In Zhuxi County, Shiyan City, Hubei Province,
There's a woman like this—"
When she was 25 years old, her husband suddenly fell and became paraplegic,
The family suffered a "catastrophe",
But she chose a life that many people expected...
A sentence of "I raise you", and a "caravan of love" that has been walking the streets for 7 years,
Touched countless neighbors, netizens.
She said: "There is no choice but to be strong. ”
She is Wu Yanhong.
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Heaven forbid
The husband fell and became paraplegic
A small truck full of gloves, socks and other daily necessities often shuttles between some villages in Hubei and Shaanxi, "selling shoes, gloves, sheets, socks for fifteen yuan and ten pairs..." The long shouting and selling sound was far away.
Driving the pickup truck was Wu Yanhong, a 32-year-old woman from Zhuxi. Sitting in the passenger seat was her husband, He Qi, 34 years old. They have been driving this small truck through the streets and selling it for more than 4 years. Whenever a villager came to buy goods, Wu Yanhong got out of the car to greet him, and He Qi sat in the car, turned his head to help shout, or smiled at his wife without saying a word. Because he rarely got out of the car, many villagers did not know that he was a paraplegic disabled person with no consciousness below the waist. Without the aids, he would not be able to walk like a normal person. However, there are still some people who know what happened to the couple. "It's not easy for this baby girl." They commented.
He Qi's family lives in Huijiahe Village, Shuiping Town, Zhuxi County, and after graduating from junior high school, he worked hard in society. In 2009, He Qi met Wu Yanhong, and after that, the two fell in love and married. In the year of marriage, He Qi was 22 years old and Wu Yanhong was 20 years old.
After marriage, the husband and wife love. He Qi, with the craft of building a house, has been working in the surrounding area to earn money, and Wu Yanhong has found a job nearby. In 2011, their son He Xiaoran was born; in 2015, their daughter He Meixi fell to the ground. Both husband and wife are young, able to endure hardships, and have both children and daughters, and the days are getting more and more aggressive. However, disaster happened overnight. In October of that year, when He Qi was building a house in the village, he accidentally fell from the roof of the second floor. Immediately below the waist there is no consciousness. After being sent to the hospital for examination, there were multiple fractures of the lumbar spine and foot. Eventually, doctors diagnosed paraplegia.
A sentence of "I raise you"
Women take on the burden of the family
After transferring from Zhuxi to the big hospital in Shiyan, He Qi stayed in the hospital for another 5 months. After the accident, although they knew that there was little hope of healing, the elders on both sides said: "The baby is still young, only 27 years old, and it is necessary to set up a rule of law, and there can be no regrets." "Friends and family have sent money, some of which is the family's savings over the years. In less than a year, the cost of treatment cost more than 400,000 yuan. However, He Qi was still unable to stand and had to go home for rehabilitation training.
Thinking that he was already like this, and his family still had such a big debt, He Qi said to Wu Yanhong: "I can't do things, two dolls are so small, what will happen in the future?" Wu Yanhong replied without even thinking about it: "What do you want to do so much?" I raise you! ”
In 2009, the He family borrowed money to buy a small property in Shoujindian Village, Chengguan Town, Zhuxi County. He Qi's father has died, his only sister is long married, and his mother is a rural woman who lives with her son. He Qi was disabled, and the burden of a family of five was all pressed on Wu Yanhong's shoulders.
In order to support her family, Wu Yanhong found a job in a nearby industrial park. In addition to helping to take care of her son and daughter's four children every day, Zhou Yanping, a mother-in-law in her 50s, also found a job serving the elderly downstairs and earned some living expenses to subsidize the family.
He Qi is hospitalized two or three times a year and needs Wu Yanhong to go to the hospital for care. The factory where Wu Yanhong works is strictly managed, and it is difficult to ask for leave. In addition, the mother-in-law Zhou Yanping takes care of several children and serves the elderly, often leaving early and returning late. In order to take care of her husband at the same time, Wu Yanhong later quit her job and chose to set up a stall not far from home, selling slippers, gloves, autumn clothes and other daily necessities needed in the countryside. The biggest benefit of setting up a stall is the freedom of time and being able to take care of both ends.
Setting up stalls is hard work and the income is extremely limited. Sometimes after a busy day, you can only earn a dozen dollars. When the weather is bad, you can't even get out of the stall, and you don't have a penny of income. Despite this, Wu Yanhong never complained. She in turn comforted He Qi: "People are here, home is there." As long as our family can be together, life will get better day by day. ”
Wind meals and camping
The caravan of love bears witness to true feelings
More and more people are setting up stalls, and it is becoming more and more difficult to earn money. In addition, sometimes there is something in the family that does not come out of the stall, and the stall is robbed when the stall is out. A year later, Wu Yanhong thought about going and decided to buy a double-row pickup truck and drive to the township and village to sell goods. In addition, He Qi rarely goes downstairs at home every day, and lack of exercise can lead to muscle atrophy. If you buy a car to go to the countryside to sell goods, you can also take He Qi with you, which helps her husband maintain the strength and function of his upper limbs.
In this way, Wu Yanhong bought a pickup truck in 2017 and began a journey to sell goods in the countryside. Every day, after doing housework at home early, she put all kinds of goods on the car, then parked the truck downstairs, and then went upstairs to carry He Qi downstairs. The stairs are steep, and Wu Yanhong, who is less than 1.60 meters tall, has a hard time carrying her husband down the stairs. However, for her growing up in the countryside, as long as her husband is still there, the home is complete, and this kind of suffering is nothing!
Due to the good care, He Qi can move short distances on the ground with the help of assistive devices. With his back downstairs, he was able to stand by the car, hold the van in his hand, and then sit in the cab himself. When selling goods in the countryside, it is usually Wu Yanhong who is the mainstay, and He Qi, who has limited mobility, sits in the car, helping his wife to drink, or responsible for collecting money and finding money. Sometimes, he would struggle to get out of the car, grasp the truck firmly with both hands, avoid falling through the strength of his upper body, and move forward a few steps in a crooked direction. Without having to stay at home all day, having his wife talking with him, and being able to look around, and even often basking in the sun, He Qi was in a good mood and was much happier than at home.
In order to save fuel costs, they sometimes simply do not come home at night and live in the car. Every day before going out, Wu Yanhong usually makes a good meal, brings pickles such as wax fish, packs them in insulated buckets, and eats several meals along the way.
To avoid raining and wetting the cargo on the car, Wu Yanhong asked someone to install a roof on the carriage of the pickup truck, which looked like a caravan. For several years, Wu Yanhong drove this caravan and carried her paraplegic husband He Qi all over Zhuxi, Zhushan, and dozens of townships in Shaanxi's Baihe and Pingli counties.
Lucky to meet a good person
Tens of millions of netizens praised strong and weak women
Wu Yanhong's mother-in-law, Zhou Yanping, had worried that her daughter-in-law, who was just like the flower age, would run. After a long time, she relaxed her heart, and her heart was full of gratitude to her daughter-in-law. One day in November 2021, Wu Yanhong once again carried He Qi downstairs on her back, took He Qi to the hospital for a review, and zhou Yanping, the mother-in-law who followed her, picked up her mobile phone and photographed the arduous process of her daughter-in-law running with her paraplegic son. On November 29, 2021, He Qi uploaded this video to Douyin, accompanied by the song "Where Has The Time Gone". Wu Yanhong wrote: Today, I take my husband to review, I am also a weak woman, but I must be strong, because my family needs me.
The encouragement of netizens gave Wu Yanhong the strength to move forward. After that, the couple occasionally took some videos reflecting the daily life and uploaded them to the Douyin platform in their spare time. Whether it is shooting, editing, or operation, they are all small white. However, the hardships of life and the upward strength of ordinary people have touched countless netizens. In just a few months, the fans of the "Bright Red Couple" on Douyin have reached 25,000, and their experience is lamentable.
Although He Qi has a physical disability, how his daughter-in-law treats him, he feels the same as Mingjing. Once, he sighed in Douyin: "My daughter-in-law is really good to me, so many young men in their 20s with good arms and legs can't marry their daughter-in-law." People and women follow men, big fish and big meat, you follow me to eat and sleep..."
Compared with when he was just injured and disabled, today, He Qi is more cheerful and talkative, and his appearance is no different from ordinary people. The two children are also growing up day by day, one more than the other. The rows of awards on the walls of the home are the best testimony. For this family, the suffering is passing, and sweetness has come in great strides.
"Positive Energy Says"
Heaven fell on the ground, and the husband was accidentally paraplegic,
Just as she was flourishing,
I didn't even think about it, I decided to stick to it for love,
A promise of love is simple to say,
It's not easy to do.
But she insisted for seven years,
Transforming the burden of a thousand guns into all kinds of love,
In the pursuit of hope in the little bits and pieces of life,
Accumulate strength.
This caravan full of love,
Walking the streets and alleys has touched countless neighbors.
Today we want to use a reward,
Let this sentiment go further -
Alibaba Daily Positive Energy Unites Shiyan Evening News
Wu Yanhong was awarded a special award of 10,000 yuan for positive energy
Thanks to her,
Let's see once again what love should look like,
Bless her, too,
May this family of afflictions and afflictions,
Early bitterness and happiness, the rest of life, peace and joy.
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Daily positive energy (zhnlali) synthesizes itself
Shiyan Evening News reporter Luo Wei Lu Wei Special reporter Fu Yanfeng Intern Li Jinyu