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When you think of actor Su Jin, what is the first thing that comes to mind?
It is the beautiful and capable anti-drug policewoman Ou Qingchun in "Never Look Away";
It is lin jingping, the noble and depressed wife of "Lan Yu";
It is Han Xinyu, a cold female doctor who will not hesitate to take revenge in "Witness";
It is the big sister Dajiang Ning in "Killing Wolf Flower" who is meticulous, introverted and calm, and uses extraordinary courage and wisdom to fight against the big sister of the Japanese Kou;
In fact, with the role of "Ou Qingchun" in "Never Look Away", Su Jin won the 18th China Television Golden Eagle Award for The Most Popular Actress Award by the Audience, and became a hit. She did not come from a professional actress background, but debuted as a model.
Perhaps because of this, the image she created on the screen is mostly cold, and some viewers say that she is a "woman like Qinglian." ”
This description is very appropriate, Su Jin is indeed a rare sober person, she does not live according to the world's vision, with the "Ou Qingchun" fire when she was only 24 years old, she has a lot of resources and youth to continue to consolidate in the acting career.
But she didn't.
There are many people who feel sorry for Su Jin, because she could have been popular, but she chose to give up her great future when her career was popular, and went to New Zealand to marry and have a child, fading out of the audience's sight.
When she returned, she was labeled a "single mother," and the talented showbiz scene had changed dramatically.
Guo Degang once asked her in the show, compared with the big hits when she debuted, is there a gap now?
Su Jin did not hesitate to "no", because she had only completed something that was more important to her than her career in life, so she did not feel any gap.
Su Jin with her son
01 Take the path you have chosen
Su Jin has always been the kind of person who once he chooses a path, he will fight for himself, before and now.
Born in 1974 in Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province, Su Jin was the only daughter of her family, and she was born with a beautiful face and a perfect figure since she was a child, and has always been the best among her peers.
Despite this, Su Jin, who has been pampered by her parents since childhood, is neither squeamish nor bullying.
She just wants to follow the path she has chosen.
18-year-old Su Jin
Su Jin is a person who worships knowledge and culture, and her original life plan for herself was to study for the college entrance examination and go to college.
But an unexpected experience changed her destiny.
Su Jin was originally taller than her peers since she was a child, and at the age of 16, she had grown into a big girl with a height of 174cm, and she could always be noticed at a glance when walking in the crowd.
When you laugh, the sweet dimples are charming, and when you don't laugh, you will be attracted by her unique melancholy temperament.
Early years Su Jin
In 1990, Su Jin, a high school graduate, was selected by a modeling agency and started her modeling career.
Although she had not been exposed to relevant training before, after becoming a professional model, Su Jin told herself to take this road well and rely on her own efforts and strength to go to a higher and better stage.
So she studied hard, in 1992 she was selected for the Zhejiang Province "Xidebao" model team, after which she went to Singapore with the team to perform; later after being introduced by friends, she went to Beijing to develop, originally she was still young at that time, her parents were reluctant to let her go.
But for the sake of her dreams, Su Jin went to Beijing at all costs.
Su Jin, 24 years old
But the path to pursuing your dreams is so easy. And the modeling industry seems to have unlimited scenery, in fact, how difficult it is to survive, after arriving in Beijing, Su Jin's modeling career is not good.
But she has never complained about the world, and the best capital for her is to be young and dare to fight.
After being frustrated in Beijing, she went south to Guangzhou.
Su Jin knows very well that to become a supermodel is not only to have a good body and a beautiful face, but also to have connotations, so that we can go further. So she walked the catwalk on the catwalk while studying English at Guangzhou University, and began to shoot TV and commercials.
Poster of "Chinese Model"
In 1993, Su Jin starred as a model in her first TV series "Chinese Model".
Su Jin plays two roles in the play, one is the heroine model Danya, and the other is the model coach.
For Su Jin, the experience is not beautiful, one is that the complex interpersonal relationship makes her headache, the other is that the meager remuneration makes her unable to see her head, and the most important thing is that as a model, she wants to go to the world stage.
But because of the basic height requirement of not less than 1.78cm, she literally cut off her dreams.
Su Jin
She knew that the model was a bowl of youth rice, and she could not walk on the catwalk all her life, and she began to plan for the future.
Su Jin strives to survive on the catwalk while working hard to find a better way out, while participating in various competitions.
In 1998, Su Jin participated in the advertising rising star competition of "Beauty in Flower City" in Guangzhou and achieved good results.
She originally thought that even if she couldn't go to the world stage, it would be nice to shoot more of her favorite commercials.
Su Jin with Zhao Baogang and Lu Yi
People often say: life will not fail everyone who loves her, you just have to work hard, God has its own arrangements.
Su Jin embarked on the model road at the age of 16, from Hangzhou to Beijing, and then from Beijing to Guangzhou, she has been on this road for eight years, these eight years of tempering let her see the truth of life, but also work harder to love it.
In the same year that she participated in the "Flower City Beauty Pageant" advertising competition, Zhao Baogang was also recruiting the heroine for "Never Look Away".
Su Jin did not expect to be so lucky, but he was shot by the god of luck and got the opportunity to become the heroine "Ou Qingchun".
Poster of "Never Look Away"
02 A corner of fame
You must know that Zhao Baogang was already a well-known director at that time.
From the family love drama "Longing", to "The Story of the Editorial Department", "Imperial City Roots", "Addiction", "East Sunrise and West Rain", "A Matter of Wind and Snow", these dramas are regarded as classics.
The people who can become the heroines of the dramas he directed are basically famous in one role. To be chosen by him, in a sense, is not far from success.
Originally, Zhao Baogang had already selected a group of actors in Beijing to audition, but he was not satisfied, so he wanted to go to Hong Kong to see.
But when passing through Guangzhou, he stayed here for a day. Because before he came, he had already asked the assistant director to come to Guangzhou in advance to recruit actors.
The assistant director inadvertently saw Su Jin's performance in "Chinese Model", so he recommended her to Zhao Baogang. But Zhao Bao just heard that the actor was a model and thought:
"What kind of drama can a model act?"
But out of respect, Zhao Baogang still agreed to see Su Jin, and when he saw him, he felt that Su Jin was very in line with the temperament of "Ou Qingchun", but he did not immediately decide, but told her to wait for his phone.
"Never Look Away" and Lu Yi stills
Zhao Baogang treated Su Jin just like the audience did to Ou Qingchun, and after a glance, he could no longer forget it. Although he still went to Hong Kong to interview other actors, they still lacked the unique temperament of "Ou Qingchun".
So in the end, he still dialed Su Jin's phone and confirmed that she had come to play the role of "Ou Qingchun".
This opportunity was the best opportunity for Su Jin to transform, and when it was not yet determined, there was no wave in her heart, because she did not think that she had to act in any drama at that time.
But this time the opportunity fell on her head, and she must act well, as she always said, and take the path she chose.
Sure enough! After the broadcast of "Never Look Away",
The actors who starred in the play were all red, especially Lu Yi and Su Jin, who became the "white moonlight" in the minds of many audiences for a while.
Su Jin was on fire.
Everywhere she went, people looked for her to take photos, to sign, if other stars may take advantage of the hot iron to strengthen their acting career, but Su Jin did not take advantage of the situation to pursue, she unexpectedly chose to give up her career and went to New Zealand to marry and have a child.
03 More important things
Originally, when the career was proud, it was two fortunate things in life to have love and realize the double harvest of career love.
The same is true for Su Jin.
At that time, the man who let Su Jin put everything down to pursue was an outsider who studied architecture, the two were acquainted and fell in love when she was in Guangzhou, and then her boyfriend was sent to Work in New Zealand, and she went to Beijing to develop.
In order to have no regrets, she chose to follow her boyfriend to live abroad during the upswing of her career, where they married and gave birth to a son, upgrading from a two-person world to a happy family of three.
Su Jin is an assertive woman, she never regrets her choice, she has always thought that she has just accomplished a woman in life, she feels more important than the career.
She can go abroad for her family or return to Beijing for her career.
Even if the status quo is far from the previous big red and purple.
In the eyes of others, it is a gap, in her view, it is just normal, she just needs to do what she thinks is right, play her favorite role, red is not red, fire is not hot, she does not care.
Still
After returning to the show business circle, Su Jin has successively starred in many film and television dramas such as "Dou E'e Grievance", "Plum Blossom Files", "Red Poppy", "Double Dart", "Witness", "Hometown Cloud", "Flying 24 Hours 3", "Oriental Casablanca", "Wolf Killing Flower", "Persuasion Group", "Obstetric Male Doctor" and so on.
Su Jin is a very low-key person, she lives like an invisible person outside of the drama, and she rarely exposes her life with her family.
Over time, there will be all kinds of gossip, including the news of divorce, to which Su Jin herself has never responded, which is also like her style, because she has always been a person who pays attention to her own heart.
However, the staff around her confirmed that she was really divorced, and some netizens saw her traveling alone with her son many times.
Regardless of whether this news is true or not, whether Su Jin has really become a single mother.
But in terms of the dynamics of her social platform, the way she educates her son, the relationship with her son, and her recording of his growth process can be seen that her son is a very sunny and warm child.
And for love, Su Jin's own attitude is always to believe, she believes that a true heart will be able to exchange for this unswerving, even if one day will break up, as long as the moment of saying the vow is sincere, it is enough.
For the child's concept of love, she will always have a respectful attitude, whether he marries a woman he likes to live a plain life, or lives alone for a lifetime of love, or any kind of life, as long as he enjoys and is happy, she supports it.
Su Jin's son
This is what Su Jin said to her son, and it is also her own attitude towards love.
Since her debut, she has always followed her own wishes, and insisted on her own choices and paid for her choices.
She wrote a sentence in her social account profile: "Satisfying the status quo, moving forward steadily, I am fortunate, I am lucky, I must also be lucky!" ”
For her, there is no regret, contentment, and even if she comes again, she will still make the same choice.
Doing everything and obeying the destiny of heaven is lucky to get, not to be allowed, not to be forced, this is great wisdom.
Mr. Yang Said: "The world is your own and has nothing to do with others. In the eyes of outsiders, Su Jin's choice to get married and have children when her career was popular was a kind of miss and regret, but for herself, this is a kind of happiness.
She knows that everyone has different requirements for their own lives, some people feel that career is important, they strive to pursue careers, some people feel that family is important, hope to have a happy home, have a healthy child and love their other half, so they run the family with their hearts.
Su Jin pursues the latter, so she is willing to go abroad for her family, and she is also willing to be a reading mother for her children.
In fact, Su Jin was the one who lived thoroughly.
Most of the time, most people live by the demands and standards of others. And Su Jin has always been calmly being herself.
She has always felt: "Name is for others to see, and when you reach a certain level, you will realize that there is no doubt, just satisfaction with vanity." The value of all is the ability to do what you love and benefit others. ”
Deeply believed, what success, what fame and fortune, are the standards of others, there is only one kind of real success, that is, to live a life in the way you like.
Finally, share a passage written by Haruki Murakami in "What Do I Talk About When I Run", let's encourage it
No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feelings are the right ones. No matter what others think, I never disrupt my own rhythm. What you like can naturally stick to, and what you don't like can't last.
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