A while ago, Big S and Gu Junye flashed marriage, and Little S also made a lot of noise after mixing a foot, vowing to have a tendency not to give up on the "flow wool".
Everyone knows the size of S, but what few people know is that the Xu family actually has a big sister named Xu Xixian.
Compared with the noisy two sisters, Xu Xixian is more low-key, and even insiders do not know that Big S actually has a sister.
Xu Xixian's appearance years ago was not worse than that of her sister Big S, but she did not choose to take the same path as her sister.
Mother Huang Chunmei is strong, the second sister Xu Xiyuan is capable and decisive, the third sister Xu Xidi is not bad in ability, and the low-key introverted Xu Xixian plays what role in the family of "four women and one life"?
In 1974, Xu Xixian was born in Taiwan, her nickname was Zhenzhen, and her ancestral home was Linyi, Shandong.
His father was a young owner of a silver building, and there were seven older sisters in the family, which was a veritable "big family".
It is clear that, judging by the membership structure of the family, this is a patriarchal family.
Mother Xu and Xu Xixian
Xu Xixian's mother, Huang Chunmei, was a woman from the countryside, and because she had only married into the Xu family for a year, she was considered to be a woman who was easy to have children.
Although the first child is a female baby, the Xu family still has great confidence in their mother, and the heavy responsibility of thriving incense is pinned on Huang Chunmei's body.
However, as her mother's belly did not move for nearly two years, the attitude of several aunts towards the mother and daughter soon changed significantly, allowing Xu Xixian to experience the warmth and coldness of the family's feelings prematurely.
Mother Xu
Before her sister Xu Xiyuan was born, her mother had already endured the spiritual "destruction" of Xu Xiyuan's parents for a year.
In 1976, under the sound of the Xu family,The baby girl in Huang Chunmei's belly fell to the ground.
When the nurse held her sister in front of her mother, Huang Chunmei, who had collapsed, suddenly shouted with a flushed face: "Take her away, I don't want it, why not be a boy?" ”
Two-year-old Xu Xixian was so frightened that she cried and didn't know why her mother was like this, but she was very happy about her sister's arrival.
In 1978, the third sister Xu Xidi also came to this world.
The three daughters in a row, seeing that the Xu family's thriving incense has become a joke, the family status of the mother and daughter three fell down.
And the father, who was always afraid of getting into the pile of women, loved them from the beginning, and later alienated himself from them in a tongue-in-cheek manner.
Xu Xixian and her sisters grew up in a repressive environment day by day, and the boy's obsession has not been reduced in the Xu family, but has intensified.
Once the father came back drunk and punched and kicked his mother, complaining about why she couldn't have a boy.
Unexpectedly, the third elder did not cry, but Xu Xixian sobbed in fear.
In the end, the powerful Big S came forward to protect his sister and sister and mother behind him, and launched a fierce resistance with his father.
As the eldest sister, Xu Xixian was the first child to feel this kind of pressure, and she did not dare to say a word in the face of all kinds of oppression.
Gradually, her personality became more and more introverted, in stark contrast to the personality of her mother and sisters.
However, these days will soon come to an end.
Once the father and mother quarreled again, or because of the birth of a boy.
This time, her mother Huang Chunmei did not flinch, pulling her throat and yelling: "I want to give birth to you and go out to find another woman to give birth!" ”
Originally, this was just an angry remark during the quarrel, but I didn't expect my father to take it seriously, and such a day could not go on.
The mother filed for divorce, but the father did not sign it, but could let them move out and give them living expenses every month.
Huang Chunmei did not care so much, so she had to move out of the Xu family mansion with her three daughters and live in a rental house, and since then she has lived a life of "four women and one life".
Xu Xixian and her sister stumbled and grew up along the way, and in the blink of an eye, they reached the age of middle school.
Teenage is the age when love Dou first opened, and what Xu Xixian did not expect was that Xu Xiyuan in junior high school fell in love with Chen Jianzhou of the same school.
Chen Jianzhou is the hero of the school basketball team, and the admirer is not only a sister?
Sure enough, one day Xu Xixian was blocked in the toilet by several girls in other classes: "Let your sister be careful after school." ”
Xu Xixian, who had a weak personality, did not dare to speak out at that time, but after school, she still rushed to the junior high school to find her sister.
However, she was still a step late, but it was the third sister Xu Xidi who was unlucky, and she was kicked hard.
Size S is not a big problem, but I am afraid that the eldest sister will miss her mouth, so they tell Xu Xixian: "Don't tell your mother about this!" ”
However, Xu Xixian's character who could not hide things escaped Huang Chunmei's eyes, and after some questioning, she still said that she leaked her mouth, and immediately cried: "Blame me for not protecting my sister!" ”
Big S and his mother rolled their eyes when they saw it, and then the three of them took Xu Xixian in their arms and comforted: "Good! Don't cry, they're bad, you're not wrong! ”
The four mothers and daughters hugged each other and had their own thoughts: although the days were tight, it was good that the four people had one heart, and the hard days would always come to an end.
Seeing that Xu Xixian was about to reach adulthood, the three sisters had different ideas about the future.
She wants to choose a good job major, because the second sister Xu Xiyuan had the experience of being a child star when she was 11 years old, so she wanted to go to art school to study and become a star when she grew up, while the third sister Xu Xidi did not have any dreams.
The eyes of the three sisters are full of hope for the future, and the fate of this family has quietly changed with their different ideas.
In 1994, Xu Xixian accompanied Big S to audition, but she did not expect that the sisters were immediately favored by Wang Weizhong, the godfather of Taiwanese variety shows, and proposed that they wanted them to debut in the form of "sister combination".
However, the introverted Xu Xixian did not have this idea, so she politely refused Wang Weizhong's invitation and proposed that her third sister could try it.
In the same year, under the coaxing and deception of Xu Xiyuan, Xu Xidi and her sister debuted and became popular with a song "Ten Minutes of Love".
The popularity of the two sisters did not last long, and their lives did not change much.
As the eldest sister, Xu Xixian also realized at this time that it was time to help her mother share the responsibility.
However, because of her personality problems, she was often rejected during the application process, and even if the application was successful, it would not last long.
It doesn't matter if you can't find a good job, because Xu Xixian and her sisters soon have a relationship.
In 1998, Xu Xixian, who had been running into a wall in the workplace for many years, finally found a job in clothing sales, and Ken "took in" her boss, a young man about her age.
Both are introverts and shy personalities, but they have a crush on each other when they first meet.
In the same year, the third sister Xu Xidi and Huang Ziling, who had been in love for two years, moved out of the family to live together, and the second sister Xu Xiyuan also began to communicate with Gu Junye.
Seeing that the three sisters all have a home, but the feelings of the third sister Xu Xidi have caused a storm.
In 2000, Xiao S, who was sitting at home, received a call from her boyfriend Huang Ziling: "I have thought a lot lately, let's break up!" ”
Xiao S was heartbroken for a moment and shed salty tears: "Is it because of her?" ”
The other party hung up the phone without answering, that "she" is the daughter of Hong Kong tycoon Tsang Chi-wai, what conditions do you have to fight with others?
Xu Xixian on the side saw that her sister was so sad, and she did not know how to comfort her with a stupid mouth, and she was at a loss for a while.
In that lost love day, Xiao S borrowed wine all night to buy drunk, and Xu Xixian had to put down her work to take care of her sister's diet and living.
One day she went to buy fritters, and the boss who happened to be reading the newspaper broke his mouth over there: "Little S is in the newspaper again, and her private emotional life must be very messy!" ”
This was just heard by Xu Xixian, who bought breakfast, and she walked to the boss and angrily said: "You don't understand her, why do you say this about her!" ”
After saying that he turned around and left, the stunned boss only came back to god for half a day, looked at her distant back and shouted: "Who are you again?" Hey, you haven't paid yet! ”
Xu Xixian, who has gone far, feels embarrassed, but her heart is still very angry, and she will not quarrel, and after paying the money, she will "run away from the wilderness".
After returning home, he threw his breakfast on the table, and xiao S, who was still sad, saw that the eldest sister was like this, and suddenly wondered: "What's wrong with you?" ”
After listening to Xu Xixian's way of clearing the original commission, Xiao S, who was still heartbroken, cried and laughed for a while, and took the eldest sister into his arms, and the sadness had long been swept away.
After stepping out of the pain of lost love, Xiao S put all his mind on work, and his career soon ushered in a peak period.
And her second sister Xu Xiyuan is also because she played Shancai in "Meteor Garden".
The announcement fee and film remuneration of the size S rose in an instant, and the mother and daughter four finally survived.
Although both sisters have become big stars, Xu Xixian has not thought of using their fame to gain half a benefit for herself.
After the big and small S was fired, he did not forget the silent support and payment of his eldest sister behind his back, and the two sisters proposed to pay for her to open a clothing store.
Although xu Xixian refused in the process, but it was not a strong big S, so the two sisters funded Xu Xixian and her boyfriend to manage the clothing store together.
Sometimes fans will go to the clothing store to buy clothes, and then someone will discuss the gossip of big and small S, but as the boss, she can't argue with others in the store, she can only hold back and come home crying.
For this situation, the two sisters are also helpless.
Xu Xixian and her boyfriend can be described as "not a family that does not enter a door".
Every time someone came in to buy clothes, the two of them behaved very woodenly, did not dare to introduce themselves to people, and waited stupidly for others to ask for a price.
This way of doing business made the store close quickly.
The closure of the clothing store did not affect the feelings between Xu Xixian and her sisters.
In 2005, Huang Chunmei, who was traveling abroad, was so frightened by a phone call from Xiao S that she almost "jumped": "Mom, I am pregnant." ”
Huang Chunmei immediately flew back to China, and when she got home, she scolded her daughter for splitting her head and covering her face, and finally she could only helplessly accept the fact that she wanted to be a grandmother.
Just when Huang Chunmei's mood had just calmed down, Xu Xixian, who came out of the room, said quietly: "Mom, I am also pregnant!" ”
Xu Xixian, who usually does not like to say a word, said something surprising as soon as she said a word, almost making people fall to the ground.
Xu Xixian proposed to get married, which did not surprise the family, after all, the two have been in love for 8 years.
Because Xu Xixian has a simple personality, she has never left her family's sight since she was a child.
For Xu Xixian's marriage, they also have a condition for the man, that is, after marriage, the couple must live with Xu's mother.
This is equivalent to entering the money, but Xu Xixian's boyfriend also readily agreed.
On the eve of the Spring Festival, Xu Xixian gave birth to a big fat boy, but there was no wedding before this.
In January 2006, the third sister Xu Xidi gave birth to a daughter, and three months later she and her husband had a make-up wedding.
After the wedding of the third elder Xu Xidi, Xu Xixian followed closely behind and also held a banquet with her boyfriend.
However, Xu Xixian's wedding ceremony was not high-profile, only quietly invited relatives and friends, and even the media did not hear a little wind.
Because Xiao S still had a lot of contracts that had not been completed before she got married, she had to get into work quickly after giving birth, otherwise she would have to lose a lot of money.
At this time, Xu Xixian offered to help her sister with the child, anyway, bringing one is also a belt, and one more will not hinder things.
With the support of the eldest sister and mother, Little S quickly returned to his job.
Soon, the good things of the second elder Xu Xiyuan will also come.
In September 2010, Xu Xixian's sister Big S fell in love with Wang Xiaofei at first sight in Beijing.
In November of the same year, Wang Xiaofei became her brother-in-law, and after marriage, the two had a son and a daughter.
After the two sisters got married and had children, Xu Xixian became the "full-time nanny" of the family, and almost all the children in the family were taken care of by her aunt to eat and drink Lasa.
A little sadly, in November 2021, Xu Xiyuan and Wang Xiaofei ended the marriage.
The two sisters are both popular stars and hosts, but Xu Xixian wants to be a nanny for them at home, is it not jealous at all?
The contented Xu Xixian is really not jealous, because her dream is to be the most ordinary person in the world.
When her two younger sisters were fighting for gold on a daily basis, she did the opposite, spending less money every month became a challenge in life, and her sister invited her to a big dinner and was too expensive.
What if you compare the marriages of two sisters?
Big S's marriage must have been understood, so I will not elaborate too much.
It seems that the scenery is unlimited, but judging from the "traffic wool" that has recently been married for a month, it is also false to say that it is not bad money.
As the pillar of the Xu family, Xu Xiyuan did not have time and space to catch her breath, as long as she stopped, the whole family would not be able to maintain the current scenery.
From frugality to luxury, from luxury to frugality.
In terms of career, Xiao S wants to be compared with his sister, and there is still a distance from Taipei to Rome, and the marriage is not necessarily good.
After Xu Xidi gave birth to a child, her husband continued to gossip outside.
Although she and Big S debunked the rumors to her husband at the first time, in the eyes of outsiders, it was only to maintain decency.
In addition to the scandal, Xiao S was once rumored to have been abused by her husband, and she also admitted it herself when recording the program with Wu Qilong.
Whether it is the effect of the program is unknown, but after all, the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, and it is impossible for her to tell the truth to others.
In her career, Xu Xixian wants to compare with big S, and I am afraid that there are still 10 Xu Xidi.
However, on the experience of life, emotionally Xu Xixian was in love for 8 years, and finally a lover finally became a family member.
She doesn't have to worry about her career, she hurts her husband and mother, two sisters who spoil her.
Aside from thinking about how this month saved money more than the previous month, there seemed to be nothing worth her distressing.
To discuss who is better than the three sisters, I want to see that Xu Xixian, who is far away from fame and fortune, is the winner in life.
Life is like a passing cloud, and what you enjoy is considered to be owned.