Some people say that men in the world seem to be different, but the way they talk to people is actually only these three: with money, with the heart, with the mouth.
Men's wind direction for feelings is hidden in the money given to you, because true love needs to spend money. People who love you will worry that you have a shortage of materials and will be reluctant to let you suffer the grievances of life, so they will do their best to ensure your happiness.
Men's investment in feelings is hidden in the fulfillment of promises, and love is not talked about with the mouth, only with the mouth, all are coaxed. True love is a verb, a hug when you are sad, a medicine that you buy for you when you are sick, and a reliance on you to help you solve problems when you encounter difficulties.
Liao Yimei said: "In our lifetime, it is not rare to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding. ”
Everyone often says that it is better to be loved by ten thousand people than one person to understand, and a true lover may not be generous, nor will he necessarily be sweet,but he will definitely have a true heart.
01 A man's mouth, a deceitful ghost
Uncle Song from Jilin is an English teacher with a monthly income of 5200 yuan, 56 years old he and his wife divorced for 17 years, there are no elderly people need to support, there are no children to raise, belongs to a state of a person to eat the whole family is not hungry.
Probably because he feels that his own conditions are good, Uncle Song's blind date vision is also quite high, not only hope to find a formal organization like himself, but also require the other party to be young and beautiful, tall, and must be under 50 years old. At the same time, he also stressed that the central idea of his own search for a partner is to be able to have a husband and wife life.
Because the previous blind dates had failed, Uncle Song was very disappointed in the red bride, and even took out the tone of the students who usually taught students: "You are such a big provincial city, just find me a 50-year-old can't find it?" ”
In view of the previous failure lessons, in order to improve the success rate of blind dates, Uncle Song even took the initiative to ask for the expansion of the blind date radius, expanding the target range from Jilin to Changchun, and said that since the choice has become more, this time we must choose a good condition for ourselves.
Although the Red Lady felt that it was not very reliable, she saw that Uncle Song was not only anxious but also more real, or looked for him in Changchun. Then he was introduced to the 55-year-old Aunt Dong, who is 165 centimeters tall, runs a clothing store by herself, and her two daughters have become a family, although not within the system, but the conditions are very outstanding in all aspects.
Although his age and work are not up to standard, Uncle Song is still willing to learn more about it after learning that Aunt Dong is a big leg. After the first meeting, Uncle Song's small hand turned behind his back, like a big leader's style, saying that although Aunt Dong was good in size, she looked average and could only score 60 points at most.
Aunt Dong, as a person who came over, her vision was not as high as That of Uncle Song, and she said that she hoped to find someone with an income of more than 5,000 yuan and a fixed job and housing, and after learning that the above points were in line with herself, Uncle Song's waist bar stood up straighter.
But who knows that a condition proposed by Aunt Dong next makes Uncle Song difficult on the spot, Aunt Dong is tall, so she hopes that the other half she is looking for can be more than 1 meter 73 in height, and the self-confident Uncle Song is only 1 meter 58 in height, even if he wears high heels, it is difficult to meet the standard.
Although it was revealed as soon as it came up, Uncle Song did not care at all, saying that according to his previous standards, Aunt Dong was not qualified, but according to her newly modified standards, she met.
Although Uncle Song tailored a set of standards for Aunt Dong on the spot, Aunt Dong was not impressed, but said that men should still be taller than women and look a little better. In the face of Aunt Dong's blunt refusal, Uncle Song chose to pretend not to hear, and directly said: "She is very tall, I am in the truth, she is taller than me, I am willing to find a daughter-in-law who is bigger!" ”
In order to show his strength, Uncle Song was even more unashamed and said: "Don't you like rural teachers, I will be transferred to Jilin City tomorrow?" ”
I thought that Uncle Song was just more confident, but in the process of this stalking, Aunt Dong saw that he liked to brag, after all, an ordinary teacher can work where to say that the transfer is transferred. Finally, in order to win another wave, Uncle Song took out his advantages as a cultural person and said on the spot that his feelings for Aunt Dong were because she looked distinctive, so he formulated special standards and specially approved her to become his future wife.
In the face of This wave of sweet words from Uncle Song, Aunt Dong did not win the trick, directly saying that she had seen his previous blind date, and after learning that his glorious history was about to be revealed, Uncle Song quickly found a supplement for himself, saying: "My salary card is for you to keep, confiscate it for me, and give it to others." ”
Uncle Song, who has always had eyes above the top, can be humbled to this extent and can be regarded as a true look at Aunt Dong, but aunt Dong, who has an iron heart, did not take the bait, or cruelly refused him.
02 Men who don't want to spend money must not really love you
I thought that I regretted that I missed the person who was not easy to move around, uncle Song would be sad for a long time, but unfortunately, the red lady still underestimated his nature of liking the new and tired of the old, and Uncle Song said that he had a hard time coming to the provincial city and was not willing to go back empty-handed, so he quickly introduced himself to another one, and in the face of the next blind date, he immediately became energetic.
Since the uncle is interested in the tall aunt, so the red lady introduced him to a 165-height Aunt Zhang this time, Aunt Zhang is only 48 years old, although there is no room and no income, but the height and age are in line with the requirements of the uncle.
Perhaps the blow of the last blind date was too big for himself, when the young Aunt Zhang appeared, Uncle Song was like a stolen eggplant, completely without the happiness of the spit of the past.
After the two sat down, they saw that Uncle Song did not open his mouth, aunt Zhang had to take the initiative to ask him what kind of wife he wanted to find, I thought that this time Uncle Song would converge a little, but he opened his mouth with beautiful words: "Just look for your style, I see that you are quite young, very beautiful!" ”
Perhaps in a small county town and a group of old ladies have been dating for a long time, Uncle Song came to the provincial city to meet a bunch of high-quality aunts, the whole person is like smearing honey, the previous two pages of paper requirements completely forgot, see a love one.
Seeing Uncle Song's greasy appearance, Aunt Zhang directly issued a soul torture question to him: "Then what if you see a younger and more beautiful person than me next time?" ”
Faced with this blunt question, Uncle Song was too frightened to say a word. Seeing that Uncle Song's side was no longer moving, Aunt Zhang immediately made up another knife and directly asked him about his height. In the past, although Uncle Song felt that he was not tall, he was victorious in the drag of no children and the elderly, and secondly, his work was stable and decent, plus his income was also high, so he was always only when he hated others, and this time in the face of this successive blows, he could be regarded as a not light injury.
Fortunately, as long as people will have shortcomings, Aunt Zhang immediately exposed her weakness, that is, she has a 19-year-old daughter, if she is with herself, Uncle Song has to give her daughter 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses.
After learning that he not only had to raise Aunt Zhang, but also her daughter, Uncle Song immediately woke up from the dream and quickly gave his aunt a sign, although divorced, but the living expenses still had to ask her ex-husband, otherwise he could sue the other party.
Although Uncle Song acted like he was very concerned about the other party, Aunt Zhang saw through his careful thinking at a glance and directly said: "You must give me the salary card, I want to control the power, if I don't give it to me for a day, I can't live with him." ”
Seeing that Aunt Zhang was still talking to herself about the conditions, Uncle Song had a clever move, immediately thought of a good idea, and proposed to Aunt Zhang: "Let's live for a while first, and then talk about it after we are finished, in today's words, don't say (popular) trial marriage!" ”
In the face of Uncle Song's unreasonable request, Aunt Zhang felt particularly speechless and was eager to leave on the spot, but Uncle Song was still not dead-hearted, and issued an invitation again: "In two days, follow me back to Jilin, let's go everywhere first, okay?" ”
In the face of Uncle Song's idea of wanting to "white prostitute", Aunt Zhang did not want to waste time with her, and directly found an excuse to leave.
The arrogant Uncle Song had a hard time coming to the provincial city to open his eyes, and all kinds of lowered postures, and the result was still a bamboo basket to hit the water empty.
03 Men are more realistic than you think
Whether in TV dramas or in real life, in some people's impressions, once men and women talk about feelings, the reality is always women. Admittedly, some women do value material conditions more than feelings.
However, judging from Uncle Song's blind date, men are more frightening in reality than women. Not only can you change the criteria for choosing a mate on the spot, but in the face of the object of your choice, you are even more coaxed and deceived, there is no principle and bottom line to speak of, if he simply likes beautiful women, when others talk to him about money, he is reluctant.
Yang Lan said: In marriage, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of liver and gallbladder, the tacit understanding of not abandoning, and the unforgettable kindness.
Whether it is the love of adults or the blind date of the elderly, it is not to say a few sweet words, it can last forever, but to really pay and treat each other sincerely to gain something.
A man like Uncle Song who doesn't want to give, but only wants to harvest, after all, can't harvest true love.
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