Recently, I was asked by a reader: "Why do some people work very hard but mix very badly?" Is a person's fate really predestined? ”
When people are at a low ebb, they may have such a thought, knowing that they have worked very hard, why is life still a mess? Why is it so easy for others to make money, but they can only move bricks on the construction site, eat the worst meals, do the most tiring work, and get the least wages?
In fact, whether a person mixes well or badly has nothing to do with the so-called fate. Everything we have today was made by ourselves 10 years ago.
10 years ago, if you studied hard, maybe the white-collar workers sitting in the office building were you;
10 years ago, if you seized the opportunity to start a business, maybe today would not be so depressed;
10 years, it seems like a long time, but it is over in the blink of an eye! There is a saying that is very good, and it is also my motto, to share with you: the best time to plant trees is 10 years ago, followed by now!
Don't always focus on the wealth and happiness that others have now, but look at what others did before they had wealth. If you are living a very bad life now, you may wish to see if you have planted a heel in these 3 inferior roots of human nature.
1. Intermittent hesitation and ambition, continuous mixed eating and so on
In life, we see that many people work very hard every day, working and working overtime, but after many years, it seems that it is still the same. It even makes people wonder whether hard work can get rich in the end.
Here is a clear point, hard work is the basis of getting rich, hard work may not necessarily get rich, but laziness will definitely make the days poorer and poorer.
It is always difficult for people to get rid of the shackles of human nature, which is why we see that some people are very diligent, but their lives are not good. Because what you see is always the way he wants you to see.
People are good-looking, so they always show their best side, but the more face work is done, the more people will become floaty and their mentality will become more and more impetuous.
Their biggest problem is not too diligent, but too much pretending to be diligent, pretending to be very hardworking, but behind them is always eating and waiting for death mentality. Although this is a very difficult to say, I really hope that we can seriously reflect on our own lives, is it not like this.
If the work is not smooth at all, it will complain about the world, give up on itself, and when it makes a little achievement, it is hoped that people all over the world will know. This kind of inferiority of human nature, I hope you can really change it.
2, always want to find shortcuts
Another phenomenon is that the smart people in everyone's mouth are always high and low. At first, he was invincible, but over time he began to show a lack of stamina.
Smart and wise are actually two concepts, and people with little wisdom always like to be lazy and slippery, and do things with a mind to find shortcuts. Therefore, in dealing with some small things, the former will make people shine, while the latter always gives people a state of not being in a hurry.
The reason why it is not good to take shortcuts is not to say that we do not use efficient methods, we have to make stupid efforts, but there are always too many traps in shortcuts.
Just like the recent very popular online classes and communities, many traders are constantly advocating how effective their entrepreneurial methods are, and how to make people who follow him earn 100,000 yuan a month, or even millions a month. As a result, many people were taken to the pit, and some people paid 70,000 or 80,000 yuan for the registration fee alone.
In the end, the masters failed to help them achieve good results. When you are young, don't always think about eating a fat man in one bite, be down-to-earth, and the road can be wider and wider.
Most people who want to succeed by shortcuts have become leeks under the sickles of others!
3, fear of failure
Finally, the biggest reason why people are getting worse and worse or living a life less and less is that they can't control their inner fears, except for laziness and cleverness.
I have met many entrepreneurs, they always mention when introducing themselves: this is my last chance, if I fail I think I will never have the opportunity to start a business again, because I have put all my belongings on the pressure.
People who do things with this mentality will most likely fail, and they will be devastated after failure, and even the future days will be passed! There are two reasons for this:
The first point: the tolerance for failure is too low in the outside world, including relatives, friends and melon-eating people. If a person succeeds in starting a business at a young age, everyone will touch him in the sky, and all kinds of praise will continue to be heard.
Once they fail, many people will fall into the well and even say something that hurts the dignity of others. This lack of tolerance for failure has also made many young people afraid.
The second point: young people are too demanding of themselves, and when they think of starting a business, they want to be entrepreneurs and set up companies. To be honest, the current entrepreneurial environment is already very good, and any big money is accumulated from small money.
The fear of failure hinders our development and stifles our passion to do something. As an ordinary person, if your life does not want to become more and more mediocre, you must learn to work the inferiority of the above 3 human natures, overcome them, and we will be half successful!
The last paragraph is a very classic word to everyone, I wish you an extraordinary life!
When you put down your face to make money, it means that you have understood things;
When you use money to earn back face, it means that you have succeeded;
When you can make money with your face, it means that you are already a character
When you are still there drinking and bragging, pretending to understand nothing, and only loving the so-called face, it means that your life is like this!