Nowadays, the communication between teachers and parents is very convenient, only one "parent group" is needed, and all problems will be solved.
However, while the parent group brings us convenience, it also brings us a lot of trouble.
As the saying goes, the forest is big, and there are birds.
There are too many parents in the parent group, and it is inevitable that there will be some people who are not accustomed to it.
If parents are in the group and do not pay much attention to their own image, it is very likely to cause trouble for themselves and their children.
Zhang Xingxing's father played big this time, and publicly "offended" the teacher, and the result was Barbie Q:
Zhang Xingxing's father can be said to be a very famous "Internet celebrity parent".
Unlike other parents, Zhang Xingxing's father's speech is always to the point. Whether it is when there is a conflict between parents or a conflict between children, he always dares to say it.
But in fact, Zhang Xingxing's father's directness is not only reflected here, even when the teacher speaks, if there is any question, he will speak bluntly.
And it is precisely because of this that Zhang Xingxing's father has also offended many people.
If it is only to offend the parents, it is actually fine, but sometimes Zhang Xingxing's father's fear of the earth will inevitably offend the teacher.
On this day, Zhang Xingxing did not go to school, so the unknown teacher had to come to the group to ask Zhang Xingxing's father, what is going on?
Zhang Xingxing's father explained that the child was sick and was busy taking care of the child and did not notify the teacher in time.
Hearing that the teacher here was a little angry, he asked him why he did not tell himself in advance, and as a result, Zhang Xingxing's father actually answered the teacher directly, saying that he had no way to predict that the child was sick, nor could he say it in advance.
Although his explanation seems to be nothing wrong, in the group, he directly rebuked the teacher, so that the teacher could not get off the stage.
But in fact, Zhang Xingxing's father has not been the first time to the teacher.
The last time Zhang Xingxing was late, the teacher couldn't help but ask why in the group, and as a result, Zhang Xingxing's father not only did not give a reasonable explanation, but told the teacher that he should not take care of it.
Although the teacher was very angry, he still suppressed his anger and did not say anything more.
But this time, Zhang Xingxing's father finally got rid of it.
Originally, the teacher was going to discuss some children's problems with him, and he nodded his avatar with his hand, and it turned out that the pat was written like this.
In a fit of anger, the teacher kicked Zhang Xingxing's father out of the group.
Personal Analysis:
Sincerity and directness are not shortcomings, but the directness regardless of the occasion will only become unqualified and low emotional intelligence.
All along, many people have called Zhang Xingxing's father "sober in the world" because of his dare to say and dare to do. There are even many people who say that they like Zhang Xingxing's father's directness.
But in fact, as a parent, it is better to speak cautiously in the parent group, too direct will inevitably give people a feeling of disrespect.
Especially when getting along with the teacher, if you still don't pay attention to your words and deeds, it will leave a very bad impression on the teacher and easily bring trouble to your children.
If you really want to veto some of the teacher's words, it is not impossible to adopt some more "high emotional intelligence" methods.
This not only saves face for the teacher, but also can express his own ideas, and can also leave a good impression.
Although the teacher kicked Zhang Xingxing's father out of this behavior, it seems very inappropriate.
However, for such a parent who often disturbs the order in the group, as the teacher of the group leader, it is also natural to give some punishment.
If all the parents are like Zhang Xingxing's father, the order in the group will inevitably be chaotic.
Parents speak in the group, what should they pay attention to?
Parents should be clear that the parent group is used to communicate with parents and teachers.
For some things that have nothing to do with us, there is no need to express our opinions in the group, which not only cannot solve the problem, but may even cause trouble for ourselves.
In addition, whether it is for the parents in the group or for the teachers in the group, when we speak, we should grasp the measure and give each other enough respect.
No matter what kind of speech we make, we should consider before sending it, what kind of impact this passage will have on the sending, and how the other party will feel.
Otherwise, we can easily become the kind of people that make teachers and other parents very disgusted, and one day we will usher in the same fate as Zhang Xingxing's father, not to mention, and may also pit our own children.
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