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The 4-year-old son just went to kindergarten, and his meticulous performance was excellent, all because his mother-in-law took him to "crazy play"
Some time ago, I went shopping with my girlfriend, I didn't expect my girlfriend to be "happy", her son just went to kindergarten, what is worth her being so happy about? It turned out that according to the girlfriend, the child had just been in kindergarten for a week, and he was frequently praised by the teacher, which was described in eight words, that is, "thoughtful and excellent performance". Listening to the teacher's words, this made the girlfriend overjoyed to hear it, and every time she went to pick up the child, she felt a unique light on her face.
But I feel curious, obviously my girlfriend was still complaining about the education method of my mother-in-law some time ago, but why is there a "360-degree reversal" now?
In fact, since the girlfriend gave birth to a child, she has been single-mindedly going to be a working woman, and her son has been handed over to his grandparents since he was a child, and he does not care much about his child's education. Why can a girlfriend be so relieved in the first place? Only because the girlfriend's mother-in-law is a retired teacher in a municipal key primary school and has decades of rich teaching experience. Since he was a child, his son has lived with his mother-in-law, and it can be said that he does not have to worry about his children's education at all.
But when the child is 2 years old, the girlfriend will perceive that something is wrong, other people's children have begun to read, arithmetic, learn English at this time, but their own children still like they don't understand anything, they will only follow their grandmother at home to "crazy play", why use the word "crazy play" to describe it?
It turns out that every time the grandmother plays with her son, she will lock the two people in a small room, almost play to the state of sleeping and forgetting to eat, even if it is time to eat, as long as the child is still interested in playing, let him continue to play, there are several times the girlfriend sees enough time to eat, go into the room to call the son to eat, and was also driven out by the mother-in-law, loudly reprimanded: don't argue with the child to play.
This makes the girlfriend particularly anxious, other people's children have begun to read and count early, win at the starting line, but their own children are "silly humming" every day just to play, so that the girlfriend has to doubt the mother-in-law's education method, is the mother-in-law a little too doting on the child?
So the girlfriend specially for the child to develop a "curriculum", stipulating that what time at home every day should be literate, what points should be counted, etc., let the mother-in-law follow this table to implement, did not expect the mother-in-law to throw the curriculum table aside, every day only with the child "crazy play", and finally the girlfriend really can't help it, so she opened her mouth: Mother-in-law, it is better to send the child to the early education institution, their teachers there are professional, and you do not have to take the child so hard every day, for you to reduce the burden.
Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law saw the girlfriend's thoughts at a glance and said: In fact, you just think that I don't teach children knowledge, in fact, the child's education problems, I pay more attention than anyone, but the "cramming education" you take is not scientific and will reduce the child's interest in learning, you don't have to care about me, I will have my own method.
After listening to the mother-in-law say this, the girlfriend had nothing to say, and secretly thought that the mother-in-law was an old stubborn, but she was her own elder, and finally helplessly could only listen to her.
But soon the child blinked to the age of 4 years old on the small class, did not expect that the child just went to kindergarten performance is unexpected by everyone, although the child's literacy rate and arithmetic ability is not as good as the same class, but his learning ability is very strong, learning efficiency is very high, other children need two lessons to understand the knowledge, he can understand in one class, and in the homework is particularly attentive, other children like to play while writing homework, but he is particularly attentive when writing homework, 10 minutes can be completed.
Coupled with his son's other performances, the kindergarten teacher greatly praised: your child has the potential to become a "school bully" in the future. These words really made the girlfriend overjoyed, but also confused.
Obviously, my children have not learned anything before going to school, and they only care about playing every day, why do they behave so well after going to school? With doubts, the girlfriend went to find her mother-in-law and wanted to ask a question.
I didn't expect her mother-in-law's words to make her fully enlightened. It turns out that the mother-in-law accompanies the child at home to "play crazy", which is the best way of education.
Her mother-in-law has been teaching for decades and has met all kinds of students, and she has summed up a truth: any student with good grades, he is not how good his IQ is, but his concentration is particularly excellent. Specifically, it is manifested in: special concentration during class, special concentration when doing homework, full attention to play when it is time to play, and full concentration to study when it is time to learn, which makes in the same time, students with strong concentration absorb more knowledge than other students, and natural grades are better.
For preschool children, in the time of 0-6 years old, the child is not required to have a high literacy rate and how strong his arithmetic ability is, but to cultivate "concentration" and lay a better foundation for future learning.
After listening to the mother-in-law say this, the girlfriend finally realized that although the mother-in-law's method is special, it is very "effective".
Educating children of this age, if you want to improve his concentration, you must use the form of "play" to teach, play is more effective than all early education methods.
But the mother-in-law went on to say: play is not "blind play" and "crazy play", it must be entertaining and educational, and it is necessary to absorb useful knowledge in the process of playing, if you simply accompany the child to run around the house, it is meaningless. And the mother-in-law likes to use the "Magic Word Card" to accompany the child to play every day.
Many other toy children in the family are not interested, and they have bought new toys and thrown them aside after playing for a few days, but only this "Magic Word Card" child is particularly fond of it, and every time they play, they forget to eat and sleep.
This is because the magic word card is like opening a whole new fairy tale world. "Magic Word Card" is in line with children's thinking habits, don't say that children play, even if adults play this set of word cards, it is easy to be attracted to it, and enjoy it.
This set of "magic word cards" is ostensibly a set of cards for literacy purposes, and there is no difference from other word cards on the market or in bookstores, but if you look closely, it has an essential difference, it can also exercise children's creativity, thinking and concentration, the card is divided into two parts, partial and monolegues, so that children learn to think independently in the process of spelling, but also enhance concentration.
Secondly, this set of cards has a unique method for "literacy", it can dissolve a complex word into two simple words by splitting, for example, a sea word can be divided into water words and each word, so that children are easy to accept, and you can also play scrabble games with children, such as holding water words, so that children can find the other half of the suitable words, both to learn to recognize words and increase the child's ability to concentrate.
It is worth mentioning that in the process of playing, the child's left hand is holding the side, the right hand should look for appropriate monograms, the hands, eyes, and brains are synchronized and coordinated to think and cooperate, while playing spelling, the child's left and right brain development is also trained, and the concentration becomes stronger.
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