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There is not just one moon, but many. Each culture has its own moon. Therefore, in order to try to understand the moon in the view of previous generations, we must try to get rid of all known knowledge of the moon.
—Berndebrenner
When we talk about "understanding", what does understanding mean? Why is it so difficult to understand a person?
It is not difficult to understand an article, because the text can be seen at a glance, no matter what emotions the author has behind the text, it is implemented into the text itself, and after the typography is formed, there will be no more changes.
It is difficult to understand, and it is difficult to understand a person.
People's emotions are changing, and people's hearts are not open to the outside, and in such a situation, no one is sure to say that they know another person, even the person who is closest to him or her.
The sentences Written by Bernd reminded me that there is still a layer of difficulty in understanding a person.
This difficulty is not so much caused by the secrecy of others as by our own prejudices.
This prejudice is very, very deep, it is caused by the educational, cultural, intellectual influence we have received, and when a person forms a certain inherent idea, it is difficult for him or her to understand another person.
The difficulty lies in how to let go of your own ideas.
Everyone has their own stubbornness, because of this relatively unchanging cognition, people and talents will be different.
How do you ask one person to let go of one's own values and understand another person? It's like letting a lion imagine what it's like for a fish to swim in the water.
But we have to say that there are people in this world who are willing to put an effort into this, try to put down their own value system, and understand the world of another person.
This understanding is either motivated by professional needs, such as negotiators and psychologists, or out of the need for love, such as parents' concern for their children's physical and mental development.
Nevertheless, understanding between people is still difficult.
From this understanding, we can also explore what "love" is.
The word love may seem like a good feeling at first glance, but when we actually do it, we will find that the action of love means the action of hard work.
One of the things is that loving someone means trying to understand him or her, and we can even say that without understanding, there is no love at all.
Understanding a person means total self-forgetfulness, which is the essence of love.
When we talk about understanding, we seem to be talking about a great personality quality, which is of course good, and if there is none, it does not affect anything.
But what if we're talking about "love"? Is love dispensable?
It's worth thinking about.
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