for this, and he comforted Wu Yongwei and said:
There are children who are bound to be happy, but there is another kind of happiness without children.
【Text: Yaxin】
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