Someone once said that the most terrible thing in this world is not the little man who comes in plain sight, but the hypocrite that you can't see through.
The so-called "open gun is easy to block, dark arrow is difficult to defend." "No matter how terrible the villain is, it is only a villain who is consistent in appearance, and it is not a big deal." And no matter how kind a hypocrite is, he is like a poisonous snake after all.
In the workplace, in fact, everyone has met a "hypocrite".
These people, don't look at them as being particularly kind on the surface. But in fact, their kindness is just to cover up the darkness of the heart, and the hypocrisy is to the extreme.
Dealing with villains is actually fine, at least we know who they are and can quickly develop strategies. But it's particularly difficult to deal with people who are different in appearance, because we can't even recognize who they are.
A Greek philosopher lamented that human beings seem simple, but they are the most complex creatures in nature.
Simple, just appearance. Complexity is closely related to the human heart. That little human heart contains tremendous energy, enough to bring the most hypocritical side of human nature to value.
In real life, there are three kinds of people, and the superficial kindness is to cover up the inner darkness, which is particularly difficult, and it is necessary to be vigilant.
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The first type of person: see the wind make the rudder of the wall grass.
There is a folk saying: "The grass on the wall, where the wind blows, run to which side." ”
In fact, the grass-like figures can be divided into three types, one is the opportunistic weak, one is the sinister person who is as vicious as a snake, and the other is the evil wolf who sits and watches the success or failure.
These three kinds of people are actually particularly terrible.
In the workplace struggle, although some people are very weak, they just like to "turn" to others everywhere, and they will cause a lot of trouble. At critical times, these people slipped faster than rats and could not be relied upon at all.
In addition, it is the hypocrites who are too cruel and vicious, don't look at them everywhere to flatter others, but they have a characteristic, that is, "anti-devouring" masters, easy to do anti-guest-oriented things.
Lü Bu in the Three Kingdoms is such a person. As long as you see that others have strength, you will recognize others as righteous fathers. However, as soon as others decay, they will take their place, especially ruthless and terrible.
The last type of wall grass, we can call it "wall riding school". What is the "Wall Riding Faction"? That is the person who is accustomed to sitting and watching success or failure, and then falling into the well.
No matter where they are, these "wall-headed" characters will emerge endlessly. And we need to be prepared not to let them take advantage of the loophole.
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The second type of person: the person who is extremely stoic.
In this world, there is a kind of person who is the most terrible, that is, the person who "endures to the extreme".
It's normal to be patient for the sake of small things. In the face of life, who can not bow their noble heads? Ordinary people who are reclusive can only achieve ordinary careers.
It's normal to be patient for the sake of big things. The so-called "lying down to taste the guts". In order to achieve a career, even if you temporarily bow down in front of others, you will not hesitate. Such people must not get too close.
Above these two kinds of people, there is also such a person - a ruthless person who is moody and angry, and who is extremely stoic.
As long as many people suffer losses, their faces will be immediately revealed, which is what we often call "moody and angry" ordinary people. Interacting with them is not a big problem.
On the contrary, some people have suffered losses, but they still have a smile on their faces, their faces do not change color, and you cannot guess what they are thinking. Such people are often extremely dangerous.
Just like killing the master's Gou Jian and Sima Yi at any time, who can coexist with them for a long time?
The most terrifying thing in this world is not the tiger that can move at any time, but the wolf who waits and endures at the same time. A surprise attack is the most terrifying place for the white-eyed wolf.
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The third kind of person: a hypocrite with a thick face and a black heart.
I don't know when it started, we all respect the "thick face and black heart" quality of life. If there are many people with thick faces and dark hearts, I believe that we will not live a stable life.
Dealing with a person who knows that his face is thicker than the city walls, no matter what you say, he is not moved, and even puts sugar-coated shells on you, which is not something that ordinary people can resist.
Dealing with a person who knows that his heart is darker than coal, no matter how you deal with it, he can do things that make you stunned, and there is no principle of being a person.
Like a tumbler, no matter how much you scold it, no matter how you target it, it just doesn't react. However, the moment you attack, it uses its strength to catch you off guard.
Liu Bei's face was thick enough, so countless bosses died. Cao Cao's heart was fierce enough, so he killed many people and sat firmly in the Wei State. Sun Quan learned a little bit about everything, so he secretly calculated cao cao and Liu Bei.
Don't take those who are hypocritical lightly, all hypocrisy is the beginning of intrigue and trickery.
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Write to the end
For the behavior of "hypocrisy", I believe that many people will think that only outsiders will do such things, and relatives will never become hypocritical.
Such thoughts are particularly easy to harm themselves. You must know that in the face of people's inferiority, in fact, there is no distinction between outsiders and relatives. Everyone can be a good person or a bad person. This requires us to polish our eyes to observe.
But it still has to be said that people work hard in the rivers and lakes, don't trust others too much, keep a heart eye for yourself, and leave some defenses for others. In this way, we can be wise to protect ourselves and be safe until we are old.
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