The name of the "scavenger mother" is Zhang Fei, who has been an abandoned baby since she was a child, and when she was just born, she was quietly left in the desert by her parents. Luckily, she met one of the nobles in her life, and that was the adoptive mother who raised her. Her adoptive mother did her best to give her meticulous care and attention, but she only accompanied her for a short time.
When Zhang Fei was about eight years old, her adoptive mother died of illness. At this time, Zhang Fei is like a child who has been completely abandoned by this world, a person alone in the wind and rain, it is difficult to imagine how an eight-year-old child can live alone in this miserable world.
"The children of the poor family have long been home", Zhang Fei was not affected by the blow of reality, but used all her courage and perseverance to fight against the world, and stubbornly ran forward with the willpower of "my life is up to me".
Day by day passed like water, and in the blink of an eye, the little girl who had been scattered in the wind and dust had grown up. When Zhang Fei was 26 years old, she adopted the first abandoned baby in her life, and the encounter with the abandoned baby was also a fate. Zhang Fei picked up the child near her adoptive mother's house, and since the baby girl was an abandoned child like herself, she named her "Wu Min".
She wants to be like her adoptive mother, passing on this care and love for abandoned babies. In Zhang Fei's bones, she has hidden the feelings and spirit of love and helpfulness, which has allowed her to help more children abandoned by her parents in her later life.
In 1982, Zhang Fei's family had a very poor life because of the presence of Wu Min. She had to take Wu Min around looking for a job and a way to earn money, and in such a time period, Zhang Fei met the second abandoned baby in her life.
This made the days that were not rich again, but Zhang Fei did not care about these things at all, and regardless of the external conditions, he took in many children one after another. On the way to work in the future, as long as you see or hear the cries of children and look at their abandoned bodies, you can't help but go forward, pick them up with loving hands, and take them back to your home. From the second child to the third child, from the third to the later, there are many, without exception.
At the age of youth and beauty, in fact, I could have found a family to marry well, but Zhang Fei's choice surprised us, she said: "If I don't raise them, the children will not be able to live." With such an attitude, even if a familiar friend gives her a list of objects, it is difficult to hold hands and succeed.
Because Zhang Fei's family still has a group of children who need her care, and the request made by the blind date is to let her send the children away, Zhang Fei is not willing to do anything. Perhaps, for Zhang Fei, the growth of the children is inseparable from her meticulous care, and this importance is better than the happiness of her own marriage and even the second half of her life.
Watching the child grow up day by day, watching the smiles gradually blooming on the children's faces, she also enjoyed blossoming in her own heart, which should be a different kind of harvest.
Because the number of children is increasing, zhang Fei is only busy with her livelihood later. As for her marriage, she didn't seem to take it to heart. The financial burden made Zhang Fei unbearable, and she did not think about remarrying, but every day she thought about how to earn money and how to let her adopted children eat enough.
Because if you still want to marry, it is to increase the financial burden on others, which will drag others down. Now she sometimes doesn't pick up much garbage at the end of the day, but life has to go on, and in the face of this embarrassing situation, Zhang Fei has to step on the bottom of her face and go door to door to find the vendors on credit.
In fact, there are still more well-meaning people in the world, many small traders see Ms. Zhang Fei's good deeds in fact, they do not want to see children hungry, as long as Zhang Fei comes to ask for help, most people are happy to help.
It doesn't hurt to live a smooth day by day, but not every kindness can be exchanged for the healthy growth of a child. The implication is that some of the abandoned babies that Zhang Fei picked up are not so sound. Some children suffer from congenital diseases or some genetic diseases, which makes Zhang Fei feel overwhelmed for a while.
Watching the children grow up day by day, but the disease was not healed for a day, the stone in Zhang Fei's heart was difficult to land on the ground, and it was always spinning in mid-air. Zhang Fei thought to herself that the children's illness could not be dragged on forever, which might be more serious in the future, but her family situation was indeed difficult to support this huge treatment cost. In the case of helplessness, Zhang Fei had to go to some organizations and institutions in society to seek help.
It was January 18, 2013, and Zhang Fei took her children to Guangzhou, the capital of Guangdong Province. She traveled to the city with her 4 children, who suffered from different diseases and different types. Zhang Fei wants to seek opportunities to treat her children in this city, even if the possibility is small, she must seize the last straw.
The city is bustling with traffic and people, everyone is running back and forth for their families and careers, and few people will learn about the deeds of "scavenger mothers". However, even if she encountered all kinds of suffering and obstacles, Zhang Fei never thought of giving up. She travels from children's hospitals and charities to and from one place to another, believing that if she doesn't give up, she will be able to meet the organizations or groups that help them.
After continuous efforts, more and more people have learned how the "scavenger mother" Zhang Fei has come over the years, and the Yangcheng Evening News has also reported on the deeds of the "scavenger mother". In this way, Zhang Fei has truly entered the public's field of vision. As a result, many media and organizations have given financial support and support to Zhang Fei's small family, but with it there are also questions about Zhang Fei's personal practices.
Where does this skepticism come from? Although with the help of the media and many other organizations, the four children's illness has been alleviated, but the society has a certain degree of doubt about Zhang Fei. This is because, a week before the children were treated, a tragedy occurred in the "folk welfare home" in Lankao, Henan.
Yuan Li is a caring person who is as helpful as Zhang Fei, and whenever he encounters children who have difficulties or are abandoned by their parents in life, he will also take this group of children on his own. However, the tragedy lies in the sudden fire that caused the lives of 7 children to disappear from the world.
So many people think that it is Yuan Li who is not taking care of him properly, not strictly guarding, of course, more is his own reasons, to blame his own negligence. Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone is deliberately making mistakes. Some disasters, once they occur, are difficult to change.
If the beginning of all acts of kindness is avoided in order to prevent mistakes from happening again, I think that is the most rewarding. We should learn from Yuan's experience, so as to reduce the possibility of future tragedies.
Because of this tragedy, the staff of the institution wanted Zhang Fei to send all the children she took in to the welfare home, so as to give the children a better life guarantee, on the other hand, the welfare home has a higher risk of children's accidents, which is much better than raising individuals at home.
This news is difficult for Zhang Fei to accept from the heart. Children are the spiritual pillar of Zhang Fei's life, and she is also accustomed to the children's daily companionship. Such a sudden decision put Zhang Fei's emotions on the verge of collapse.
She has been assuring the staff of the welfare home that she can take care of these children alone, because the sense of truth she has built up with the children in the past two decades is inseparable. And Zhang Fei herself also stressed that she is not Yuan Qiang, and the same tragedy will not happen a second time.
Zhang Fei stubbornly left the children around according to her own wishes. In an interview, Zhang Fei said: "In the past few years, many people have come to me. They wanted me to send my children to a welfare home where living conditions were better than home and where the children could go to school.
But I didn't send the children over, I didn't want the children to look at other people's faces in the future, I didn't want my children to be ridiculed by others in the future, I just wanted to give them a home. Just a few words, let people feel very helpless and deeply moved. This is just a small wish of a mother, although it is not a biological mother, but it is better than a biological mother, because the warm love is quietly revealed in the words.
With the media coverage of the deeds of "Scavenger Mother", more and more people across the country have learned about her life and story. Many friendly people have begun to organize fundraising activities. As little as ten pieces, as many as a hundred pieces, slowly accumulated together, Zhang Fei got a lot of charity.
This is because in the face of the persuasion of the staff of the welfare home, Zhang Fei is not moved, and she is still unwilling to send the children to the welfare home. In this case, the staff had to come up with this way to help Zhang Fei. After all, the heart of caring for children will not change, whether the children are at home or in the welfare home, the staff and Zhang Fei are always a heart, and they all hope that the children will grow up healthy and healthy.
In addition to the help of caring people, after the government learned about the living conditions of "scavenger mother" Zhang Fei and her children, it also gave a subsidy of 3,000 yuan, hoping to reduce the burden of some living expenses for this small family.
In fact, these aid payments have played a minimal role in Zhang Fei's small family. Once, the reporter interviewed Zhang Fei again, Zhang Fei said: "My family counts me a total of 10 people, and the daily expenses add up to a minimum of 6,000 a month." But the government's subsidy is only 3,000 yuan, according to this calculation, we still have a gap of 3,000 yuan per month. ”
The reporter continued to ask Zhang Fei, wondering why she was reluctant to confess her suffering to the government and then apply for a higher subsidy amount. Zhang Fei's reply was: "Always asking others for money, this kind of behavior is not very good, it will embarrass yourself." This should be her personal thought, perhaps Zhang Fei has a proud bone herself and is unwilling to put down her body to ask for help.
The children are growing up day by day, and several of them have grown into adults. In addition to the family who has left the house, she and 9 children are left in the house. So far, "scavenger mother" Zhang Fei has successfully raised 28 children she picked up.
She was a great mother who gave up her entire youth and ran day and night on the road to the rescue of abandoned children. According to the saying that "there must be retribution for grace", Zhang Fei's later life should be able to be rewarded by many children. However, the final outcome is staggering.
After leaving home, the children have the ability to survive in this world and no longer need Zhang Fei's care. However, as long as it is a departed child, more than half of them have not heard from them. I don't know if I want my mother to worry too much about my own situation, or if I have lived a happy and happy life, but I just don't want to recognize this elderly "scavenger".
No matter what the reason, as an adoptive mother, Zhang Fei's heart is full of mixed feelings. Later, Zhang Fei did not complain about anything, but often said optimistically: "I only hope that they can live in this world in peace, and I do not expect them to return me with heavy money and live a good life by themselves, and I am already very satisfied."
Zhang Fei's love for children's heart has never changed, and from this moment on, we seem to have a new understanding of love. Love, regardless of gender, age, family situation, as long as Zhang Fei's heart is full of those children, there will be no regrets in this life.
For the disappearance of children after adulthood, Zhang Fei believes that it is the common sense of people, after all, most people are very ordinary. However, it is enough to really break the contact, and some children actually reach out to Zhang Fei for money after leaving home.
Some people said that the cost of living is not enough, hoping that Zhang Fei can pay some, some children want to buy a car, but the funds on hand are not enough, I heard that the mother has received some social support, and wants to take some money from the mother's hand. Zhang Fei heard the children's cries and expressed her helplessness, but she had to give them money.
Because in her heart, the people who are worried about her are always children. In the face of the children's "cry for help", Zhang Fei's soft heart made her extend a helping hand.
As mentioned earlier, Zhang Fei's first child was called "Wu Min". After this child became an adult, he almost never had contact with Zhang Fei again. But not long ago, he suddenly called to say that his child was sick and in urgent need of a sum of money for treatment. However, I am relatively tight on hand, and I do not have enough money for the time being.
Zhang Fei's first adopted child was naturally the most impressive and the deepest feelings. Zhang Fei could not bear the suffering of her children, and eventually lent them money. Now Zhang Fei is about to enter the door of 70 years old, more than forty years after her first adopted child. Among all the adopted children, not everyone will only "nibble on the old", and 6 people will send some items to Zhang Fei's home every New Year's Festival, which is a kind of reward for Zhang Fei's nurturing grace over the years.
"The sheep have the grace of kneeling, and the crow has the righteousness of feeding back", everyone should have good thoughts, and for those who have helped us, we should do our best to give a certain reward. Whether you are poor or rich, the grace of the dripping water should be repaid by the spring.
Zhang Fei dedicated her life to the children, and when she was sixty or seventy years old, she still did not stop taking care of the children. Watching the children she raised with her own hands leave from her side one by one to go farther away, her heart still has some reluctance.
It feels like a forest you've worked so hard to cultivate, and then suddenly disappears from your own world. Perhaps this feeling is difficult for people to accept for a while, but as long as they think that they can live better than they are now in the future, perhaps Zhang Fei does not have so many regrets in her heart.
After all, children will grow up one day, and one day they will find something suitable for them to soar into the world. If I can come back to see Zhang Fei from time to time in the future, I think I will not waste this nurturing grace.
Summary: People are a kind of creature with feelings and righteousness, and in the face of many choices, Zhang Fei insists on his rescue trip as always. She always has a compassionate and optimistic heart, and has never flinched or given up in the face of ups and downs. If the "Mother Wu" who adopted Zhang Fei was still there, I think she would be proud of what Zhang Fei is doing now.
Because Zhang Fei passed down the heart of the world in "Mother Wu", she raised the abandoned babies she picked up one by one and gave them material and spiritual care. "Scavenger Mother" Zhang Fei is the object of our public's admiration, and she deserves to be respected by everyone.