What is the true meaning of marriage? Two people join together to form a new family in order to be able to become a better version of themselves, to have a better future, and to spend the joys and sorrows of the world together. Living alone may be lonely, and pairing up in pairs is what most of us yearn for.
"Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, the qinse is in the royal palace, and it is not quiet." Having a good lover will really make you more excellent, and love can really raise people. Looking at whether a woman is doing well in middle age, you can see it by looking at her state.
In marriage, women tend to invest too much emotion, children and husbands become her obstacles, do not lose yourself for men. Marriage has a shelf life, how to make the marriage always vibrant is what the couple needs to do.
Freshness can not be lost, to grasp the man's heart needs to be good enough, men naturally will not look at the flowers outside. Netizen Li Songli and her husband have been married for more than ten years, the children are already very large, and the husband's sudden betrayal has broken their beautiful life.
01 Found out that the husband was cheating
An intimate relationship cannot always be harmonious and harmonious, and there will certainly be a time in between that the relationship is very tense. Two people living together will inevitably have some contradictions, married life can not be smooth, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife is related to the fate of this marriage.
Li Songli and her husband have been married for more than ten years, the children are already very old, and the two people are free love. At that time, both people were factory workers, and they walked together by the people in the factory. After getting married, her husband Wang Zengbo began to go to the sea to do business in order to give him a better life, but he did not expect that this time he was successful. The two men moved from a small village to a large house in the city and had their own savings.
I don't know if it is that after having money, men will change their hearts, and it will not be long before the husband becomes dislike going home, and he also learns to take money to perfunctory himself. I worked overtime outside at every turn, and before long my husband changed jobs and partnered with others to create a logistics company.
The logistics company has been very profitable before, and their logistics company has a good business every year, and the money saved is also quite a lot. Their family also became rich in the eyes of their relatives, and they bought several sets of houses, and At that time, Wang Zengbo was very kind to her, and the name of the house he bought later was written in her name.
Once, when I was washing clothes, I saw an invoice in my husband's pocket, and the invoice showed the brand-name bag that my husband bought. Looking at this date is a few weeks ago, it means that this bag was not bought for her.
A woman's sixth sense has to be admired at some times, and Li Songli feels that her husband has a ghost in his heart. When my husband was away, I looked at my husband's mobile phone and really found that there was a woman who frequently chatted with her husband. A man's heart changes when he says it changes, and you can't guess that he is trying to trick you or if he is really honest with you.
It is said that when a man looks in the mirror frequently and cares about his appearance, he may already have someone outside. That day she pulled out a CCB card on the bedside table, this card has not been used for a long time, she thought of going to the bank to withdraw the money, and then cancel the card.
This card does not know if it is checked, and it is frightened to check it. This card is generally not used by the couple, there is no money in it, and they did not expect that there were two hundred thousand in this card. A check of the flow account found that there was half a million swipes in this card, which shows that this money is stored in the husband.
Where did the half a million flowers go? Why don't you know? The mystery of everything is revealed in the end, and the money is used by the husband to raise a small three outside. Secretly following her husband found that her husband had placed a home for Xiao San outside, and he ate and drank well every day.
This really impressed her, for this family has been working day and night, this man can give her a green hat.
02 Pretend nothing happened
Before a man had money, li Songli didn't believe it, and now she believed it. Because after giving birth to her second child, Li Songli's body became very weak, and there were still a bunch of things to manage at home. The son and daughter are more than a year apart, and the family also needs to be taken care of. He simply quit his job and gave his career for the family without expecting such an ending.
It was as if the happy memories were still a few days ago, and it had become a fact that the husband had a woman outside. The trustee inquired about knowing that the woman was a dance teacher and had a training institution of her own. Because the child Li Songli does not want to act rashly, this kind of thing should be considered in the long run.
On this day, the husband came back to see his wife making a table of dishes and thought that something good had happened, but it was not like there was a happy event to see his wife's low interest.
"Zengbo, when you got married, you said that you would be good to me for the rest of your life, you haven't forgotten it, I and my children can rely on you to support, you don't fall down."
This headless and brainless remark made Wang Zengbo feel strange.
Li Songli acted as if nothing had happened, even though she knew that Wang Zengbo was becoming more and more unscrupulous. The friend planned to open a clothing store, the two people joint ventured, Li Songli and friends began to work. Take the kids to the shop every day. The shop is still quite far from home, and the small house is relatively close to here, so most of the time I don't go home much.
Once she went home to get a change of clothes, and her husband was not at home, but she saw that there were sneakers at home, and there were cosmetics and skin care products on the dresser that did not belong to her. Stealing people to steal into the house, this pair of dog men and women are really bold. Stomping her nose on the face, Li Songli really couldn't stand her husband's approach, and she no longer decided to endure it anymore.
The wife allowed her husband to bring someone to the house, and half a year later the husband broke out and scolded: "You are so vicious." ”
The husband has abandoned himself and abandoned the family in this way, so there is nothing to say. Li Songli decided to give her husband a revenge. She liquidated the common property in the names of the two men and decided to transfer the property quietly.
03 Divorce
The husband's legal representative originally wrote her name, which also gave her this opportunity to fight back. The family's property has been completely liquidated by her, and he plans to transfer the company to a good friend of his. Wait until the limelight has passed and then transfer the company back to its own name.
When the court people came, her husband was still in a trance, and after getting the truth of the matter, her husband scolded her that day.
Li Songli later figured it out, and some people no longer need to be merciful. The two people made such a scene and certainly couldn't go on, but Wang Zengbo was not willing to look like this, and he had not planned to divorce. Li Songli will divorce even if she goes to court.
The evil man sued first, Wang Zengbo was dissatisfied with his final lack of black and white, fortunately all the evidence was in his hands, and finally the lawsuit was won, and he finally let his husband suffer his evil consequences.
Later, I heard that the little third was pregnant, the child did not seem to be the ex-husband's, it was really the evil person who had bad retribution, not that the time had not yet arrived.
The vigorousness of love will become calm in the marriage, marriage is different from the enthusiasm of love, marriage needs to be managed with heart, feel the sour, sweet and bittersweet of life, and any person left behind between husband and wife will affect the quality of married life.
After a long time of life, I want to seek a little stimulation, and it is not a good thing to overstep the stimulation. Men are not bad women do not love, some men coax women to be stunned, some women know that the other party has a family and another half and still cling to it, which is really not right.
Those who betray themselves should not continue to continue, but believe that they are good enough to meet better people. If this one doesn't work, find the next one. Men should remember their duties in marriage, have the courage to take responsibility, and don't take things wrong when they say them.
Promises are easy to say, but not so easy to do. When men seek excitement, they should think about the person who leaves a lamp for you at home, and some people are in the blessing and do not know the blessing, and they have to wait until they lose it to know how to cherish it. The person who betrays the marriage should not try to forgive him, the heart will hurt himself for a while, it is better to look up and look forward, the road is always bright and open.