Zheng Yijian insisted on not living with his parents, buying a mansion and asking 3 nannies to take care of the elderly, was he filial enough?
On March 21, a Hong Kong media reporter photographed Zheng Yijian traveling with his parents, and he had a habit of visiting his parents every week and taking them home shopping and buying food.
At the beginning, the media seized on his public statement that he was "unwilling to live with his parents" and the matter was infinitely magnified, and the reason why he wanted to stay away from his parents was also because living with his parents would always quarrel over some small things, and Zheng Yijian completely moved out of this home.
In order not to hurt the foundation of the feelings, he bought a mansion for his parents, hired 3 nannies to take care of the daily life of the old couple, came to visit regularly every week, his way of treating his parents seemed to be Sun Wukong, advocating escaping from this home, he loved his parents but did not want to be bound and swayed, greatly avoiding quarrels, and now he married his daughter-in-law but had no intention of having children.
On the other side, parents do not urge to hold their grandchildren, in ancient times, it was said that raising children without queens was the biggest filial piety, it is estimated that Zheng Yijian's parents also know their son's determination to do one thing, he identified a thing, who to dissuade it is useless, the old two know that the son does not want to have children, so they also respect the meaning of the son.
Zheng Yijian's wife Meng Jiahui treats the second elder very intimately, like a small cotton jacket to accompany the second elder to talk and laugh, in the early years of Zheng Yijian opened a concert, Meng Jiahui will also buy a ticket to take the second elder to sit in the front row to watch Zheng Yijian sing.
He gives many young people a direction, do their own at the same time can also love their parents, some people are Nezha, repay the parenting grace of their parents is to cut the flesh and return to the mother, he can not not listen to his parents, when he really wants to be himself, he will feel indebted in his heart, had to transfer all the property he earned to his parents, take this as the price of disobedience, in order to seek psychological balance.
Every way is correct, Zheng Yijian's way is just to live the life he yearns for, but does not delay being a filial piety child, about filial piety, which approach do you support?