In life, it is not easy to meet a heartwarming person, and it is even more difficult to love a person well, because love can sometimes make people blind and numb, and may also make you go from a person who thought that there was love and rejoiced at the beginning, to a person who was bitterly pleading for love and wandering in pain.
In a relationship, don't be foolish to give everything to him because you meet someone you love, and forget to leave a little space to love yourself, forget to measure whether it is worth it, forget to confirm whether he loves you too.
If you give everything for him and he dismisses you, then all your efforts are worthless, don't beg for yourself. Therefore, women should know that the man uses these 4 ways to treat you, indicating that he is beginning to dislike you, and stop being bored with himself!
1, the news to you for a long time
It is very convenient to contact the other party with the mobile phone, but because the mobile phone can not see the other party when contacting, it is impossible to confirm whether the other party has seen your message, whether it is too busy to reply after seeing it, or because he does not want to reply at all. However, I believe that one thing can be confirmed, if a person always does not reply to the message you send, or directly does not reply, it means that he does not care about your message, and really does not want to reply.
Therefore, women should know that a man does not reply to your message for a long time every time, not because he is busy every time, but because he has begun to dislike you in his heart, don't be bored with himself.
2, chat with you love to answer
If the other party does not reply in time through the mobile phone chat, it is because it is too busy, did not see the message in time, and chose not to reply when it was too late to see the message, then face-to-face chat always does not exist because it cannot be heard and does not respond.
Therefore, women should know that if a man chats with you in person, he still ignores your love and answers, either looks down at the mobile phone, or looks around or gets up to do other things, and does not listen to you seriously, indicating that he does not like to chat with you at all, in fact, he is beginning to dislike you, and women don't be bored with themselves.
3) Your opinion is blind
In life, a person can listen carefully to the opinions of others, is a kind of cultivation is also a manifestation of respect for others, not to mention whether other people's opinions are correct or useful, at least should be listened to first, should think about whether there is some truth, rather than others as soon as they open their mouths to deny him, interrupt his words, refuse to listen, or directly turn a blind eye.
Therefore, women should know that if the man's opinion of you is directly ignored every time, even if what you say is right, others agree with your opinion, he still insists on denying you, indicating that he has begun to dislike you in his heart, don't be bored with himself.
4, your grievances do not pay attention
The most basic choice for two people to get along is not to wronged each other, to be together in order to bring happiness to each other, to love each other well, rather than to bring pain to each other and let each other be wronged in everything.
So, women need to know that a man who really cares about you won't give you pain when he's with you, and he won't let you be wronged for selfish thoughts. If a man chooses to wronged you when he has a conflict of interest, and does not pay attention to the grievances you have been wronged, does not have a word of comfort or apology, and feels that it is not a big deal, thinking that you are too calculating and too sensitive, it means that he has begun to dislike you in his heart, and stop asking for himself.
Whether you have a place in a man's heart depends on how he treats you.
Respecting you and thinking of you everywhere shows that he loves you and treats you as his own. Disrespecting you, always doing things that make you dissatisfied, always saying something that pierces your heart, making it clear that I don't love you enough and don't want to live with you for a lifetime.
The right people treat you as a baby, the wrong people treat you as a plaything, and men keep making you unhappy, making you secretly hide in the corner and cry, don't love.
Without you in your heart, no matter how deeply you love and give, there is no point. Letting go, will be heartache, reluctant to let go, will always be heartache, long pain is not as good as short pain, let go of him, no longer appear in his life
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