Throwing valuables into the toilet, mom was moved when she knew why
Irene, a parenting expert, once said that children will bring you a lot of "surprises" in the process of growing up.
It should be noted here that this surprise is in double quotation marks, so it is said that the child will not only surprise you in the process of growing up, but also frighten you.
Ms. Wu has a four-year-old son, and this little guy is very mischievous and must be watched all the time.
On this day, Ms. Wu returned from work at noon, and after eating, she lay on the bed and hugged her son and told him stories.
Generally speaking, it is easier to fall asleep at noon, especially after eating a full meal. So Ms. Wu fell asleep telling the story.
Usually at home, the children's grandmother takes care of the children, and when Ms. Wu comes home at noon, her mother-in-law will let her watch the children, go to buy vegetables by herself, and prepare the food for the evening.
The grandmother was out, and the mother was asleep, but no one could take care of the child.
When Ms. Wu was drowsy, she heard the sound of rushing water coming from the toilet.
At first, she didn't care, and suddenly touched her side, and her son was not here.
Ms. Wu sat up with a carp and rushed into the toilet in an instant. But this scene in front of her made her completely stunned.
It turned out that her son threw her mobile phone and tablet computer into the toilet, and even the red envelopes received during the New Year were thrown into the toilet by the son.
She quickly picked up the phone and tablet in the toilet and threw the water on them vigorously.
Ms. Wu looked again, there was still a broken hundred yuan bill hanging on the wall of the toilet, and the mobile phone and tablet could not be washed away, but the money was washed away a few times, it was unknown.
So Ms. Wu took the red envelope in her son's hand and picked up the red envelope on the ground, and she clearly remembered that there was a total of one thousand yuan in it.
After pulling out all the wet money, Ms. Wu carefully counted it, a total of nine hundred yuan, plus a hundred yuan on the wall of the toilet, exactly one thousand yuan, fortunately there was no loss, which made her breathe a long sigh of relief.
Looking at his mother's panicked look, the son felt that he must have made a mistake, so he silently lowered his head.
Ms. Wu suppressed the anger in her heart, and she calmly asked her son, "Why did you put these things in the toilet?" ”
The son bowed his head and replied cautiously: "Mom, I see that you work too hard, and you are tired enough to fall asleep, so I will help you do housework." But the pool was too high for me to reach, so I had to wash it here. ”
After hearing these words, the anger in Ms. Wu's heart also disappeared by half, and it turned out that her son did not do this because he was mischievous, but wanted to help himself share the housework.
Although the child has done something wrong, but he is so young, what does he know?
So Ms. Wu patiently told her son why it was wrong to do this, and when she saw that her mother did not blame him, he smiled happily.
I think that if parents find out that their child has made a mistake, they must not immediately reprimand him, but ask him why he is doing it, it is likely that he has just done something bad.
Because the child's brain circuitry is different from that of adults, we should patiently guide him instead of criticizing him.
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