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I don't know if you remember the variety show "Do Not Disturb". The ratings of this variety show that year were quite high. It is precisely because of this girl's words that the program group has brought immeasurable ratings.
That's what Mano said: "I'd rather sit in a BMW and cry than sit on a bike and laugh."
As soon as this sentence came out, Mano was insulted by netizens. That is, overnight, she was labeled a "gold worshipper" by others.
After so many years, how is Mano, who said such extreme things, doing now? Did she realize her dream of "sitting in a BMW and crying"? Why would she say such a thing? Today we will explain.
Born in 1988 in An ordinary family in Beijing, Mano's parents were running for a living, and naturally had no time to take care of Mano. Every day she can only stay at home and look forward to it, at home. But every time his parents came back, they were so busy with housework that they simply didn't have time to spend time with Mano.
Even in this environment, Mano can still grow independently. Know how to share for the family, do not put pressure on their parents, still study hard, hope that they can be admitted to a good school.
Later, Mano graduated from the Beijing Modern Music Academy and was Chinese mainland female model and singer. At first, Mano chose to major in music, but her parents were not particularly supportive of her. Even so, Mano did not ask for much money from his family, but through his own continuous efforts.
However, Mano, who was full of expectations for life, was "beaten" by life during his schooling. She had to think about expenses. For the children of an ordinary family, such expenses are a heavy stone that weighs on her. So she began to work a variety of part-time jobs to alleviate the financial problem. But such a part-time job really doesn't give her much.
Later, Mano talked about a boyfriend who was a few years older than her, and the relationship between the two was OK at first. But because the boy lost his job, Mano could only choose to share it for his boyfriend. But such a relationship does not last long. Under the pressure of life and money, Mano chose to break up.
Life after the breakup is still not good. Mano used every means to make money so that he could live a better life. But that wasn't the case, and her life was still so embarrassing.
After being introduced by a friend, in 2010, Mano participated in the draft of the blind date show "Do Not Disturb". After the success of the draft, Mano always hoped that he could find a ruyi langjun.
At that time, a male guest with a monthly income of only 3,000 yuan had a good feeling for Mano as soon as he came on stage, saying that he liked Mano very much and promised that he would definitely let Mano live a happy life.
At that time, he earned 3,000 a month, and asked Mano if he would like to ride on the bicycle, and Mano directly replied: "I would rather sit in a BMW and cry than sit on the bicycle and laugh." ”
It is also such a sentence that pushed Mano to the cusp of the storm, and it was this sentence that instantly brought extremely high ratings to the program group. Everyone wants to see what kind of person this "mouth-out" girl is.
Netizens' attitude towards her is also mixed. Some people say that in those days, there was nothing wrong with people living at the bottom of society wanting this kind of life, and anyone had the right to pursue happiness. Some people also say that we should not establish this kind of improper three views, she has mediocre qualifications, what qualifications do she have to say so.
Behind the public opinion, Mano threw everything to the program team, claiming that all this was a script, and he was just taking money to do things. But it seems that the vast majority of netizens do not pay the bill, and still insist that she is a "money worshipper".
After many years, has Mano ever had a "dream" of "sitting in a BMW"?
Recently, some netizens broke the news that they saw Mano live on a certain software for many years. She says she's in her 30s, but she's still single.
The number of live broadcasts is not very high, most of the people who come are here to join in the fun, and even some netizens directly asked "Did you sit on the BMW?" After a series of radical remarks, Mano just laughed it off.
The effect of the live broadcast is very bleak, but the mano in life is ok. I opened my own shop, and the sales were OK. As for whether we can sit on BMW, we don't have to delve deeply, after all, it was only a script of the year.
Back to reality, how many people can sit on the bicycle of a boyfriend who earns only 3,000 a month and laugh? Even if you were happy at the time, would you rather live this life every day? Now the life of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, can overwhelm a person, let alone at that time?
And then Mano told the truth, it was all a script. Since everything is arranged, why should we attack a dominant person?
Combined with her background, in that case, if it were you, what would you do? What we should criticize is the content of this sentence, rather than venting all our dissatisfaction on one person. We just need to use what she says as negative teaching material.
As some netizens said, "The full man does not know the hunger of the hungry man, after all, the tragedy of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai is caused by no money, which is also a fact that cannot be changed for thousands of years, most people's inner world spiritual life is still very poor, and the barren pitiful, maybe the material can change themselves." ”
Do you remember the line in "Little Times": "Love without material is like a scattered sand, without the wind, it will be scattered after two steps." ”
How many of us in life don't get into trouble because of money? Should we poke at other people's scars and watch other people laugh again and again? Don't you think that your three views are also problematic?
That's wrong, but we don't know if all this is her own will. What we want to fight against is this abnormal three views, not to hit this person again and again. She was not wrong in herself, but she had to bear unnecessary infamy because of a sentence that was arranged.
You can think about it, if your childhood, your life is like her, what would your choice be? When we blindly deny others because of one thing or another, we first think about it, if we are him or her, what will be our choice?