As we get older, we especially like to talk to people who have stories, and talking to them makes us feel particularly interesting and always gain a lot of wisdom.
Where does a lot of wisdom in life come from? It comes from our usual accumulation and from our usual cumulative thinking. When something happens, do you make more agile judgments and thinking? Everyday judgment and thinking are too important for yourself to make you feel different.
For example, if you go to a mountain area to teach for a year, you can actually do a lot of things in this year, you can also travel, you can also go to a big city to accumulate work experience, and you can also go to study and study. However, choosing to volunteer to teach in the mountains will be very bitter, and this kind of suffering is actually a precious asset for yourself, and you will feel that life is really beautiful when you look back on it for many years.
For example, if there is a project that is abroad and needs to work abroad for three years, then this is also a choice for yourself, so what do you choose to go? Or do you choose not to go? Choose not to go, you can spend a lot of time with relatives and friends in these three years, if you choose to go, then it is to go to a new environment, more importantly, abroad, but this experience will be recalled later, it will make you have a story.
Whether it is to go to the mountains to support education, or to work abroad, in fact, it is only a part of life, and it is also a great blessing in life to be able to experience different cultures and experience different experiences in this part of life.
We often listen to those old people say some things in the past, but we will find a point: some old people have less life experience and life experience, and they say those things over and over again, and their ears are calloused; but some old people are treasure boys, and they can find a lot of listening feasts that we can't refuse from his conversation. Because every story he tells is so relished, it's all told.
The life experience of the two old people is different, each person's experience is different, and the understanding of life is also different.
But in real life, there are also many people who have been to many places and met a lot of people, but they will find that they do not have that connotation, why is this? And I can't express that very deep feeling, I think it's like eating and drinking every day, there's nothing to say. It's like going on a trip, just going here.
This is because these people have not experienced the lows, setbacks and tribulations of life, simply put, they have not been punched in the face by the reality of life, so they feel that what they have now is what they should be, and they are all deserved, so the degree of feeling is naturally different.
A person who has experienced poverty will be particularly happy when he suddenly earns a huge amount of money; a person who was born with a golden food and clothing, when suddenly has a huge amount of money, feels bland. These are two kinds of deviations, so there is a saying: a life that has not experienced the ups and downs of life is not enough to talk about life.
When you are young, you can experience more things, you can meet more people, you can go to more places to see, then go. Some people are destined to be people with stories, and some people are destined to live in the same place step by step, seeing those people and encountering those things.
Stories are not something we want to have, but only after experiencing and reflecting, summarizing, optimizing, and reviewing afterwards can we be impressed.