As the saying goes: if you have two pieces of gold, it is easy to get, but it is difficult to find a confidant.
Dating is a big deal, both in ancient times and now. We should polish our eyes when making friends, if we are not careful in making friends, then we will make ourselves suffer from the disaster of innocence.
When I was young, I liked to watch the story of Water Margin, and I always felt that the brotherhood of good men was deeply envied. However, when I grew up, I looked at the story of Water Margin again, and found that the brothers and brothers in it were only superficial harmony. Some people are actually villains and are not suitable for brotherhood.
First, the short-footed tiger Wang Ying
Wang Ying, that is definitely an outlier on Liangshan. The vast majority of good men in Liangshan are not good women, and some good men even do not marry for life. However, Wang Ying is different. He does not have any lofty ideals and ambitions, even if it is "drinking in a big bowl and eating meat in large pieces" is not his ultimate pursuit, he only hopes to live a life of hot kilns for his wife and children.
In the more popular words now, his dream is to "be greedy for money and lustful, and be a layman."
In order to realize this dream, he did not toss less. He was from the Che family, and once when he was doing business, he saw the wealth, killed his employer, and then fled to Qingfeng Mountain and became the owner of the second village.
After becoming the King of the Mountains, the door of his desire was completely opened. When he heard that there was a palanquin passing by at the foot of Qingfeng Mountain, and only seven or eight people followed, he was immediately moved. Nine times out of ten in this palanquin was a woman, and he immediately lit up thirty or fifty little minions, held up a short gun, and went down the mountain with enthusiasm.
Sure enough, as he expected, there was a woman in the palanquin. After he robbed the woman up the mountain, he did not greet Yan Shun and the others, and directly brought the woman into his room. As for what to do, interested officials can make up their own minds.
However, just as he was about to step at the door, Song Jiang, who was a guest at Qingfeng Mountain, took Yan Shun and Zheng Tianshou and opened Wang Ying's door.
Wang Ying could only push the woman away with a red face to greet everyone, and Song Jiang consulted with Wang Ying after inquiring about the woman's situation:
"But any good man who commits the three words of 'slipping bone marrow' is a good life and makes people laugh." I think this lady is a courtesan of the imperial court. How to look at the two words of righteousness on the thin surface and the rivers and lakes, let him go down the mountain and go back, and teach him how to finish the marriage reunion? ”
Wang Ying thought to herself that my pants were all off, so you told me this? How do you run to Yan Po Xi every day? You are a full man who does not know that a hungry man is hungry. He disagrees:
Brother, mess with the little brother these ones.
After Song Jiang heard this, he immediately knelt down for Wang Ying.
"When The Xiandi wanted to suppress the Lady of the Village, in the future Song Jiang chose one to stop and be good, and he would marry a Fu Shi Xiandi in the next gift. It's just that this lady is the wife of a villain friend and a colleague of the official, how to do human affection, let him go. ”
When Yan Shun and Zheng Tianshou saw Song Jiang like this, they immediately helped Song Jiang up and agreed to Song Jiang's request. However, Wang Ying was not very happy in his heart.
Soon after, Song Jiang was framed by the woman he rescued and almost lost his life. In order to avenge Song Jiang and others, the good men on Qingfeng Mountain poured out of their nests and went straight to Qingfeng Village.
Wang Ying again captured Liu Gao's wife and hid her in her room.
Song Jiang coaxed her out of Wang Ying, and during the confrontation on the spot, Yan Shun slashed Lady Liu Gao with a knife. Unexpectedly, this move annoyed Wang Ying:
When Wang Xiaohu saw that he had cut this woman, he was furious in his heart, and after snatching a simple knife, he wanted to make peace with Yan Shun.
Fortunately, Song Jiang and others intervened to block it, which prevented the occurrence of this fire.
However, from here, we can see Wang Ying's character, which is a guy who is blind to color and forgets righteousness.
The guy in the crotch of his pants was dominated by that thing. It's dangerous to make friends with someone like that, because it's not time to say when he's going to turn the other cheek with you.
In addition, when interacting with friends, it is also necessary to try to mix with the emotional problems of friends as much as possible, otherwise the relationship is easy to break down.
2. Lu Qian
In Tokyo City, Lin Chong has two friends, one is the famous flower monk, and the other is his hair Xiao Luqian.
Lin Chong and Lu Qian have been friends since childhood, and when they grow up, they both work under Gao Qi. The relationship between the two is very close.
Lin Chong rarely confided in Lu Zhishen's interactions, and most of the conversations between them were about the characters on the rivers and lakes and the length of their martial arts. And Lin Chong has a lot of words in his heart that he is willing to say to Lu Qian, and Lu Qian also understands Lin Chong's mind and knows the weakness of the other party.
When the two were drinking on fan's floor, Lin Chong said to Lu Qian:
"Brother Xian does not know that a man has a skill, does not meet the Lord, succumbs to the villain, and is subject to such a pickled breath!"
Lu Qian comforted him:
"Although there are several religious leaders in the Forbidden Army today, who is capable of attaining the ability of their elder brothers, and the lieutenants see it well, but who is angry with them?"
Lin Chong told him about Gao Yannei's teasing of his wife, but instead he advised Lin Chong:
"A sister-in-law who will not be recognized by Yauchi." So it doesn't matter, the brother doesn't have to bear it, just drink. ”
Lu Qian's mouth was Dao, but secretly he was helping Gao Yanei to design Lin Chong together. He tricked Lin Chong into drinking in Fan Lou, and then let people trick Lin Chong into his house, creating opportunities for Gao Yanei and Lin Chong.
When Gao Yanei summoned Lu Yuhou to his home to discuss this plan against Lin Chong, he did not hesitate to sell Lin Chong.
Lu Yu waited for a moment to listen to permission, and there was no help, as long as Yauchi was happy, but he couldn't care about his friends.
A good one only rejoices in Yauchi, but he can't be a friend. Lu Qian is really not a friend, he can sell his friends for glory at key moments, how can such a friend be trusted?
In a series of conspiracies to persecute Lin Chong in Gao Ya, Lu Qian played the role of a vanguard. It was he who came forward to bribe Dong Chao and Xue Ba, so that these two people could end up lin chong on the road. Or did he personally go to Cangzhou to bribe Guan Ying and Cha Bei, and the three of them burned the hay field together, hoping to make Lin Chong bury the sea of fire.
Seeing the fire in the hay field, he also chanted:
"When he escaped with his life, he burned the hay field of the army and was also guilty of a capital crime."
This Lu Qian is vicious.
When can you see a friend clearly, and only when you are killed can you see his true face!
Third, timely rain Song Jiang
In the hearts of the good men in the jianghu, Song Jiang was definitely a qualified brother, and all those who had gotten along with him praised the benefits of Song Jiang, which made many people in the jianghu envious and eager to meet with Song Jiang. There is a great sense of "people do not know Song Sanlang, and it seems that heroes are wandering".
However, is Song Jiang really worthy of socializing? Let's start with two people.
Tang Niu'er, a child selling pickled children on the streets of Yuncheng County. In addition to selling things, he also did some idle work, often helping Song Jiang to run errands, and he also told Song Jiang about some official affairs. Song Jiang often funded him with some silver two.
One day, Song Jiang was being entangled with Yan Pozi. Yan Pozi pulled him at the gate of the county gate and shouted, "There are murderers here!" ”
Although the crowd refused to believe it, but Yan Pozi grabbed Song Jiang and did not let go, just when Song Jiang had no plan to escape, Tang Niu'er appeared, he went up and gave Yan Pozi a slap, and then the two wrestled together. Song Jiang took advantage of this gap to escape.
Song Jiang really killed people, and Yan Pozi saw that Song Jiang had run away, so she could only pull Tang Niu'er to sue the officials. In the end, Song Jiang, who killed people, was at large, while Tang Niu'er, who was only helping, was treated as an accomplice and sent to the distant evil junzhou five hundred miles away.
And Song Jiang had no intention of helping him in the slightest, and when he went to Liangshan Po in the future, he did not think of the benefactor who had saved him.
Li Kui, a jailer in Jiangzhou. Before meeting Song Jiang, he ate, drank and had fun every day, although there was no rush in the day, and he did not have any long-term goals, but he was very happy.
It wasn't until he met Song Jiang that his peaceful life began to be broken. Even if Li Kui gambled, he began to pay his bills, and he could argue with people for a few fish. Even in the end, he rescued Song Jiang by robbing the law field in Jiangzhou and completely stepped onto the opposite side of the imperial court.
At this time, Li Kui did not believe in others, he only believed in Song Jiang. He is the sword in Song Jiang's hand, and wherever Song Jiang points, he will slash wherever he goes. He is Song Jiang's most loyal little brother.
Song Jiang also liked this generous and willing to contribute Li Kui and regarded him as a confidant.
But later, everything changed, and Song Jiang and others accepted zhao'an and became a member of the imperial court. After the conquest of Fangla, these surviving generals were all enthroned by the emperor and became members of the system.
However, the traitors did not like Song Jiang and other good men, and they used it to add chronic poison to the imperial wine to kill Song Jiang. After drinking, Song Jiang became aware of it, and before he died, he summoned his confidant Li Kui to him and coaxed Li Kui into drinking poisoned wine.
He was afraid that after his death, Li Kui would avenge himself and rebel, and when the time came, he would ruin the reputation of his loyal servant Filial Piety. Poor Li Kui eventually died at the hands of his most respected Elder Brother Song.
From the stories of these two people above, it is not difficult to see that Song Jiang does not want to show such loyalty and benevolence. Under the cloak of his "timely rain", there is a cold, self-interested heart, and he can give up together for his own interests and future, including his brothers.
Fourth, the sick lieutenant Chi Sun Li
Sun Li, the terracotta warrior of Dengzhou. There were many good men from Dengzhou on Liangshan, and Sun Xin, Gu Dajie, Xie Zhen, Xie Bao, Zou Yuan, and Zou Run were all important figures of the Dengzhou faction.
However, Sun Li, who had the highest status and the best martial arts, was not the core figure of the Dengzhou faction. Because these people have an unusual relationship with Sun Xin and his wife.
Xie Zhen and Xie Bao brothers are cousins of Gu Dajie and Sun Xin. However, after the Xie Zhen brothers were falsely imprisoned by Mao Taigong, they did not ask the Sun family brothers for help, but asked Le He to pass on the news to Gu Dajie:
Annoyed, you secretly sent a letter to him, telling me about me, and my sister will definitely come to save me.
It is reasonable to say that the best person to deal with this matter is Sun Li, after all, he is an official of the imperial court, and if he says hello to the prefect of Dengzhou, I am afraid that he will be able to save the Xie family brothers. However, they chose Gu Dajie, who had no power, which was still worth pondering.
Looking at Sun Li's performance, Xie Zhen's brothers were imprisoned, he did not know anything about it. After Gu Dajie informed the situation, she did not actively think of a way to rescue. Hearing that Gu Dajie was going to rob the prison, his first reaction was, "I am an officer in Dengzhou, how dare I do such a thing?" ”
He did not show the slightest sincerity in rescuing the two brothers, and finally agreed to go to prison under the persecution of Gu Dajie.
This is true for relatives, let alone for friends.
After the prison robbery, they planned to defect to Liangshan po. At Liangshan, they heard that Song Jiang had led the good men of Liangshan to attack Zhujiazhuang and lost, and he was suffering from the lack of promotion, and his eyes immediately lit up:
"Luan Tingyu, and I am a martial art taught by a master." He also knew the guns and knives I learned; I also knew the martial arts he learned. Today, we only do Dengzhou to transfer Yun Zhou to guard the passing, and when we come here to look at each other, he will surely come out to greet him. When we enter and go, we should merge inside and outside, and we will achieve great things. How about this meter? ”
Sun Li did not hesitate in the slightest about betraying his master and disciple, and in his eyes, the only value of this disciple was to become his own name for joining Liangshan.
Human nature is so cold, it is really intimidating.
Be sure to polish your eyes when making friends, many people are a character on the surface, but behind the scenes, they like to calculate others. The four people listed above, their behavior, also exists in reality. We must recognize the little people around us, and stay away from them and avoid their harm.