Goethe said that those who have not suffered in the dark of night are not enough to talk about life.
Powerful people often come out of loneliness, brew strength in loneliness, accumulate inner confidence, and wait until one day something is realized.
People are always lonely, this is the normal state of life, it is the fall of the ground, even if you quietly leave this prosperous and lonely world, it is also a lonely walk, enjoy loneliness, bear loneliness is the content we have to experience in our lives.
Whether you have a family or children, a person has always been with yourself all your life, there is a saying that I especially like, that is, what freedom is, freedom is that you stand alone, not attached, not afraid, some things others can not help you, only yourself.
Learning to draw the nourishment and wisdom of life from loneliness is the survival instinct of each of us. Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is not a full and full heart, what is terrible is not having a strong heart as a support.
In loneliness, you must learn to reconcile with yourself, no matter who is sleepy and tired, in the face of difficult ups and downs, you will cry like a child, these are the way life is, there is nothing to feel ashamed of.
In his book, Márquez writes:
Life has never been separated from a lonely and independent existence. Whether we are born, we grow, we fall in love, or we succeed or fail, until the end, loneliness exists like a shadow in a corner of life.
Loneliness is never absent from our lives, but it is always with us. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing the storms of life? Trying to explore the direction of life in loneliness is a particularly meaningful thing.
When we see Mr. Lu Yao writing about the ordinary world, the manuscripts written are piled up in a whole room, I think he is lonely, but not lonely, in his heart and mind, loaded with so many emotional sustenance and story carriers, people who have more expectations for life, but feel that loneliness is a wonderful enjoyment.
In the past, in the college stage, I always thought that my academic career was nearing the end, I should relax and relax, try a variety of indulgent life, and one of the favorite lyrics was sung by Huang Jiaju: Forgive me for being debauched and love freedom in my life, but when I slowly get tired, I slowly feel a little lonely and empty, so I began to explore and find something meaningful and fulfilling for my life to do, and since then I have slowly begun to develop the habit of reading and writing records.
To this day, looking back at the years when I was in college, I still remember that the first book I borrowed in the library on the tenth floor of the school was criminal psychology, because I had a special love for the law, which made me have a strong interest in such phenomena and psychology, even today we are still exploring step by step on the road of law, I think these are the awakenings of life brought to me by loneliness.
Lu Yao said that everyone will have an awakening period in their lifetime, but the awakening period is different sooner or later.
It is loneliness that makes us wake up early and gradually begin to explore the pursuit of life.
The author of "Those Things of the Ming Dynasty" at that time Mingyue, once told how he spent his college career, as he said, almost every day is a person soaking in the library, when he goes back at night, there is no one on the road, counting even the number of times he eats outside restaurants with his fingers is so rare, in the eyes of others he may be a god-like existence, but he is not absolutely lonely, it is books and knowledge that bring him endless energy.
In the cause of life, all those who can do something famous are often not simple, they are often able to bear such a life of loneliness, or to enjoy the power of loneliness, in loneliness to absorb the nutrition of life.
Chairman Mao and his old man in his youth, in order to test whether he can calm down, with a book in the downtown street quietly reading if there is no one around, such stories are left to us precious spiritual supplies.
As long as one's heart is full, one does not need to ask outwardly.
The truly advanced state of life is to face loneliness bravely and enjoy it, rather than finding happiness in the hustle and bustle.