There are many idioms that have been misread by later generations
However, because of the misreading of the meaning, it is widely spread
Mistakes are mistakes and drown out their original meaning
For example, "Stupid"
The original intention was to avoid trouble by pretending to be stupid
It is beyond the reach of ordinary people
And it is rare to be confused and wise
It has also always been regarded as a kind of wisdom in life
It is true that being human is not necessary
Act so smart all the time
Don't be too clear about the account
Sima Qian said in the "Records of History", "The world is bustling, all for the benefit of the world, and the world is bustling, all for the benefit of the future." Whether it is with their own work units, customers, or with relatives, friends, colleagues and neighbors, people and people, there must be some interest relations.
Many times, leaving a little interest to others can be long-lasting, or for the sake of what they think is right in their hearts, they do affect or sacrifice a little self-interest, but in exchange for peace of mind, they are not lost.
Don't be too sharp-eyed
Some people have torch-like eyes and the potential of detectives, but for their closest family and friends, don't use searchlights and magnifying glasses anymore.
Especially in the recent past, because of the epidemic and the general work from home, many people's mood is a little anxious, the room is relatively day and night, and the shortcomings are exposed. The more such a time, the more you need to turn a blind eye, say more good, less provocative. Because, we ourselves are not perfect.
The ears can be carried a little
What if a person has "tailwind ears"? Every day, I will hear countless gossip from unknown sources, the evaluation of myself behind the backs of others, the private grievances of others... I'm just afraid that I'm going to be bored to death.
Especially when others talk about ourselves, our first reaction is to prick up our ears. If it is a false argument, it will not have much effect to immediately jump out and refute it, but it will appear to be angry and corrupt. If it's a compliment, don't get complacent. Because the wind direction of external speech will change at any time, as long as you are yourself, why should others take it seriously.
The memory doesn't have to be that good
Just like the weather, there are always sunny days and rainy days, and people's lives always have ups and downs. Those who have experienced people and things will make us grow, but those who make themselves regret and sad, the past will pass, the memory is not so good.
Li Qingzhao once sighed, "I am only afraid of the Shuangxi ship boat, and I can't carry many worries." On this road of life, the backpack on the back should be cleaned at any time, put down some, in order to be light.
The tongue doesn't have to be too clever
Being able to speak eloquently is an advantage, but as long as you speak the truth, the language of kindness, even if it is not so clever. "A gentleman wants to be sensitive to words and sensitive to deeds", if he speaks with a brilliant tongue, his actions do not match, but he falls into a hypocritical persona. If you encounter a misunderstanding, for people who do not know you, no matter how to argue, you may not necessarily believe, just explain the facts clearly, the other party has its own judgment. If you encounter a dispute of words and tongues, with sharp teeth to gain the upper hand, the other party is ashamed and angry, and the contradiction will escalate.
Wisdom on the outside and foolishness on the inside, foolishness in reality;
Outer foolishness and inner wisdom, great wisdom also.
So
A man of great wisdom and foolishness
You can see which is more important than the other
Spend your time honing your true skills
Ignore the emotions that sway us
But it's actually something that doesn't really matter
May everyone be able to grasp every day of their lives
Have this wisdom awareness
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