In fact, there are only four words in a person's life, to be a person and do things! However, doing things as a person is never a simple thing.
Thanks to the private message of "Liu Xiaoqi" this friend, gave me a new writing point, starting from this article, we began a new series of "12 constellations of the most cheap behavior", which is a series to be sprayed ~ ~ ~
If people want to realize their own value, establish good interpersonal relations, create their own beautiful family, and maintain stable survival indicators, then they cannot act willfully.
Some things can be done, some things must not be done, the new series is written in the order of the constellations, let's start with Aries.
01—Don't think about it, open your mouth and come
This feature is often reflected in young Aries people, this kind of Aries has a characteristic of speaking, what to say, after the exit to see the situation, found that there is nothing to continue to say, if you find that the face of the people around you is not right, you will pretend to be okay.
This kind of behavior is easy to provoke others, and it will also give the people around them a condition to redefine the Aries: "Talking nonsense, it can't become an atmosphere." ”
In this way, it is laborious and unflattering, and it is possible to provoke others and not be looked up to.
The maturity of the Aries also has a more obvious feature, and the Aries that do not talk nonsense are close to maturity.
On the other hand, those who have the ability to do things well are undoubtedly not people who speak cautiously, and in addition to not being easy to annoy people, they will not expose their weaknesses.
This is both the key to protecting yourself and the key to staying in relationships.
If the Aries can be cautious and act quickly and quickly, then there will be a strong guarantee on the way forward.
02—Self-circle, small family temperament
Everything is based on oneself, only thinking about oneself, that will inevitably ignore the needs and feelings of others, only for themselves and not care about others, which is also another core problem that Aries is prone to be plotted by villains.
No matter in any circle, but if you have been in contact with people in the circle for a few days, then you will have a superficial understanding of them, although the understanding is superficial, but it must be useful.
There are two kinds of people in the circle who are most likely to be excluded, one is the person who can highlight himself in particular, and the other is the selfish person, and the person who mixes up in the circle is often the person who is the most confused.
Pretending to be confused can be said to be a kind of wisdom, but in fact this kind of behavior is simply hiding yourself in the dark of the circle, not self-ego, and often "thinking" about others.
Regardless of whether this consideration is true or not, people still believe in their eyes and feelings.
If Aries can grasp this logic, it will naturally be handy in the circle, after all, Aries has a strong sense of action and righteousness, and it is not difficult to win people's hearts.
03—Impulsive and reckless, self-seeking
Aries is in a similar state when doing things and talking, talking is what to think and say, doing things is done first and then saying, this concept will give people a feeling of unsafe and hidden dangers.
Then if you fail to do something, or provoke someone else, it will leave a mess, and if it can be intact, the mess may not plant any time bomb for the Aries.
But if the Aries doesn't clean up the mess, the mess is the Aries time bomb, what was originally a good thing, and finally turned into a bunch of bad things, originally only to do one thing, and finally to do several things.
This is all caused by impulsive recklessness, if people around them see Aries like this, it is inevitable that they will have this kind of thought in their hearts: "Good things do bad things, and it may be difficult to become big things."
When the people around them have this kind of cognition of the Aries in their hearts, it is obvious that they will not have any sense of trust in the Aries, nor will they think that the Aries is reliable and reliable.
This is obviously the Aries himself let himself be cheap, although the personality is simple and pure, but the negligence caused by reckless impulses will bring trouble to the people around him.
04—Mu Qiang is weak, let people look down
The strong, almost everyone appreciates, everyone likes, but do not misunderstand the meaning, people like the strong of the strong, not like the strong person.
It's a very simple truth, if you have billions, how many people do you see saying you're not handsome, saying you're not pretty?
The reality is very realistic, but we must not alienate those around us who are weaker than the strong, everyone has their own value, this concept of value is unique and unique.
Although the reality is very cruel, people still cannot accept being clearly identified as weak, and being alienated by people because of the label of weak.
When facing the strong, you can show respect and appreciation, but you can't be too "greedy" in the group to show your own ideas, such as too much lifting of the strong, not taking the weak in the eyes.
This kind of behavior will be defined as snobbish around, lifting up a person, provoking a group of people, and this kind of thing is obviously not possible.
The consequences are naturally obvious, the reason why the strong are called strong is precisely because they know how to take care of the value of the weak, which is the concept of the group.
Instead of disregarding the group to take care of a person who lifts himself.
05-3 points of heat, difficult to maintain
When encountering failure, especially a strong failure, if you fall down and give up, it is obviously not the behavior of the strong, and when you are strong, you are strong and never give up.
As for why the strong will persist, because the strong have their own beliefs.
People do not have their own beliefs, they themselves have lost a part of the value, the Aries is afraid of being poured cold water, a little bit of cold water, the Aries is not willing to lose, once it is poured with more cold water at once, the Aries sheep thinks of giving up.
The reason for giving up is also very simple, feel that your self-esteem has been frustrated, in fact, self-esteem is also included in the value, if you encounter a big failure, then you should not give up, and you should not admit defeat.
Instead, we must continue to move forward, think before and after plotting left and right, and strive to complete things.
This characteristic of the Aries is reflected in many things, it is denied and disappears, and for example, when you are in love, you pursue people, and you are greatly splashed with cold water and give up.
Don't you know that this kind of behavior will make the other party more sure that "you are 3 minutes of heat, and you have not taken away your heart at all."
If things have reached this point, there is basically no hope, because the Aries has not left a way back for itself.
These behaviors of Aries have a lot to do with their innate personality and thinking, if an Aries can not realize these problems before middle age, then when facing survival alone, when fighting against various rules of the real environment alone, it will face the fact of being suppressed.
This will make the Aries more depressed, and it will also make the Aries more difficult to adapt to the various rules of reality, and it is something that the Aries does not want to accept.
Then if you want to be happy in various environments, you must first adapt to the environment, adapt to the environment is to find out the rules of the environment, first protect yourself, and then do the planning later, if the first step can not be done, then the hidden dangers of the back road will be more difficult to solve.
Aries, you must believe in yourself, this is the belief, both to be brave to be yourself, but also to properly protect yourself.
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