Many times, unspoken words,
It's all true words, words from the heart,
When the three mouths are silenced, and the words are stopped,
There must be an unspeakable wound on the back.
Mo Fei in "Spring Day Delays And Departures",
In the face of the marriage that has passed six years, but the delay in talking about it,
According to her, it was because of shame and felt disgraceful.
People who generally feel disgraceful,
Must have done something disgraceful,
Because I have done it wrong, I feel ashamed.
But could it be that he was a real victim in that marriage?
The husband gambles badly and is not responsible,
Even export threats, let Mo Fei pay off gambling debts for him.
Can not stop the loss in time, contraception to avoid mud foot deep sinking,
Filed for divorce and returned to freedom.
From beginning to end, mo fei is a proper victim,
Didn't do anything disgraceful, didn't apologize to anyone,
But the word shame came out of her mouth,
It was as if, in that marriage, she had an unforgivable fault.
It turns out that in her concept, divorced women should have a sense of shame,
She did not dare to confess her marriage history to her next boyfriend.
I think divorce is a very disgraceful thing,
When the boyfriend casually says that he can't accept a divorced woman,
She only had uneasiness and trepidation,
As if, her divorce was a thunderous thing.
After the divorce, her relationship with her parents gradually drifted apart.
Without the intimacy of the past,
She said it was all caused by my divorce.
Having a divorced daughter, parents in front of everyone,
Shame on you, you lose your share.
Sometimes, the three views are a very strange thing,
Something that is obviously absurd in the eyes of others,
In the eyes of some people, it is very reasonable,
Just like Mo Fei, obviously very beautiful, very good,
But everywhere I feel inferior,
It should have been like a peacock,
But he buried his head deep into the shell of the turtle.
Although divorce is not a glorious thing, it should not be flaunted,
But divorce is definitely not a shame,
It just ends a relationship and gets two people to start over.
If you treat divorce as a burden, you can't let go of the shame of divorce,
That's the weight you put on yourself,
The road ahead must be difficult.
Can you see divorce as a shame,
It's like we care too much about face.
Obviously it is a dispensable thing,
A lot of people care to die,
Obviously, as long as you put it down and don't care, you can get what you want,
Many people have to carry the weight forward and take face as everything.
What you care about, what can control you.
Like you don't care about divorce,
In the future relationship, she will carry the shame of divorce,
Afraid to talk, afraid to touch, hoping to be understood, but afraid to open their hearts.
Obviously, it is the equality of the two people, but they always feel inferior.
A thin divorce certificate put Mo Fei in a small black room,
Obviously she had the key in her hand, but she didn't have the courage to open the door.
A healthy relationship requires both people to breathe oxygen,
Free and cheerful, free and cheerful,
If one party carries a burden and carries a heavy load,
No amount of oxygen can suffocate people.
There is no love for no reason,
And there is no reason to scatter,
When a fish flies out of the water,
There must be something underneath that it's afraid of,
But the fish that has left the surface of the water,
but lost the opportunity to breathe,
Could it be this fish?
The spell of divorce prevents her from breathing freely in the water,
but without the water on which it depends,
How could you find another like-minded fish?
The cells in the body are renewed every day,
The old cells do not die, and the new cells have no chance of survival.
The same is true of marriage,
The old, the inappropriate ones are not thrown away, the new ones, the right ones will not wave to you,
If you don't get rid of the shame of divorce, you won't find someone who doesn't care about divorce, only you.
Divorce is like a piece of paper,
You care about it, it's a thousand feet thick,
You don't care about it, it's a thin sheet,
With a gentle tear, they immediately separated.