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"I Can Fly" (medium)
Author: [Center] Guo Feifei
Synopsis
The little penguin wants to fly like other birds, but when it tries, it has trouble! The little penguin is confused because it has wings and can fan, swing and jump like other birds, but when it tries to fly, it will only fall the ice. When it asked Dad why it couldn't fly, Dad told him that penguins could swim. But the little penguin didn't want to accept this answer! Can it find a way to fly?
Shrimp said
"Why can't I fly?" When I was a child, shrimp shrimp also asked my parents countless times. Not to mention the little penguins with small wings. Let's see if the little penguin can learn to fly?
The little penguin wants to fly in the sky
Just like other birds
The little penguin in the distance looked at the flying birds, and the envious little eyes and expressions were real and just right. It was both envious and curious, why did it obviously have wings, but it couldn't fly? Why don't we envy birds flying in the sky?
The author uses a few simple lines to vividly show the cute and chubby little penguin image. Especially when the little penguin and the seagull are talking, the little wings that spread their wings to fly want to prove that it can also fly, and this moment is better than silence.
"But I have wings too"
The little penguin flapped its wings
Try to jump into the air
Sou! Snap!
He smashed into the ice
The cute little penguin fell down in front of his father. Each of us may have had the experience of falling off ice and it must have hurt. But the soft snow on the head of the little penguin in the picture book seemed to melt all the pain.
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Look at Papa Penguin again, asking softly, "Son, what are you doing?" "Papa Penguin's approach is textbook-level, there is no accusation, there is no doting, but it is a matter of fact, this sentence is really wonderful."
When your child tries to challenge something they may not be able to do, even if the injury fails, we must first gently ask "Child, what are you doing?" "。
"I want to fly,
Just like any other bird."
Little Penguin said
"We penguins can't fly
We swim."
Big Penguin said
"I can definitely fly"
The little penguins kept trying
Learn to fly with the little penguin, and the little penguin's movements are simply too cute. I still remember the dance in the kindergarten class, penguin gymnastics, we all grew up learning the gymnastics of the little penguins. Simple actions, but full of countless memories. The little penguin after the fall, the little foot that stretches out, is motionless and does not need any text description. A good picture book is really a picture worth a thousand words.
Even if all the penguins and birds around him told him that penguins could not fly, even in the sympathetic and pitiful eyes of all the birds, this cute little penguin had to bravely try to see if he could fly.
How do you know if you can do it without trying? The little penguin tried hard, and it kept fanning, flapping its wings, fanning it. Even if it is tired to the ground, it has never given up its dreams in its heart. Stick to your heart and don't live for the expectations of others. A lot of our anxiety also comes from the desire to live in the eyes of others, and may we all stick to our hearts like little penguins.
The little penguin fell again and again, but still did not stop trying, and it was in many falls that he understood his boundaries.
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When the little penguin said to his father, I want to fly like other birds, the penguin father did not pour cold water on the child, nor did he teach a lesson in the face of the split head, let alone put the facts in a reasonable way. He did not tell the child the answer, but calmly and gently guided the child: "We can't fly, we swim." ”
When parents say "no", children are naturally unconvinced. Children are the protagonists of their own lives, and they will only grow if they have tried themselves. All parents can do is wait patiently for their children to grow.
After countless attempts
Little penguins were planted in the sea
Dad arrived in time
Grabbed the wings of the little penguin
They swim on the sea
Does this picture have a feeling of quiet years? The leap of the penguin father and the little penguin makes the picture full of movement, but the overall painting style gives people a sense of calm, and the combination of dynamic and static is particularly good. The Antarctic iceberg, the ocean, and the sky are also composed of simple basic tones of blue, white, and gray, so the visual center of gravity is more likely to be occupied by the dynamic form of the little black penguin.
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The timely appearance of the penguin father and the rescue of the little penguin are simply too touching. When the little penguin wrestled and tired in the process of trying, the penguin father silently and calmly let the child go on his own adventure; but when the little penguin encountered danger, he rushed to escort him at the first time.
Daddy Penguin, it's really too warm! If parents can be like penguin fathers, calm and gentle, let the children try, explore, and even take risks on their own, quit and help in time, and give the child the right amount of love, then the child will grow on his own.
"It's like flying"
Little Penguin thought
This painting is a favorite of shrimp shrimp! Birds fly freely, and father penguins and little penguins swim happily around the heavens and the earth. Other possibilities were bred in each failure, and after countless attempts, the little penguin also experienced the feeling of flying!
The author Guo Feifei once said: "I can't say that I have a dream and be brave to chase it, because I know that dreams need to pay a certain price, even if I seem to be a lucky enough person." Dreams may indeed be important, but we must not forget the cost and effort to achieve dreams, that is more important than the dream itself. ”
"Swimming is like flying
Huh, Dad? "
"Yeah,
It's almost the same thing.
My baby."
I can fly!
When you're with kids, what to do and say isn't the point. The point is to be with him, so that he feels that he can think of whatever he wants, do whatever he wants, and his parents will be with him. Just such a simple linking process can allow children to absorb enough nutrients from it.
The process of human growth is actually a process of psychological growth, not a process of intellectual growth, and intellectual growth is attached to psychological growth. All we need is to provide children with an environment that suits them to grow up.
A peach tree, must be peach blossoms, peaches, as long as it is given a natural environment, do not give it genetic modification, you do not have to worry about it will grow other fruits. Man is like a seed, if he is connected to his own life force, physically and mentally sufficiently nourished, he will bloom the flowers of his own life.
We should trust our children, even though they may not have traditional success, but I only want them to be the best version of themselves.
The little penguin that chases the dream is only to realize the dream of flying, but after countless attempts, the little penguin will definitely be more powerful than it was in the past.
Finally, I will end today with a song by Kaneko Mizu's "Me and the Bird and the Bell". We are not the same, but we are all unique.
I was a bird and a bell
Kaneko Mizuru
I stretched out my arms,
Nor can it fly in the sky,
A bird that can fly can't be like me,
Run fast on the ground.
I shake my body,
I can't shake a nice sound,
The bell that would ring could not be like me
I can sing lots of songs.
Bells, birds,
And me,
We're not the same,
We were all great.