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The earliest origin of the Chu state is because King Cheng of Zhou was grateful for the contribution that The Bear had made to the Zhou Dynasty, so he sealed the great-grandson of the Bear in Jingman and built it in Danyang.
At that time, the culture of the Central Plains was developed, and the people of the Central Plains believed that the people of Chu were still in a state of ignorance, and even Zhou Tianzi took the lead in taking advantage of them verbally, mocking the Chu people as bird people, saying that they not only spoke as incomprehensible as birds, but also backward in culture like birds.
However, the Chu people did not try to be quick, and they single-mindedly managed their country under the leadership of Chu Jun.
In order to make the Chu state stronger, Chu Jun often wore tattered clothes and sat on a chai cart woven with thorns, leading his subjects to wade through mountains and rivers, open up territory, and share happiness and bitterness.
In this way, after decades of vigorous rule, the State of Chu gradually developed and grew, from a small fiefdom to a powerful princely state, so that it gradually developed into a country that did not dare to let the princely states in the Central Plains dare not underestimate.
Later, in the era of King Zhuang of Chu, he became the hegemonic state among the princely states.
From scratch, from small to large, this is the law of the development of everything in the world.
When I was writing about the history of the Chu state, I suddenly remembered that I had read Mr. Nan Huaijin's book that it seemed that the current Guangdong people were the descendants of the former Chu people, and the Cantonese spoken by the Cantonese people was the language of the Chu people.
I remembered a short video I had seen, which was to let people from all over the world imitate Cantonese people and say that "every country has its own national anthem."
I was imitating it with my son, and the sound was indeed like a bird's call, and the funny tone at that time made the two of us laugh.
But no matter what the tone of speech, Guangdong is now a relatively well-developed place in China, and even for a while, because of the popularity of Hong Kong films, Cantonese is also deeply loved by people.
What does this mean?
Explain that "heroes do not ask the source", as long as you are strong enough and good enough at the moment, then no matter how humble you have been born, how small the background is, as long as you are strong enough at the moment, then no one dares to underestimate you.
The experience of a country is like this, and a person who wants to get rid of a humble fate must go through the same process.
That is the road to constantly spurring yourself to become better and make yourself better, which is a path to success.
The same is true of educating children, that is, whether the child is good or not, you cannot give up the idea of making him better.
That is to say, do not simply measure the child's performance, but to help the child become a better person from all aspects.
Only when a person really develops in all aspects in a balanced way can he truly become a useful person.
In fact, if we look at many young people now, whether they have good grades or bad grades, you will find a problem, that is, many people do not even have the ability to maintain a normal and harmonious family.
So now it is being proved that many of the education taught thirty years ago was to seek defeat alone, to live only for themselves, and to have no successors.
This is to remind us that children must develop in an all-round way, and it is important to read well, but it is more important to be industrious and simple, tolerant and open-minded, and helpful.
Only with the ability to pay for others, but also the mental strength to pay for others, that can be like the earliest Chu Jun of the Chu Kingdom, although in the hard life, can still work with the subjects with hope, step by step to lay a solid foundation for the strength of the Chu State.
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It's just that in reality, probably because of urbanization, people live less and less space, children are also less, there is probably no more things at home that children can bear, or parents are not willing to let children do more things, so children in addition to working academic performance, the rest of the time can only pass the time on the Internet.
What kind of life will a child who will only learn from an early age and only play games on the Internet in his leisure time face?
Today, there are many young people who do not know how to cook, or do not like to cook, often eat unhealthy oily and salty takeaway food outside.
Facts are also proving that many diseases are getting younger and younger, which is not the evil consequence of not cultivating the ability to live from childhood?
As I write this, a friend whom my husband knows called and told me about my misfortunes.
He said that he was divorced with a child, his parents were dead, and his health was not good, and he was buying a lot of medicine to eat.
The important thing is that he said a key message, he said he wanted to nourish his body, but no one cooked for him, he couldn't, and he was too lazy to move, and he didn't have the heart to adjust his body through exercise.
He spends his days lying in bed or playing with his phone on the couch, and then pins his hopes on taking medicines that will make his body better.
I deeply sympathize with the suffering of my husband as a friend, I introduced him to a small dietary remedy for conditioning the body, and my husband encouraged him to do some gentle exercises, which can also help him to adjust his body as soon as possible.
But the friend whose concept of life has been solidified repeatedly stressed on the phone is that he is difficult, no one to take care of him, he has no way, it is very painful.
People in their thirties, perhaps almost forty years old, still can't fully take responsibility for their own lives, and still put their hopes completely on the care of others.
In the face of such a friend, we can only watch him suffer and give him no strength at all.
Seeing this friend's pain, I wondered how important it was to cultivate self-care ability for children from an early age!
Let the child slowly learn to take full responsibility for their own life, which is the performance of truly loving the child.
Or you don't let him do anything, and in the end, when the parents are gone, will the child still have a good life?
A child's future can live a stable and healthy life, which should be the wish of most parents, but this wish is also inseparable from the cultivation of comprehensive and balanced development from an early age.
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