"What I want to say about loneliness" is a song created and sung by the old Fan next door, whose real name is Fan Kaijie, Chinese mainland singer-songwriter, and now the two songs of the Internet fire, "Ji and Not as Good as", "I Have Been", I think everyone has heard it, and they all feel more or less empathetic.
A good-sounding smoke voice folk song "Ji and not as good as", the Road is all fate is forced by life
The lyrics of "Ji and Not as Good as" are "It is better to cut flesh under the Bodhi tree and feed the eagles, it is better to shave the monks and cut off the seven emotions, it is better not to meet than not to meet, it is better not to cut off your life, it is better to be with you in the sunshine of the earth without the four seasons, it is better to accompany you." "Giving people a kind of excitement, the words are deeply weak, the repetition of the whole song is not as high as the frequency of the two words, a little negative, but it is very in line with the sense of confusion and powerlessness of many young people now."
Folk | "I Was" shattered the whole mirror, and the pillows at night were full of tears
Some of the lyrics of "I Have Been" "I have been blown through my chest by countless cold winds, I have been forced by distant dreams to look up at the stars, I have been mocked by countless people, let me give up my musical dreams, I have been flooded by countless loess, I have wanted my singing, endless sinking touch, I have treated them as the rainbow after my storm." From the lyrics, you can feel the author's dream, on the road to realizing the dream, there are many bumps, helpless but insist on moving forward, it is very touching, singing the true feelings of a group of people who struggle for their dreams.
The song still has a sense of loneliness, remorse for not being there and not being. The four sink into silence, the loneliness is loaded, and the confusion and fear hit the brain recklessly. The carnival in front of the people, the loneliness behind the people, all the vulnerabilities that are tried to hide are all pulled out at this moment. Thoughts and regrets are like rushing flood beasts, instantly devouring consciousness, and only repeated questions cannot be dispelled.
When the song sounds, the simple and unpretentious voice of the old Fan next door lingers in the listener's ears, and the physical and mental fatigue and sorrow are washed away at this time, leaving only the singer's most tender companionship.
The song of the old Fan next door has always carried an unspeakable vicissitudes, as if there were stories, but they were tacitly announced. In addition to being attracted by the sound, most people who like his songs are willing to go with Lao Fan to find the lost memories, even if it is a star and a half.
Some people say that this song expresses the thoughts and states of a lonely man, a man in a very confused and difficult stage, not only need to worry about their own career, but also have to worry about their parents' bodies, and think of their lovers in their hearts, but in the end not only have a career unsuccessful, but also let women and parents are disappointed, feeling that they are particularly lonely and helpless.
Loneliness is the norm in life. A friend once told me that every time after work, around 11 o'clock, a person was alone on the bus wearing headphones. Listening to familiar songs, looking out the window at the familiar street, and the street lamp where they met, many pictures of her flashed in his mind, that person should be the happiest time of his life, maybe everyone's heart may be hiding something unknown.
I used to think that loneliness is a conversation between yourself and yourself. Now I think that loneliness is that you have forgotten to talk to yourself.
I used to think that loneliness is the only one left in the world. Now I think that loneliness is that you can actually become a world.
Everyone has their own incredibly clear view of loneliness at every age.
Loneliness is a noun with no clear answers, the embodiment of multiple emotions, and many things that a person must face.
The loneliness we are experiencing, we call confusion. The loneliness we've experienced, we call growing up.
At the train station, the loneliness left you after your parents turned away.
In love, the other half hangs up the phone to leave you alone.
Alone, walking home at night, leaving you alone under the street lamp.
A man drunk on the couch, lonely and uncared for.
A man entered the house, suddenly lonely.
When I think of a person, I lose the loneliness of the other person's contact information.
Being in a crowd of people, but not being looked at as lonely.
There are dozens of people in the same industry, but there is no sense of loneliness in the common topic.
A group of people succeed, their own failures alone.
The loneliness of one person succeeding, others failing...
There is a kind of loneliness that thought it would be difficult to find someone who could share the pain with oneself, and later found it more difficult to find someone who could share one's joy.
There is a kind of loneliness that after many years, I suddenly look back at the way I came, only to find that there was a time when I had been repeating, repeating, and being swept into the vortex of loneliness by reality.
There is a kind of loneliness that knows that the end is the end of the song, but at the moment, I have to laugh loudly until I leave tears in such a pleasure.
The multitude of dense loneliness climbed up our outstretched branches and sunny faces.
Some of the loneliness is broken free by us and falls into the earth to take root. Some of the loneliness is carried away by the wind, spreading thousands of miles, seeking empathy.
From fear of loneliness, to endure loneliness, to enjoy loneliness, for us who grow up barbarically, it may be just the time of a movie, the time of a bottle of beer, the time of healing a lost love. You will always know that failure is inevitable, and understand that darkness is the norm. You are no longer depressed about "choosing the wrong bus route, taking the subway to the destination, being rejected by people you like, changing the chef in the restaurant you often go to, taking the movie you can't watch too late to watch, and the coupon for group purchase has long expired", life will always start from "I am sha (stupid) que (lack)!" Slowly it becomes "Oh, I'm a sha(stupid)que(lack)", and then it becomes "It's okay, we are all sha(silly) que(lack)". At the same time, our parents have slowly changed from "You must not be like this..." to "Is this really good..." and then to "You pay attention to yourself...".
Yes, when the clouds rise, they are thick, and the clouds are thin. You will suddenly find yourself becoming someone else, and you will no longer resist changing yourself. You also don't have to worry about whether your future self will be worse, good or bad, not an external problem, but a problem of adaptation. You know that your resilience and healing power is always stronger than you think.
These are written to yourself and to you in front of the screen, and I hope you will remember them after many years. Many people have no self without another person, no matter what kind of person they eventually become, it is your own unique experience, and you must believe that you can spend all these years alone. What you panicked and feared at the time will eventually become your armor against the world.
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