Perhaps it is the genes left by our ancestors, we have a natural preference for houses.
In a strange place, with a house, it is not considered to be adrift, and when you have money, then buy a few more houses and feel at ease.
Many people spend their lives struggling with their houses just to get their bodies and minds to go.
In the recent TV series "Heart Residence", Haiqing, as the main actor, began to buy a house again, and suddenly remembered that Haiqing was a woman who broke her heart for the house in "Snail Residence" and "AnJia".
And every time you "buy a house", it will resonate with a large number of people, especially women.
What makes the "Haiqing" fight for the house all their lives? Watching TV and thinking about life, I think there are several reasons:
1. Buying a house to ensure a sense of security
In contrast, women are more likely to be insecure, especially in conventional marriages, the house is purchased by default, some women will take the initiative to ask for a name, but more women will feel that they have not funded and do not open such a mouth.
In the chicken and garlic after marriage, when quarreling, it may be rushed to talk, and it will be said by many parties like a tenant.
Moreover, many women have nothing to do with themselves after their relationship is broken, and they either have to seek perfection for the house or have nothing.
So, owning a house with its own name is a form of women seeking security.
2, buy a house is more confident
In "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, is a foreign daughter-in-law, and when she first got married, her husband told her that there were two elderly people in the family to take care of, so she resigned.
In the eight years at home, she has dedicated all her youth to the family, just like the lubricating oil of this family, leaving her has the meaning of not moving.
Although in the eyes of others, Feng Xiaoqin from abroad marries a local, even if the other party is not as good as himself, he also has a home in the local area, that is, he has earned.
But Xiaoqin always felt that she had not stood on her feet.
It is said that her sister lives in her own home, which is also to see people's faces, and the relatives of the husband's family actually want her sister to work as a nanny for her own family.
In Xiaoqin's view, this is nakedly looking down on.
She wants to own her own house, her sister can live as she wants, without gossiping about others or looking at other people's faces.
This is the confidence that belongs to the house.
In some other film and television dramas, many women insist on buying a house, but also in order to have such a confidence, such as different from the in-laws' habits, living alone can be more comfortable.
3, buy a house can not be on the life
Anyone who has rented a house knows that when buying things, it is always for convenience, not the quality of life.
In "Thirty Only", Wang Manni's income is not low, but she has never had a water dispenser, because it is inconvenient to move.
Yes, renting means that there is a kind of uncertainty, it may be a rent that you can't afford suddenly, or it may be a landlord's sudden change of plans.
In short, everything will change temporarily, and then make your life turbulent.
I vividly remember that when I was renting a house, I wanted to buy a vase, but considering that the move might break, I never bought it.
How much can a vase cost?
But it is a luxury for renters.
For Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence", it is probably the same feeling, after all, the house they live in now is the original house of the husband's family, and the design, structure, and even furniture of the house are all established.
When a large family lives together, it is impossible to add too many things that you like.
But having your own house, from decoration to decoration, you can choose what you like.
This is a very meaningful thing.
Although the house cannot represent the home, the house will indeed improve some living conditions, which is why the "Haiqing" are stubborn to the house!